self-absorbed
US /ˌsɛlfəbˈsɔrbd, -ˈzɔrbd/
・UK /ˈselfəbˈsɔ:bd/
B1 中級
phr.句自己吸収
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偽の友達だけがすること7選 (7 Things Only Fake Friends Do)
- The communication between you two feels largely one-sided because fake friends are self-absorbed and inconsiderate.
あなたたちの間のコミュニケーションは、偽の友達は自己中心的で配慮に欠けるため、一方的だと感じられるでしょう。
- The communication between you two feels largely one-sided because fake friends are self-absorbed and inconsiderate.
彼らはあなたや、あなたが言いたいことについてあまり気にしません。
「ボディーランゲージ」は本音を隠せない？！その理由とは？
- You had that skill when you were very young, but you lost it because you became so oriented with words and you became so self-absorbed that you're not paying attention.
幼い頃はそのスキルがあったのに、言葉を志向するあまり自己中心的になってしまい、注意力が低下してしまったために、そのスキルを失ってしまったんです。
- but you lost it because you became so oriented with words and you became so self-absorbed that you're not paying attention.
でもボディランゲージは 嘘をつかないでしょう？
ソシオパスがナルシシストに出会うとどうなるか (What Happens When A Sociopath Meets A Narcissist)
- Attention-seeking and self-absorbed, narcissists believe themselves to be superior to everyone and deserving of special treatment.
注目を集めることに飢え、自己中心的なナルシストは、自分が誰よりも優れており、特別な扱いを受けるべきだと信じている。
- Attention-seeking and self-absorbed, narcissists believe themselves to be superior to everyone and deserving of special treatment.
彼らは自分自身について完璧で壮大な考えを持っており、地位、人気、成功を空想することが多い。
自己認識の欠如がもたらす危険 (The Dangers of Missing a Sense of Self)
- I supposed to like? Not what do I approve of, but what is it good to approve of? Not what do I find funny, but when should I laugh? When we watch them carefully, we may notice rapid almost arbitrary shifts in their views. They love this artist or jacket or political opinion, but in fact no, they prefer another one and then another. They are implicitly constantly calling out to a world which puzzles and terrifies them. Who should I be? What is it right to think? These poor souls tend to be the products of very particular sorts of childhood. When little, they will have faced environments in which their uniqueness was never a matter of concern to their self-absorbed caregivers. Mother or father were never able to push their needs aside for a time to drop to their level and ask, who is this extraordinary new member of the human race whom I have helped to create? What are their particular inclinations and loves and hates? What do they have to tell me? They were far too perturbed and fragile for such self-abnegation. They couldn't attune to the child and so the child could not, in turn, attune to themselves. For we can only find out what we think if, in the early days, someone was sufficiently patient to facilitate our own process of self-discovery, if someone didn't shout over us and say, don't be ridiculous when we ventured forth an opinion, or didn't use all the resources of adulthood to insist that their way was the only way. The self-less child will have had to cope with an egotist who simply coerced them to follow an already predetermined agenda. These are the books you need to think are amazing. The only way to be a good boy or girl is to win at this kind of sport or that school subject and later to be a banker or a vet and so on, all without in any way bothering to check in on how this might have felt to the small person biologically programmed to adore and revere them. From this was drawn a moral. Survival depends on compliance. The price of existing is the sacrifice of one's real identity. Self-less people can be deeply charming. Their manner can be exquisitely polite and mellifluous. They are built to work out what we like and to reflect it back to us. They aren't merely pretending to go along with what we think for a few minutes. They genuinely seek out our worldview and lose themselves in it. But these people also pose grave dangers. For no one forgoes their sense of self without storing up a significant degree of rage and dissatisfaction. Yet this can never emerge cleanly because the candid expression of their needs was never something that these selfless people were allowed to practice. The first we're liable to learn about a problem they have with us is when it's become unmanageable. We can be most at risk if we fall in love with these elusive, beguiling, shapeshifting people. At first, it's our tastes they want to understand. It's the books and places and foods we like that seem especially interesting to them. We can allow ourselves a dangerous moment of self-indulgence. We're made to feel marvellous and aren't suspicious enough to wonder why.
