Look at what you're interested in.

自分が何に興味があるのかを見てごらん。

Get disciplined about something. Allow for the possibility that you have something important to contribute to the world and that the world would be a lesser place without that contribution. Don't be afraid of taking on responsibility. You're so...

何かを律しなさい。自分には世界に貢献できる重要な何かがあり、その貢献がなければ世界はより劣った場所になってしまうという可能性を認めなさい。責任を負うことを恐れないで。あなたは...

It's where you find what sustains you in your life. You can take on too much responsibility.

自分の人生を支えるものを見つける場所だ。責任を背負いすぎることもある。

You have to be cautious in that regard, but that's a less common problem than not taking on enough. A lot of the things that people regard as traps are actually the means to their life. Often young people are afraid of commitment, for example, in the context of a romantic relationship because they feel that that's going to interfere with their pursuit of something more valuable.

その点では用心しなければならないが、それは十分な量を引き受けないことよりも少ない一般的な問題だ。人が罠だと考えるものの多くは、実は自分の人生の手段なのだ。若い人たちは、例えば恋愛関係において、より価値のあるものを追求する妨げになると感じて、献身を恐れることがよくある。

But that's just not the case. You're not going to find something more valuable in your life than a committed relationship with someone that you love, that sustains itself across time, and that in all likelihood produces children. That's life.

しかし、そうではない。人生において、愛する人との献身的な関係以上に価値のあるものを見つけることはできない。それが人生だ。

And there may be people for whom avoiding that is the better route, but those people are very rare and you need a real reason to assume that you're one of those people. And hopefully for you, you're not. You know, I've had a very good career, a very meaningful career in multiple dimensions, and it's still been the case for me that the most important part of my life has been my intimate relationship with my wife and my family. So don't be afraid of that, or be afraid of it, but don't let that stop you from pursuing it.

しかし、そのような人は非常に稀であり、あなたがそのような人であると仮定するには、本当の理由が必要である。あなたがそうでないことを祈るよ。私は非常に良いキャリアを積んできたし、多方面で非常に有意義なキャリアを積んできた。それでも私の人生で最も重要なのは、妻や家族との親密な関係だった。だから、それを恐れたり、怖がったりしないで、それを追い求めることを止めないでほしい。