Name: 典型的な日本の結婚式の本当の姿 (What a Typical Japanese Wedding is Really Like)
Uploaded: 2025-08-13T17:52:00.000Z
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This is what a typical Japanese wedding is like So this is gonna be a special one because I get to share with you a real deal Japanese wedding And even more special is that it's my sister-in-law, Maiko's sister, Eri-chan's wedding Many of you first met her in my day in the life of a Japanese car repair worker and probably most recently saw her in my last new year's video with Junya, today's groom And this is their typical Japanese wedding which can be quite different than western ones Well, you can let me know in the comments after this video.

典型的な日本の結婚式はこんな感じです。今回は特別に、本物の日本の結婚式をお見せします。さらに特別なのは、私の義理の妹、マイコの妹、エリちゃんの結婚式です。

Also, if there's anything else that I missed You're good, dude.

あと、もし僕が見逃したことがあれば、いつでも言ってくれ。

Daddy First the dress code Let me just say it's typically a lot more strict in Japan as there are countless rules especially for females for example Women can't show their shoulders knees toes wear furs or animal prints and the list goes on and when you attend as a family Of the bride and groom you must absolutely follow the rules so they don't lose face for friends though I should say there are some gray areas So Maiko's mom aka the bride's mom is wearing a black kimono Also known as kuro tome sode each kimono having a class level based on its pattern This is quite important as it's actually quite rude to wear a higher class kimono than the mother of the bride and groom The two moms basically decide in advance what they're gonna wear So none of the other guests shows up to outshine them both as for men usually dark suits and white ties are required But if the wedding is more informal a colored tie can be worn as well But basically no black ties.

例えば、女性は肩を出してはいけないとか、膝の指を出してはいけないとか、毛皮を着てはいけないとか、アニマル柄を着てはいけないとか、数え切れないほどのルールがあります。これは、新郎新婦の母親より格の高い着物を着ることは失礼にあたるので、とても重要なことなのです。2人の母親は、基本的に事前に着るものを決めておくので、他のゲストが2人に負けないようにするために現れることはありません。

So yeah, I kind of pushed it a little bit with renting a tux But I definitely asked eddy chan if I could wear it in advance, so I didn't piss any of them off You know, it's a special occasion.

でも、事前にエディ・チャンにタキシードが着れるかどうか聞いておいたから、みんなを怒らせることはなかったよ。

Oh also no sunglasses Okay, so this is the waiting room area the waiting room.

サングラスがない......そうか、ここは待合室なんだ......待合室。

The reception is usually at the front of the waiting room This is the place where they take attendance and gather the wedding gift money called goshugi when you attend a japanese wedding You must absolutely bring a wedding gift, which is typically only cash in addition It's critical to use a special envelope specifically designed for the wedding gift where the ribbons are made not to be untied and the amount Itself is critical friends and co-workers are expected to give at least 30 000 yen per person about 225 while cousins and relatives give at least 30 000 yen to 100 000 yen and immediate family members are expected to gift Even more ie baiko.

受付は待合室の前が一般的で、ここで出欠を取り、ご祝儀を集めます、一般的には現金のみだが、結婚祝い専用の封筒を使い、リボンがほどけないようにすることと、金額が重要である。友人や職場の同僚は一人当たり3万円以上225円程度、いとこや親戚は3万円から10万円程度、直系親族はそれ以上を贈ることになる。

Oh and the cash itself must only be brand new bills Interestingly japan being japan even yen amounts are not preferred because it can be split Which is bad luck since no one wants to talk about splitting up at a wedding Also the amounts with four and nine need to be avoided because the numbers sound like death and suffering in japanese hence 40 000 yen and 60 000 yen are unacceptable amounts get any of this wrong and your wedding gift could be considered rude Oh, and usually there'll be a welcome board and table like this to welcome the guests because the bride and groom can't the board Itself is probably common all around the world But maybe the table is not so much basically it represents and shares the couple's favorite activities and interests The family only meeting before the ceremony starts the family gets to see the bride and groom first before any of the other guests in A separate room.

