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  • everyone wants to be attractive whether you're getting back into the dating

  • world or you want to move up in your career being attractive probably won't

  • hurt your chances of success when people feel attractive they generally feel

  • better about themselves and have a more positive outlook on life people go

  • through great lengths to feel more attractive plastic surgeons and dietary

  • supplements make millions of dollars other people who feel unattractive but

  • the key to being an attractive person is not weight loss of smaller nose or

  • bigger muscles attractive people come in all shapes and sizes the key to being

  • more attractive is the energy that you carry within and share with the people

  • around you if people are attracted to your energy they might overlook physical

  • flaws use the tips in this video to become a more attractive person inside

  • and out - number one accept your features and work with them an

  • overweight person who knows how to dress for their figure will always look more

  • attractive than a skinnier person who puts no effort into how they present

  • themselves so don't worry so much about whether your physical features fit

  • traditional beauty standards there are haircuts and outfits that fit every

  • shape and size if big curly hair frames your face better than a bob let your

  • frizz fly buy clothes that show off your shape no matter what your shape is you

  • might need to consult with an expert about this though personalized tips and

  • tricks can be found online in magazines and through the help of your

  • hairdressers or personal shoppers when you start to make your appearance work

  • for you you'll discover natural beauty and attractiveness that might have been

  • hiding before it also helps increase your own confidence

  • tip number two is to pay attention to details in the book the magic of

  • thinking big one of the world's most famous self-help books the author pairs

  • fears with simple actions that can put those fears to rest the first fear that

  • he lists is the embarrassment because of your personal appearance which is known

  • to a lot of people we have all experienced this type of embarrassment

  • and sought out ways to improve our appearance so what actions does the

  • author suggest taking you can go to the barber shop or a beauty salon you can

  • shine your shoes you can get your clothes cleaned and pressed and you can

  • practice better grooming now these are just simple actions that can make a big

  • difference because the best way to cure fear is through action not only will

  • your haircut look sharper or your clothes look neater but you'll also

  • spend some of that time consciously improving your appearance in the half

  • hour that you spend at the nail salon or an hour at the barber you will be

  • present in a space where you know that you are becoming more attractive putting

  • yourself in a positive and attractive mental state is just as important as

  • physically making improvements to your appearance remember from the book atomic

  • habits the more evidence you give yourself of believing that you're an

  • attractive person the more you actually believe in tip number three is

  • a little cheesy but it's to use attractive affirmations the more you

  • tell yourself something the more you'll believe it the more you tell other

  • people something the more they'll believe it when you tell yourself that

  • you're attractive you'll start to believe it and communicate your own

  • message to others but how can you actually do that without directly

  • telling people that you think you're hot well I'll give you an example in the

  • next section your actions shape your thoughts your

  • thoughts shape your reality you can use affirmations to shape a reality where

  • you feel confident and optimistic about your appearance and the energy that you

  • share with others so when you catch yourself feeling unattractive turn your

  • perspective around look in the mirror and tell yourself that you're an

  • attractive person even if you don't believe it say it again keep telling

  • yourself that you're attractive until you let go of the ego that's telling you

  • that you're not the sooner you open yourself up to the idea that you are

  • attractive the sooner you will start to believe it and the sooner that others

  • will start to believe it too even better than an affirmation is to do something

  • that you think an attractive person would do go get a haircut go to the gym

  • put some action behind your affirmation tip number four is pretty simple but it

  • might not be easy it's to project confidence the secret of being

  • attractive doesn't lie in the size of your nose or the cut of your hair the

  • mind contributes as much of a person's attractiveness as their face our body

  • the confidence and presence that a person projects with their attitude can

  • turn up 4 into a 10 just think about the classic rock stars and actors Iggy Pop

  • for example isn't a classically attractive man but at the ripe age of 71

  • you can go to one of his concerts and women will still be following over him

  • why because his stage presence and rock star status turns heads you don't have

  • to be a rock star to project confidence or to boost your attractiveness and you

  • certainly don't have to try to look more like Iggy Pop if you just feel like a

  • rock star you're confident energy will be felt by everyone in the room this

  • becomes more evident when you read Jordan Peterson's 12 rules for life

  • chapter 1 about standing straight up with your shoulders back so are you

  • projecting confidence when you walk into a room confidence is just a state of

  • mind but it has an effect on the way that we carry ourselves take a look at

  • yourself in the mirror or maybe in a photo even a quick glance will be able

  • to show you whether or not you're moving with confidence or insecurity so to

  • improve your body language number one ask how is your posture standing up

  • straight with your shoulders back makes you a taller person that takes up more

  • space when you have the confidence to take up this space and walk tall people

  • will start to notice and conversely shrinking back into the corner with

  • slumped shoulders gives off a very sheepish and negative vibe no one was

  • ever attractive to someone because they were acting sheepishly well actually I

  • have heard serial killers are because they might be

  • searching for easy victims but all the more reason to stand up straight also

  • ask yourself are you present when people feel insecure they may retreat inside

  • their head it's not hard to recognize when someone is focused on other things

  • rather than being present in the moment it might have that dole stare when you

  • enter a room are you present and paying attention to what is actually happening

  • within the room if you're in a conversation are you actively listening

  • and engaged these qualities are seen as attractive not because they improve your

  • physical appearance but because they show people that you value them and are

  • genuinely interested in what is happening around you and another

  • question you can ask yourself about body languages are you smiling confidence and

  • optimistic people can't help but smile all the time

  • smiling is contagious and your smile can boost another person's mood also people

  • want to be around other people that make them feel happy and comfortable smiling

  • is another quick improvement to your appearance that requires less than two

  • minutes of your time even if you're feeling a little bit nervous a smile is

  • one of those things you can truly fake it until you make it pop in the bathroom

  • and smile in a mirror even if it's forced it won't take long before you

  • crack a genuine smile after all smiling at yourself in the mirror is pretty

  • silly let's move on to the psychology of Attraction how do we know that

  • confidence makes you more attractive well it's simple psychology the reason

  • that we're attracted to people with a larger posture or someone who puts

  • effort into their appearance goes back to the beginning of our species even the

  • features of our face that make us more or less attractive can be explained by

  • psychology people with a so-called baby face are considered more attractive

  • throughout many different cultures this phenomenon has been studied throughout

  • the world body language has been studied for the benefit of salespeople

  • matchmakers and life coaches even when you can't seem to find an explanation

  • for why you think a certain person might be attractive

  • science probably can one more thing if you're interested in learning more about

  • what I have to teach about being attractive I've actually created a

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  • attraction and it's your animated guide to how a girl thinks what she finds

  • irresistible attractive and how to use psychology to make her want you

  • marketing headline aside it's basically an animated video course that I created

  • by reading 8 psychology textbooks and summarizing everything I know about

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簡単な心理学を使って魅力的になる方法 - 引き寄せの心理学 (How to be more attractive using simple psychology - The Psychology of Attraction)

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    Amy.Lin に公開 2021 年 01 月 14 日
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