unkind
US /ʌnˈkaɪnd/
・UK /ˌʌn'kaɪnd/
B1 中級
adj.形容詞不親切な
He was unkind enough not to help at all
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Apple、Siri強化のためChatGPT導入計画を発表 | BBC News (Apple announces plan to boost Siri with ChatGPT | BBC News)
- Elon Musk has got some pretty unkind things to say about that team up.
イーロン・マスクはこのチームについて、かなり冷酷な物言いをしている。
- Elon Musk has got some pretty, um, unkind things to say about that team-up.
イーロン・マスクはこのチームについて、かなり冷酷な物言いをしている。
情報過多の危険性 (The Dangers of Oversharing)
- A painful developmental story tends to lie behind the compulsion. We share too much when we have been too lonely. We fail to understand the risks of overexposure when we have suffered in environments in which so little sincere or real was ever exchanged. We rush to confess because no one showed us a steady, composed route to intimacy. To the isolated former child, no alarm sounds at the thought of having an unbarred conversation with a character who entered the room twenty minutes ago. Such is the promise and lure of togetherness. Such has been the burden of secrecy. We might with time make our peace with remaining somewhat more mysterious. We might more judiciously weigh up the benefits of a sugar-rush of disclosure against the slower satisfactions of safety. We might tell very few people indeed what is going on for us in love, with our health or with work, not because we want to be unkind or boring, but because our first priority has become to look after ourselves.
その強迫観念の背後には、つらい成長物語が横たわっている傾向がある。あまりに孤独だったとき、私たちは多くを共有する。私たちは、誠意や本物がほとんど交わされない環境で苦しんできたとき、過剰な露出のリスクを理解できない。私たちが告白を急ぐのは、親密になるための着実で落ち着いたルートを誰も教えてくれなかったからだ。孤立した元子供にとって、20分前に部屋に入ってきた人物と遠慮のない会話をしようと思っても、何の警報も鳴らない。それが一体感の約束であり、魅力なのだ。秘密がもたらす重荷。時間が経てば、もう少しミステリアス
- We might tell very few people, indeed, what is going on for us in love, with our health, or with work—not because we want to be unkind or boring,
コモンウェルス事務総長パトリシア・スコットランド氏：CNBCインタビュー (Commonwealth Secretary-General Patricia Scotland: The CNBC Conversation)
- And I think people just think in this world of trauma and difficulty, where people can be actually really unkind to each other, to come somewhere where you can find kindness and you can be yourself and still be loved is pretty special.
そして、人々は、人々がお互いに本当に意地悪になれるようなトラウマや困難に満ちた世界で、親切さを見つけ、自分らしくいられて、それでも愛される場所に来られるというのは、かなり特別だと考えていると思います。
- and where people can be actually really unkind to each other, to come somewhere where you can find kindness and you can be yourself and still be loved is pretty special.
それはどれほど重要なことでしょうか？
なぜ見捨てられた人々は自分自身を憎むのか (Why Unloved People Hate Themselves)
- It doesn't ask, "What is wrong with my parents for not loving me adequately?" It simply wonders, in a forlorn way, "What have I done wrong in order to have ended up on the receiving end of my parents' disapproval?" The child prefers to attack itself for being bad than to confront a yet more awful possibility - that it is entirely dependent for its well-being on inadequate and unkind parental figures.
親に反対されるような悪いことをしたのだろうか？
- The child prefers to attack itself for being bad than to confront a yet more awful possibility that it's entirely dependent for its well-being on inadequate and unkind parental figures.
子どもは、自分の幸福を不十分で不親切な親に全面的に依存しているという、さらにひどい可能性に直面するよりも、自分が悪いのだと自分を攻撃することを好む。
優しさの暗部 (The Dark Side Of KINDNESS)
- You're not unkind for saying "no" or needing space.
神経化学的な罠を思い出してください。
- You're not unkind for saying "no." You're simply learning to stop abandoning yourself.
では、自分に問いかけてみてください。これは本当でしょうか？
トラウマではなく、傷ついているだけ (You're not traumatized you're just hurt)
- Being unclear is unkind, so communicate your feelings instead of avoiding conflict.
そして、誰のニーズを優先するかを決めるこの駆け引きは、最善の判断に基づいてバランスを取るべき、ケースバイケースのものです。
- Being unclear is unkind.
曖昧にすることは、親切ではありません。
ピート・タウンゼント「レッツ・マイ・ラヴ・オープン・ザ・ドア」 - ザ・レイト・ショーのコマーシャル・ブレイクダウン (Pete Townshend "Let My Love Open The Door" - The Late Show's Commercial Breakdown)
- When everybody come over when everybody seems unkind I give you a four leaf clover Take all worry out of your mind Let my love open the door Let my love open the door Let my love open the door to your heart.
みんなが来てくれる時、みんなが意地悪に見える時、四つ葉のクローバーをあげるわ。心配事を全部忘れて。私の愛がドアを開けるわ。私の愛がドアを開けるわ。私の愛がドアを開けるわ、あなたの心へのドアを。
- When everybody's bored, when everybody seems unkind, I'll give you a four-leaf clover.