また、「4」と「9」は日本語で「死」や「苦」を意味するため、「4万円」や「6万円」は避けなければならない、新郎新婦はゲストを迎えることができないので、通常はこのようなウェルカムボードとテーブルが用意される。 ボード自体はおそらく世界中で一般的なものだろうが、テーブルは基本的に二人の好きな活動や趣味を表し、共有するものだ。

So yeah, no rule about the bride and groom not seeing each other before the wedding And then later the extended family meet each other introduced typically by the father of each side now the gift that keeps on giving So while we're here and the family is getting introduced Let me quickly talk about the other side of the gift money while it's quite an investment for a guest Especially if they're attending several in a year for the bride and groom who are responsible for the overall wedding costs Also typically bear the cost of out of city travel for both family and friends they'll pay for the transportation and hotel fees even going as far as to make the Reservations and sometimes for family friends even organize and pay for the hair to get done just before the ceremony Isn't maiko's hair nice?

そう、結婚式の前に新郎新婦が顔を合わせないというルールはありません。 そして、その後、親戚同士が顔を合わせます。一般的には、それぞれの父親が紹介します。新郎新婦が結婚式の総費用を負担し、家族も友人も市外への旅費を負担するのが一般的である。

So this looks like the ceremony area right here Now for the kyoushiki aka ceremony japanese weddings consist of two parts a ceremony where they exchange vows and Reception followed afterwards what happened during the ceremony is pretty much the same as western weddings The groom appears the bride walks down the aisle with the father They exchange vows Exchange rings kiss and then walk back up the aisle Oh and just before they exchange rings, what do you know wolfie was the ring bearer He sure knows how to capture the audience attention.

日本の結婚式は、誓いの言葉を交わすセレモニーと、その後のレセプションの2部構成になっている。

Let's just watch him while I speak about the next point In erichan's wedding this ceremony is held at the reception venue itself But it's not surprising to have it at a different location like a church and for more traditional japanese weddings at a shrine With more traditional attire or even do both versions these days though It's fairly typical to do it all at one location like this wedding and there you go package delivered on time Now for the heroine also known as the reception It's basically a dinner party in a banquet hall a party to announce the family and friends that they just got married The seating is decided by the host to ensure that the guests are as comfortable as possible So I guess the parent side sits all the way in the back because we have us here and then other parents over there So apparently in japan immediate family members are considered as hosts.

エリチャンの結婚式では、この式は披露宴会場で執り行われるが、教会や神社など別の場所で執り行われてもおかしくない。さて、ヒロインの披露宴ですが、基本的には宴会場での食事会で、家族や友人に結婚したことを報告するパーティーです。

So they usually are seated in the back I guess i'm considered part of the immediate family dope And look we even got presents when you arrive at your seat you'll find a bag on it This is called the hiki de mono and it's a gift for the guests to bring back home Items are carefully chosen by the bride and groom and it's common to include items like tableware Confections and even gift catalogs for guests to later choose what type of gifts they want sent to their home Guests receive this as a thank you for attending the wedding before we continue I want to give a quick shout out to the sponsor of this video square space If you already know square space is the number one way to build an online presence In fact, I use squarespace for my website tokyo zebra Here are just some of the reasons why I love using squarespace so much Whether you're starting your passion project or building a business Squarespace has all the tools to get it done while also looking ultra sleek and professional at the same time They support numerous portfolios and gallery designs Which you can customize and even password protect so the right people see your work use its fully integrated blogging tools and commenting features Such as threaded comments replies and likes to help engage your community and my personal favorite built-in Analytics to see how your visits unique visitors and page views trend over time So there you go Go to squarespace.com today for your free trial and when you're ready to launch go to squarespace.com Or just ask paolo from tokyo and get 10% off your personal main or website Oh eddie tennant jr here now the party has officially started Thank you The reception program is run by the venue's mc in between all the entertainment food and drinks It goes by pretty fast and check this out.

