And I feellike I reallystruggledwiththisinmy 20s because I wasextremelyporousinthesensethatif I heardanopinionor a criticismaboutme, I wouldseeitasvaluableinformation.
Andnowthat I'm a littleolder, theopinionsthat I valuearefrompeoplethat I trust, peoplethat I actuallyknow, peoplewhoareinthearena, whoareparticipating.
There's goingtobe a lotofpeoplethatgiveyouunsolicitedadvice.
勝手なアドバイスをする人はたくさんいるだろう。
Andiftheydon't knowyouandthey'renot a partofyourlife, oriftheyare, buttheydon't live a lifethatyouadmireoraspiretobelike, thenagain, I thinkitisimportanttojustletitrolloff.
Sotheleastthing I candoformyselfistowriteitdownso I canretainthethingsthat I'velearned.
だから、私が自分のためにできる最低限のことは、学んだことを忘れないように書き留めておくことだ。
Inoneofmymostrecentsessions, I hadtowritedownthelessonofthat I needtoownmydecisionsbecause I cantrulybethequeenofflip-flopping, where I havetothinklongandhardbefore I make a decisionandthenjustseeitthrough.
There's obviouslylikethebooksmart, but I feellikeemotionalintelligencedoesn't getenoughcredit.
頭脳明晰であることは明らかだが、感情的知性は十分に評価されていないような気がする。
Ifanything, I feellikeemotionalintelligenceiswayimportantthanunderstandinghowtolikeprogramwithPythonortalkaboutphysicsbecausesomeonewhoisemotionallyintelligentcanmeetyouatyourlevel, readtheenergy, andcommunicatewithyouin a waythatmakessense.
Sothenexttimeyoufindyourselfin a conversation, especiallyifit's like a one-on-oneandyou'renotlikegraspingwhatthey'resaying, donotbeafraidtosay, hey, whatdidyoumeanbythat?