put up with
US /pʊt ʌp wɪð/
・UK /put ʌp wið/
A1 初級TOEIC
phr. v.句動詞耐える
I have put up with terrible headaches for years
phr. v.句動詞耐える
I won't put up with that kind of behavior.
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3語の句動詞 (English Expressions: three-word phrasal verbs)
- E, "How could you put up with that awful smell of James'?" Mr. E asked Mr. Smith if he could
「ジェームズのひどい臭いにどうやって我慢していたんだ？」と尋ねました。E氏はスミス氏に
- Mr Smith asked Mr E, "How could you put up with that awful smell of James's?" Mr E asked Mr Smith if he could team up with Mr Jones and come up with a solution for the smell.
「ジェームズのひどい臭いにどうやって我慢していたんだ？」と尋ねました。E氏はスミス氏に
傷ついた人々はなぜさらなる罰を求めるのか (How Wounded People Seek Out further Punishment)
- It's just that for us, home was a place of grief and persecution. It's easy enough to see why children put up with poor treatment. They're born radically powerless. They can't run away. They are utterly at the mercy of others. They can't even think especially straight. What they must do, above all else, is adapt. Which in practice means learning to put up with poor treatment. They have to develop an advanced skill at not noticing quite how awful things are, an expertise at being unfazed by cruelty and neglect. Children in deprived circumstances tend to be geniuses at looking away, disassociating and making light of things. Of course, it might not be perfect that their father screams at them constantly, but there are some interesting shows on television and there's a really fascinating bit of the garden to explore in the morning. You can climb up the big tree and imagine it's a little house. And of course, ideally their mother wouldn't be so mocking and disloyal. But that's just the way things are, neither more or less sad than the fact it's often raining and there's a lot of homework to do. In any case, the bad treatment almost certainly has to do with something that they, the child, have done wrong. Badly treated children tend to take a compulsively generous view of those who injure them. Obviously, they aren't nasty on purpose. That would make no sense. Clearly, their ostensible brutality has sound explanations. It must be because they, the child, is in the wrong. That's why they're being neglected. That's why they've been declared fools. That's why they're being bullied. It's a great deal easier to believe that the parent is tough, yet fundamentally right, rather than gratuitously callous and unjustifiably hostile. In other words, what a bad childhood trains us to do, above all else, is to indulge meanness. The muscle that normally functions to repel attacks has had to be starved and has atrophied. In order to survive, we had to lose the ability to work out what was good and bad for us, lest we discover that we spent 18 years in the company of fiends. What this means for our futures is that we will be extremely poor at discerning when the partners we let into our lives cross the border into selfishness and malevolence. We'll continue under a narcoleptic command not to notice that we're being robbed and deceived. We'll be as blind to the blows now as we were then. For a long time, it simply won't occur to us to wonder why we've ended up paying for everything for the partner, or why they're unreliable in their promises, or constantly prioritise their friends over us, or are angrily defensive whenever we raise a complaint. We will simply, as we had to early on, fall into line and invent elaborate explanations for their behaviour. They're good, but they're tired. They're durable, but under pressure at work. They're fierce, but compensating for their childhood traumas, for which we have a lot of sympathy. Anything other than the more straightforward conclusion, we've fallen in with unconcerned egoists. We shouldn't compound our disloyalty towards ourselves by feeling, on top of everything else, ashamed for our tolerance. It isn't weakness, it's a survival strategy from childhood that served a very sensible purpose then but is liable to be ruining our lives now. To wake ourselves up, we need to consider our choices as if someone else had made them. We might wonder what we would advise a friend to do if they were in our situation. And through such a lens, we might start to perceive that the treatment we're facing isn't, as we've long thought, a sign of our partner's depth or complexity, but in the end, something much more humble, evidence that we need to get away. But this will be only a momentary liberation until we can understand the more fundamental issue, that the muscle most people use to eject poison has withered because of a distinctive history. We need to reverse the direction of our psychological fate. Our early suffering should not condemn us to yet more pain. It is what gives us an especially powerful claim on original sources of kindness, tenderness and calm.