何が好きなんだ？何を認めるかではなく、何を認めるのが良いのか？何が面白いかではなく、いつ笑えばいいのか？彼らを注意深く観察していると、ほとんど恣意的に近い急激な見解の変化に気づくことがある。彼らはこのアーティストやジャケットや政治的意見を愛しているが、実際はそうではなく、別のものを好み、また別のものを好む。彼らは、自分たちを当惑させ、恐怖させる世界に対して、暗黙のうちに常に呼びかけているのだ。私はどうあるべきか？何を考えるのが正しいのか？このような哀れな魂は、非常に特殊な子供時代の産物である傾向がある。幼
- When little, they will have faced environments in which their uniqueness was never a matter of concern to their self-absorbed caregivers.
トランプは我々を自分と同じくらい愚かだと思っている、石油価格について我々をガスライティングしている、ヘグセスは繊細なスノーフレークだ (Trump Thinks We're as Dumb as He Is, Gaslights Us on Oil Prices & Hegseth’s a Sensitive Snowflake)
- Who would have ever guessed the guy who spent thousands of taxpayer dollars on a makeup studio might be a little bit self absorbed.
納税者のお金を何千ドルもメイクスタジオにつぎ込んだ男が、少し自己中心的かもしれないなんて、誰が予想できたでしょうか。
- Who would have ever guessed the guy who spent thousands of taxpayer dollars on a makeup s-studio might be a little bit self-absorbed?
角を二本とハンドルをあげてください。
ノーキングスの集会はCPACのトランプ賛美を止められない＆イラン戦争1ヶ月 | ザ・デイリー・ショー (No Kings Rallies Can’t Stop CPAC's Trump Glazing & Iran War Hits One Month | The Daily Show)
- But Trump gets to be just the same old, ain't I a stinker, utterly self-absorbed remember when I used to want a hot girl's twat self?
この政権からずっと聞いているのは、アメリカ国民がトランプ氏の偉大なアメリカというビジョンをなぜ犠牲にしなければならないのか、これらの一時的な混乱は単なるプロセスの一部だということです。
- But Trump gets to be just the same old, ain't I a stinker, utterly self-absorbed remember when I used to want a hot girl's twat self?
しかし、トランプ氏はいつものように、「俺はなんてひどい奴なんだ」と、完全に自己中心的で「昔は可愛い女の子のあの部分が欲しかったな」と思い出すような人間でいられるのです。
今すぐ離れるべき！TOXICフレンド5つの特徴
- Toxic people who incessantly play the victim card but never take responsibility for what they are capable of fixing aren't just whiny, they're self-absorbed.
いつも被害者面していて、自分で何とかできそうなことすらしない、周りに悪影響を与えるような人物は、機嫌が悪いだけではなく、自分のことしか頭にないのです。
- they're self-absorbed.
友人なら、あなたが目標を達成するのを応援してくれる人であるべきだし、足を引っ張るのではなく、前進していくための手助けをしてくれるべきです。
トム・クルーズ、エレンの部屋に初登場（フルインタビュー） (Tom Cruise's First Appearance on The Ellen Show (Full Interview))
- You're a genuine guy that pays attention and listens and talks to people and you're not self-absorbed.
あなたは人に気を配り、耳を傾け、話をする純粋な男で、自己中心的なところがない。
- And you're not self-absorbed.
だから、私はあなたがまだ...
英語会話力向上 | コミュニケーション＆スモールトークのコツ6選（具体例付き！） (Improve your English conversation skills | 6 communication & small talk tips (with examples!))
- In fact, if you go on and on and on, you might end up seeming self-absorbed.
趣味は何ですか？
- In fact, if you go on and on and on, you might end up seeming self-absorbed.
それどころか、延々と話し続けると、自己中心的と思われてしまうかもしれない。