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  • We all get a little more self-conscious when we're around our crush.

  • We might put extra deodorant, make sure there's nothing stuck in between our teeth, and wear our best clothes.

  • But what happens when your crush is an introvert?

  • They might not even notice you when they got their head buried in their book.

  • Your path's rarely crossed when it seems like the two of you have different interests.

  • And yet, it only took one time for you to notice how special they are.

  • Here are five helpful tips when your crush is an introvert.

  • One: Just because they're still reserved around you doesn't mean they always will be.

  • Patience is the way to an introvert's heart.

  • It takes time for introverts to open up.

  • It might seem like they're not into you if they're emotionally reserved,

  • but this doesn't mean they don't want to get any closer to you.

  • I thought my boyfriend wasn't into me on our first date when he was closed off.

  • But boy was I wrong, give them time and don't be discouraged or intimidated.

  • Instead, see it as an opportunity to work up your charm.

  • Two: When making plans, choose less crowded places that are comfy and casual.

  • Introverts prefer comfy, low-key settings over loud, hectic areas.

  • This doesn't mean they never go to big events or parties,

  • but they prefer to do it in small doses.

  • When choosing activities to do together,

  • be considerate and pick fun things the both of you can enjoy without stressing your crush out.

  • Going to the beach when it's not so busy,

  • Watching a movie on rainy days,

  • and visiting the art museum are all some options to keep in mind.

  • My boyfriend's personal favorite is going to quiet places with me where he can get great shots on his camera.

  • Three: Don't take it personally if your crush needs some alone time.

  • You probably want to spend as much time with them as possible.

  • That's understandable, who doesn't enjoy hanging out with their crush.

  • But, introverts can get overwhelmed after a long day,

  • even extroverts need to recharge.

  • Be supportive and allow them time to unwind.

  • It just means they're preparing for the next time you guys hang out.

  • Bonus points if you leave them a cute note or encouraging text.

  • Four: Speaking of texts, find out the best way they prefer to communicate.

  • Some introverts, especially shy ones

  • feel more comfortable texting instead of talking in person when you first meet them.

  • Whereas others hate texting all the time and prefer to make plans to hang out in person.

  • Find out what their communication patterns are and contact them accordingly.

  • My boyfriend hates talking on the phone unless it's an emergency,

  • so we stick to face-to-face conversations and text messages.

  • It might be hard to get the ball rolling initially,

  • but introverts like to feel connected to the people they talked to,

  • so skip the small talk and dive deep.

  • Five: You don't have to be introverted to make a good impression.

  • Yes, birds of a feather flock together but opposites also attract.

  • Just because your crush is an introvert

  • doesn't mean they're expecting their ideal lover to be one too.

  • If you're an extrovert,

  • Be mindful of their space and always ask before assuming they like going to the same exciting places as you.

  • Introverts know how to have fun too, but some activities, events and settings can be too much for them.

  • It's not about changing who you are, but meeting somewhere in the middle.

  • Introverts can be hard to read,

  • so we hope these tips come in handy.

  • What are some challenges you face with your introverted crush?

  • Please share your thoughts with us below.

  • Also, don't forget to subscribe for more content from Psych2Go and check out our Patreon.

  • Thanks for watching!

We all get a little more self-conscious when we're around our crush.

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