ただ、私たちにとって家は悲しみと迫害の場所だった。なぜ子供たちが劣悪な扱いを受けても我慢するのか、それを理解するのは簡単だ。彼らは生まれながらにして根本的に無力なのだ。逃げることもできない。他人のなすがままなのだ。特にまともに考えることもできない。彼らがなすべきことは、何よりも適応することだ。それは実際には、劣悪な扱いを我慢することを学ぶということだ。どんなにひどい状況であってもそれに気づかない高度な技術、残酷な仕打ちやネグレクトにも動じない専門技術を身につけなければならない。恵まれない環境にいる子どもた
- It's easy enough to see why children put up with poor treatment.
トランプ氏、投資家へ警告 (Trump’s Warning for Investors)
- Man, dude, what you guys have been through, Donald, Eric, Ivanka, the whole family, Barron, Kaya, the whole family, your in-laws, what you guys have put up with for the last, what is it, eight years and still stuck together.
ドナルド、エリック、イヴァンカ、家族全員、バロン、カヤ、家族全員、義理の両親、この8年間何を我慢してきたんだ？
- Man, dude, what you guys have been through, Donald, Eric, Ivanka, the whole family, Barron, um, uh, Kaya, the whole family, your, your in-laws, what you guys have put up with for the last, what is it, eight years and still stuck together.
情熱ではなく、退屈に耐えることが成功の秘訣►ロバート・グリーン（中英字幕） (成功靠的不是熱情，而是耐得住枯燥.. ► Robert Greene 羅伯特·格林（中英字幕）)
- He had the patience to put up with all of the boring stuff.
彼は退屈なことを我慢する忍耐力があった。
- He had the patience to put up with all of the boring stuff.
私が8歳のときにそうであったように、言葉に関わっているとき、それは正しいことだと感じたし、自然にフィットするものだと感じた。
ニューヨーク市はロンドンよりもなぜ高価なのか？ (What Makes New York City More Expensive Than London?)
- Whereas people are so obsessed with living here that they will put, put up with how gross it is and how hard it is and how expensive it is anyway.
人々はここに住むことに夢中になりすぎて、それがどれほど汚く、どれほど大変で、どれほど高価であっても、とにかく我慢してしまうのです。
- I think something about New York whereas, like, people are so obsessed with living here that they will put up with how gross it is and how hard it is and how expensive it is anyway.
セクシュアリティ研究者だけど「恋愛」について質問ある？| Tech Support | WIRED Japan (セクシュアリティの研究者だけど「恋愛」について質問ある？| Tech Support | WIRED Japan)
- A Reddit user asks, are situationships really changing the dating game and why do people put up with them?
Redditユーザーからの質問：シチュエーション・シップは本当にデート・ゲームを変えるのか？
- and why do people put up with them?
しかしその一方で、すべての人に責任がある。
「ジェフリー・エプスタインはイスラエルのスパイだった」とタッカー・カールソン氏が「顧客リストなし」論争の最中に米国を驚かせる | トランプ | ボンディ ('Jeffrey Epstein Was Israeli Spy': Tucker Carlson Stuns US Amid 'No Client List' Row| Trump| Bondi)
- Shut up racist And I won't put up with that because I'm not a slave or an animal.
黙れ、差別主義者！ それに、私は奴隷でも動物でもないから、そんなことには我慢できない。
- I'm not gonna put up with that answer I don't care who gives that answer that is not acceptable and I think the real answer is Jeffrey Epstein was working on behalf of Intel services, probably not American and We have every right to ask on whose behalf was he working?
ジェフリー・エプスタインは、おそらくアメリカ人ではなく、インテル社のために働いていた。
外交術 (The Art of Diplomacy)
- We will put up with a lot once someone has demonstrated that they at least know how we feel.
屁理屈こねてもしょうがない
- put up with a lot once someone has demonstrated that they at least know how we feel. Diplomats
少なくとも私たちの気持ちを知っていることを証明した人がいれば、多くのことを我慢する。外交官