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We just got some food here So this is what you would find typically at a japanese wedding.

これは日本の結婚式でよく見られるものだ。

We're not all food It's gonna be japanese, but you do have sashimi here.

日本食ばかりではないけど、刺身もあるよ。

That's some crab here, too, but it just looks so good The toast so who does the toast well at this wedding everyton's boss is doing the toast You may remember him in my previous video Usually a boss or older friend gives a speech and makes a toast at a japanese wedding fun little fact in the past Bosses and relatives were often invited to weddings as they are typically required to give a greater amount of gift money But these days it's become more popular to invite close friends instead to share this occasion Foreign The parent greetings So in between the program the parents visit all the tables to greet and thank every single guest for coming Usually they bring beer bottles so they can pour glasses and do a kanpai together.

ここにもカニが乾杯の音頭 この結婚式では、誰が乾杯の音頭をとるのでしょうか？前回のビデオでご紹介した、エブリトンの上司が乾杯の音頭をとります。しかし最近では、親しい友人を招待し、この機会を共有するのが一般的になってきている。 両親の挨拶 プログラムの合間に、両親はすべてのテーブルを回り、来てくれたゲスト一人ひとりに挨拶と感謝の言葉を述べる。

Don't mind if I do So in japan, you don't have a best man or a best woman Best man and bridesmaid for these ladies and these gentlemen look like the best men and bridesmaids But they're simply helping out with part of the show during the reception In fact, it's typical not to have a best man or bridesmaid at a japanese wedding While we enjoy the program Let me talk about how the wedding invitations work first of all michael wolfie and I were specifically invited to this joyous occasion But this may or may not be so obvious as there's not really the concept in japanese weddings of a plus one If you're attending a japanese wedding Your name was specifically written on the invitation months in advance as a whole event is so overly planned and follows a strict schedule Coming as an unknown is rare.

日本の結婚式では、ベストマンやベストウーマンがいないのが一般的です、日本の結婚式では、ベストマンもブライズメイドもいないのが一般的です。 プログラムを楽しみつつ、結婚式の招待状の仕組みについてお話ししましょう。まず、マイケル・ウーフィーと私はこの喜ばしい機会に特別に招待されました。

Oftentimes even michael will get invited to her friend's japanese wedding and I her husband Won't even be invited and vice versa.

マイケルの友人の日本の結婚式に招待されても、彼女の夫は招待されないこともよくあるし、その逆もある。

マイケル、僕たちはいつからダンスを始めたんだい？

Nobody dance No afterwards like nobody's like starts to Oh my god The letter reading at the end of the reception it's customary to have a letter read to the parents from the daughter It's usually a heartwarming teary moment for everyone and the parents stand in the back taking it all in Okay Before the couple leave the room usually the father of the groom gives the last speech to wrap it all up Another fun part of a japanese wedding is the end roll video They edit the video on the day and play it at the end after the bride and groom leave the room It's crazy how fast they edit it, you know, it takes michael and I several days if not weeks to make our videos So it's pretty impressive in the video itself.

披露宴の最後には、娘から両親への手紙を読む習慣がある。カップルが退場する前に、通常、新郎の父親が最後のスピーチをし、すべてをまとめます。 日本の結婚式のもうひとつの楽しみは、エンドロールビデオです。当日、ビデオを編集し、新郎新婦が退場した後、最後に流します、マイケルと私はビデオを作るのに、数週間とは言わないまでも、数日はかかる。

You usually see yourself at least once as well as the highlights of this happy day Okay, so we are finishing up right now after this there's gonna be an easy guy which is like an after party but The family is really not supposed to go The send-off finally when you're leaving the bride and groom are the ones that send you off at the entrance with a little gift So i'm gonna end it here if you guys like this video help me out and hit that like button If you guys want to see more videos like this or anything related to japan Hit that subscribe button and the bell button.

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