Hey! It's Kate! Today we were talking about

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How to get guys to like you and not screw it up

no we're not cooking love potions and learning how to cast spells here

The train to Hogwarts School leaves from the platform on the other side

we are taking the train to "a more attractive and likable me land"

So hop on and bring your friend along! There's no stopping us now, girls!

And our next station is not to be perfect

Yeah I know it may sound strange given what I just said but hear me out first.

Appearance is important there's no arguing with that but cultural standards of

what is beautiful and attractive seem to be always shifting.

So there's no need bothering about how to always fit those standards, right?

Instead the latest studies have shown that people find the average features the most attractive.

So if you don't have any standout features and consider yourself to be average

Have no fear! Your prince will definitely come to save you anyway.

But if you still want to make sure you look your best. I think I know a girl who can help. What? Don't look at me!

Sure striving for something better is

always good but for most guys out there trying to be better than the others will

seem arrogant and fake and fair enough. So if you're talking to someone don't

act like you're the queen of England personified and has just come out of

Buckingham Palace looking brilliant

Just act like yourself.

You can be silly and funny and dreamy and why not that's what makes you interesting.

I bet your crush really wants to hear about all the scientific facts he learned last night.

NOPE

Try to relax when you're talking to him.

Tell them about what you truly like even though you might think it's stupid

I like to remove dark spots from other people's skin

Don't try to get everyone on this planet to like you. There will always be people who are not so fond of you.

And that's cool!

GET OUT!

Changing yourself for the guys who just don't like you for who you are is not

worth it. So don't waste your time and effort trying to fit in and prove it

you're someone you are clearly not

Don't be afraid to stand out as a person.

There is so much more to you than you might even think

Stay true to yourself.

I know how hard it is to listen to yourself with the constant social noise and people always telling you what to do and think.

So get yourself a diary. It will help you get an outside perspective on the things

you do right and things you do wrong.

It will also help you not to buy into modern stereotypes

and find a way to break the rules

Like how to text him first for example.

Yeah it's gonna be hard but trust me

if you want to get a guy to like you don't be shy and just reach up to him. Don't go too far though...

The next thing is to love yourself no matter what.

Sometimes we just screwed things up and that's just how it is

Just go out there and live your life. Do your thing and don't be too harsh on yourself.

Lizzie is bad!

Lizzie is ugly!

Lizzie is stupid!

So our flaws of how we deal with them is really what makes us who we are

All different and special

Some of your flaws may not actually be as bad as you think they are.

Some of your flaws can even make guys fall for you.

Chiiiiips. I love it sooooo much.

So taking it too seriously is pretty much pointless.

And will only make your self-esteem go down. And you know your self-esteem is your guide.

You are going where it's going

Don't miss a chance to pay yourself a compliment every now and then when you look in the mirror

Remember! Angels fly because they take themselves lightly.

So this is it for today! Let me know if my tips helped you become more likeable and attractive.

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