kinder
US /'kɪndər/
・UK /'kɪndə(r)/
A2 初級
adj.形容詞より親切な
The weather in the countryside was kinder compared to the city
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依存症の克服方法 (How to Weaken the Hold of Addiction)
- The behaviours always have roots in an intense, normally childhood-derived sense of being a terrible, unworthy person. In summary, the route to stopping addictive behaviour is to ask oneself how one is feeling, realise one is probably feeling very bad, grow curious about and sympathetic to the causes and then ask, what would be a better, kinder way of handling this sense of awfulness? Knowing that there is room and love for the feeling that provokes addiction is the key to weakening the hold of – and one day overcoming – what we are addicted to.
その行動の根源は常に、自分はひどい人間で、価値のない人間だという、通常なら幼少期に由来する強烈な感覚にある。要約すると、嗜癖行動を止めるには、自分がどう感じているかを自問し、おそらくとても嫌な気分になっていることに気づき、その原因について興味を持ち、共感するようになり、そして、このひどいという感覚を扱うのに、より良い、より優しい方法は何だろうかと問うことである。依存症を引き起こす感情には余裕があり、愛があることを知ることが、依存症に陥っているものを弱め、いつか克服する鍵なのだ。
- and then ask: What would be a better, kinder way of handling this sense of awfulness?
義務感について (On Feeling Obliged)
- On our gravestone, it might as well say: "Got here a lot earlier out of an inability to say no." It gets worse the kinder a person happens to be to us and the more emotional the relationship.
私たちのお墓には、「断れなかったために、ずっと早くここに来てしまった」と書かれているかもしれません。親切な人や、感情的な関係が深まるほど、事態は悪化します。
- On our gravestone, it might as well say, "Got here a lot earlier out of an inability to say no." It gets worse the kinder a person happens to be to us and the more emotional the relationship.
パートナーに対してためらいを感じても、彼らが両親に会うこと、同棲すること、結婚することについて話すとき、私たちは笑顔でいるでしょう。
子供たちが好きな人への気持ちを告白 (Kids Confess Their Feelings About Their Crush)
- I met him in Kinder.
- 私には一人のときめきがあります。
- - I met him in Kinder.
- 私はキンダーで彼と一緒にいます。
元カレ・元カノと復縁する前に — これを見て (Before You Get Back With Your Ex — Watch THIS)
- Frank answers can spare a couple decades of squabbling. Next, what trouble do I bring into the relationship? How am I difficult to live around? There should be no bristling here. Bearable people have a good handle on their unbearable dimensions. We don't need people to be perfect, we just need them to have a decent sense of how imperfect they are and how much their imperfections are going to cause the other pain. Then, what trouble do you bring into the relationship? How are you difficult to live around? We need agreement on the mutual complications that are being brought to the table. Both people should write their answers down, then show the other their analyses. Can both sides agree on what's most horrible in each person? The more alignment there can be, the less future criticism has to feel like nagging, and the more it can fit into a kinder project of helping someone to change as they would, at their saner moments, wish to change. Then, which bits of my anxiety and unhappiness did I discover were not, after all, your fault? What continued to be difficult even without you around? It's highly tempting when in a relationship to assume that all the misery we face is the fault of the lover. We attribute to the main person in our lives a commanding role in determining our state of mind. But when they're gone, we may be forced to realise a more complex truth – that our low moods and neuroses have their origins, in large part, in us rather than in them. It can, oddly, no longer all be their fault. How did life remain hard, even without them? What might they not be to blame for? Then, what I now appreciate more properly about you is… We're meant never to lose sight of what was great about them, but in reality, we sometimes need the perspective of time to get clearer about their virtues. In the long months since we were together, what sides of them did we realise we most deeply valued? Then, what did I learn from meeting other people? A truly tricky subject, but as we're realising, it's a capacity for eating humble pie that stands a restarted relationship in such good stead.
率直な答えは、数十年にわたるいさかいを避けることができる。次に、私は人間関係にどんなトラブルを持ち込むのか？私はどう生きづらいのか？ここで歯向かうことはないはずだ。耐えられる人は、耐えられない次元をうまくコントロールしている。人は完璧である必要はなく、自分がどれだけ不完全で、その不完全さがどれだけ相手を苦しめることになるかをきちんと理解している必要があるのだ。では、あなたは人間関係にどんな問題を持ち込むのか？どのように生きづらいのか？持ち込まれるお互いの煩わしさについての合意が必要だ。両者とも答えを書き出
- And the more it can fit into a kinder project of helping someone to change as they would, at their saner moments, wish to change.
日本の保育園の一日 (What a Day in a Japanese Daycare is like)
- This is Aika, a teacher at this nursery school responsible for their kindergarten class called Here kinder for short, which is between 4 and 5 years old.
こちらが、この保育園で、4歳から5歳児の幼稚園クラス「Here kinder」を担当している先生のアイカさんです。
- This is Aika, a teacher at this nursery school responsible for their kindergarten class, called here "kinder" for short, which is between 4 and 5 years old.
こちらで働いてどのくらいになりますか？
マティスはどのように美術における色彩に革命をもたらしたか (How Matisse Revolutionized Color In Art)
- A few critics applauded the boldness of the painting, but most attacked it savagely, and the public was no kinder.
数人の批評家はその大胆さを称賛したが、ほとんどの批評家は酷評した。
- And the public was no kinder.
批評家ルイ・ヴォーセルが、画期的な新しい方法で色彩を使っていたマティスや他の画家たちを野獣、フランス語でフォーヴ（野獣）と蔑んだことが、フォーヴィズムの誕生につながった。
マスターベーションのしすぎとは？ (How Much Masturbation Is Too Much?)
- Seeing masturbation as a neutral, human behavior helps you build a kinder relationship with your body.
脳はその安らぎを記憶し、自然と再びそれを求めるようになります。
- Seeing masturbation as a neutral human behavior helps you build a kinder relationship with your body.
マスターベーションを中立的な人間の性行動として捉えることは、ご自身の体とのより優しい関係を築くのに役立ちます。
エルモの虹とシャボン玉！ | セサミストリート2話分フルエピソード (Elmo's Rainbow and Bubbles! | TWO Sesame Street Full Episodes)
- You're getting smarter, stronger, kinder.
より賢く、より強く、より優しくなっている。
- You're getting smarter, stronger, kinder.
より賢く、より強く、より優しくなっている。
世界が謝罪すべきセレブ10人 (10 Celebrities The World Needs to Apologize To)
- For all the love we claimed for her, we should have been kinder.
彼女に注いだ愛のすべてに対して、私たちはもっと優しくすべきでした。
- For all the love we claimed for her, we should have been kinder.
今日一日中泣いてしまいそうです。