world or you want to move up in your career being attractive probably won't

hurt your chances of success when people feel attractive they generally feel

better about themselves and have a more positive outlook on life people go

through great lengths to feel more attractive plastic surgeons and dietary

supplements make millions of dollars other people who feel unattractive but

the key to being an attractive person is not weight loss of smaller nose or

bigger muscles attractive people come in all shapes and sizes the key to being

more attractive is the energy that you carry within and share with the people

around you if people are attracted to your energy they might overlook physical

flaws use the tips in this video to become a more attractive person inside

and out - number one accept your features and work with them an

overweight person who knows how to dress for their figure will always look more

attractive than a skinnier person who puts no effort into how they present

themselves so don't worry so much about whether your physical features fit

traditional beauty standards there are haircuts and outfits that fit every

shape and size if big curly hair frames your face better than a bob let your

frizz fly buy clothes that show off your shape no matter what your shape is you

might need to consult with an expert about this though personalized tips and

tricks can be found online in magazines and through the help of your

hairdressers or personal shoppers when you start to make your appearance work

for you you'll discover natural beauty and attractiveness that might have been

hiding before it also helps increase your own confidence

tip number two is to pay attention to details in the book the magic of

thinking big one of the world's most famous self-help books the author pairs

fears with simple actions that can put those fears to rest the first fear that

he lists is the embarrassment because of your personal appearance which is known

to a lot of people we have all experienced this type of embarrassment

and sought out ways to improve our appearance so what actions does the

author suggest taking you can go to the barber shop or a beauty salon you can

shine your shoes you can get your clothes cleaned and pressed and you can

practice better grooming now these are just simple actions that can make a big

difference because the best way to cure fear is through action not only will

your haircut look sharper or your clothes look neater but you'll also

spend some of that time consciously improving your appearance in the half

hour that you spend at the nail salon or an hour at the barber you will be

present in a space where you know that you are becoming more attractive putting

yourself in a positive and attractive mental state is just as important as

physically making improvements to your appearance remember from the book atomic

habits the more evidence you give yourself of believing that you're an

attractive person the more you actually believe in tip number three is

a little cheesy but it's to use attractive affirmations the more you

tell yourself something the more you'll believe it the more you tell other

people something the more they'll believe it when you tell yourself that

you're attractive you'll start to believe it and communicate your own

message to others but how can you actually do that without directly

telling people that you think you're hot well I'll give you an example in the

next section your actions shape your thoughts your

thoughts shape your reality you can use affirmations to shape a reality where

you feel confident and optimistic about your appearance and the energy that you

share with others so when you catch yourself feeling unattractive turn your

perspective around look in the mirror and tell yourself that you're an

attractive person even if you don't believe it say it again keep telling

yourself that you're attractive until you let go of the ego that's telling you

that you're not the sooner you open yourself up to the idea that you are

attractive the sooner you will start to believe it and the sooner that others

will start to believe it too even better than an affirmation is to do something

that you think an attractive person would do go get a haircut go to the gym

put some action behind your affirmation tip number four is pretty simple but it

might not be easy it's to project confidence the secret of being

attractive doesn't lie in the size of your nose or the cut of your hair the

mind contributes as much of a person's attractiveness as their face our body

the confidence and presence that a person projects with their attitude can

turn up 4 into a 10 just think about the classic rock stars and actors Iggy Pop

for example isn't a classically attractive man but at the ripe age of 71

you can go to one of his concerts and women will still be following over him

why because his stage presence and rock star status turns heads you don't have

to be a rock star to project confidence or to boost your attractiveness and you

certainly don't have to try to look more like Iggy Pop if you just feel like a

rock star you're confident energy will be felt by everyone in the room this

becomes more evident when you read Jordan Peterson's 12 rules for life

chapter 1 about standing straight up with your shoulders back so are you

projecting confidence when you walk into a room confidence is just a state of

mind but it has an effect on the way that we carry ourselves take a look at

yourself in the mirror or maybe in a photo even a quick glance will be able

to show you whether or not you're moving with confidence or insecurity so to

improve your body language number one ask how is your posture standing up

straight with your shoulders back makes you a taller person that takes up more

space when you have the confidence to take up this space and walk tall people

will start to notice and conversely shrinking back into the corner with

slumped shoulders gives off a very sheepish and negative vibe no one was

ever attractive to someone because they were acting sheepishly well actually I

have heard serial killers are because they might be

searching for easy victims but all the more reason to stand up straight also

ask yourself are you present when people feel insecure they may retreat inside

their head it's not hard to recognize when someone is focused on other things

rather than being present in the moment it might have that dole stare when you

enter a room are you present and paying attention to what is actually happening

within the room if you're in a conversation are you actively listening

and engaged these qualities are seen as attractive not because they improve your

physical appearance but because they show people that you value them and are

genuinely interested in what is happening around you and another

question you can ask yourself about body languages are you smiling confidence and

optimistic people can't help but smile all the time

smiling is contagious and your smile can boost another person's mood also people

want to be around other people that make them feel happy and comfortable smiling

is another quick improvement to your appearance that requires less than two

minutes of your time even if you're feeling a little bit nervous a smile is

one of those things you can truly fake it until you make it pop in the bathroom

and smile in a mirror even if it's forced it won't take long before you

crack a genuine smile after all smiling at yourself in the mirror is pretty

silly let's move on to the psychology of Attraction how do we know that

confidence makes you more attractive well it's simple psychology the reason

that we're attracted to people with a larger posture or someone who puts

effort into their appearance goes back to the beginning of our species even the

features of our face that make us more or less attractive can be explained by

psychology people with a so-called baby face are considered more attractive

throughout many different cultures this phenomenon has been studied throughout

the world body language has been studied for the benefit of salespeople

matchmakers and life coaches even when you can't seem to find an explanation

for why you think a certain person might be attractive

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