Whenwepersistwiththebeliefthatthingsoutsideourselforthingsinthefuturewillprovideuswith a formofultimatehappiness, webecomedependentonthingsthatarenotpartofusnorpartofwhatwecancontrol, andthusremainendlesslyunsatisfiedandunhappy.
Inordertodevelopthisfortitude, a commonpracticeinStoicismisto, onoccasion, temporarilystriponeselfofthethingstheyordinarilydependonforcomfortinordertoprovetothemselveshowstrongtheytrulyarewithoutthethingstheythinktheyneed.
Itisinourconstantexpectationthatsomethingoutsideourselvesorinthefutureisneededfor a worthyexperienceoflifethatcausesourinabilitytoeverfindworthyexperienceinlifeinthefirstplace.
In a timewherechaosandanxietyrunrampantacrossourscreens, whereculturalpressurestolivecertainwaysandachievecertainthingsoverwhelmus 24-7, wherewespend a hugeamountoftimecomparingourselvestoandwantingtheapprovalofothers, oursenseofhappinessandpeaceisbecomingincreasinglysusceptible, anditisperhapsthroughstoicismthatwecanattempttoholdontoit.
Thisdelusion, however, frenziesuswithananxietythatwearethentoldbyculturewecanridourselvesofifwejustachieve a fewmorethings, make a littlemoremoney, be a littlemorepopular, andbuy a littlemorestuff, creatinganendlessfeedbackloopofunsatisfiedhunger.