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Technically, most of us leave school at 18 - an event that tends to be vividly etched
in memory and surrounded by considerable ceremony and emotion. And yet, rather oddly, despite
appearances, many of us in fact don't manage to leave school at that point at all. In a
deep part of our minds, we may still be there, deep into adulthood, not sitting in a classroom
precisely, but in terms of how our minds work, as much stuck within the confines of a school-based
world-view as if we were showing up for assembly every day - generating immense and unnecessary
degrees of unhappiness and compromise for ourselves in the process.
What might be some of the hallmarks of an enduring school-like way of thinking:
1. - First and foremost, a firm belief that those in authority know what they are doing
and that one's task is to obey and jump through the hoops they set for us. A desire
to please teachers and gain prizes, cups and ribbons.
2 - A sense that there is an implicit curriculum out there - an externally mandated map of
what one needs to do to succeed - and that a wise person must dutifully subscribe to
its demands.
3 - A feeling that work should - when it's going well - feel substantially irksome, dull
and somewhat pointless. Schools teach us to forget, or ignore, the clues offered to us
by our own boredom. They teach us dangerous degrees of patience. They subtly train us
in intellectual masochism.
4 - You're doing it for someone else; an audience. Your teachers and your parents,
and their substitutes in adult life. Make us proud. You have to shine. We've given
you so much. What matters is the performance, not any inner sense of satisfaction.
5. - Authority is benign. They want what is good for you and they speak on behalf of your
long-term interests. Don't think you could ever know better; distrust your instincts.
We'll look after you. If you follow our rules, you will thrive.
6 - The exam (and all its successors) are fundamentally accurate. They, those who know,
have worked out the ultimate test of your value. You are what you score.
7 - Every school is in addition a miniature society - equipped with a strong sense of
what values to revere and codes to follow. Bullies lurk, ready to mock and identify any
departures from the norm. You can't escape them; they are next to you in class every
day. They will spot and persecute the weirdos; they can ruin your life. You learn to cower
and adjust your attitudes. Following the herd is paramount.
All these ways of thinking don't require us to be sitting in a geography class. We
might be in an office selling garden furniture to the Belgian market and thinking like this;
we might have children of our own and by all appearances be an adult, and yet still be
living inside as though there were 'exams' to pass and cups to be won. What would it
mean to break the mold? What would it mean finally to leave school?
To know some of the following:
1. - That there is no one way, no guarantee of one set path to fulfilment laid out by
authority figures. 'They' don't know. No one knows.
2. - The safe path may be entirely dangerous to our flourishing.
3. - Our boredom is a vital tool. It is telling us what is slowly killing us - and reminding
us that time is monstrously short.
4. - Authority is not by definition benign. The teachers and their substitutes have no
real plan for you - except in so far as it suits their own advancement. It looks like
they want your supreme good but in reality they want you to play their game for their
own benefit. At the end, they have no proper prize to offer you. They'll give you a colourful
card and send you to the golf course and the grave and have wasted your life.
5. - It doesn't matter what the bullies think. No one is normal. You can dare to make
enemies; indeed you must do so as the price to pay for having developed a character and
found something truly to believe in.
We shouldn't be tough on ourselves for lingering so long. School is an immensely impressive
system. We start there when we are not much bigger than a chair. For more than a decade,
it's all we know, it is the outside world - and is what those who love us most tell
us we should respect. It speaks with immense authority not just about itself, but about
life in general. It is sold to us as a preparation for the whole of existence. But of course,
the main thing it does is to prepare us for yet more school; it is an education in how
to thrive within its own profoundly peculiar rules - with only a tenuous connection to
the world beyond.
Knowing all this, we might do a very strange-sounding thing, finally work up the courage to leave
our inner school, be it at 28, 35 or 62 - and enter the wider boundless world we have been
in flight from for too long.
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You Should Finally Leave School

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