Name: どんな女の子でも惹きつける方法（アニメ (How To Attract Any Girl (Animated))
Uploaded: 2021-01-14T08:03:49.000Z
Duration: 4 min 34 s
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- [Narrator] In order to maintain attraction with a girl

or maintain attraction in a relationship you have to.

What you are about to learn in the next few minutes

is the biggest mistake that a guy can make

It's not something your friends and family will teach you.

It's something that most men will never understand.

it's important to do everything in our power

it's important to perform well in order to keep it.

So it only makes sense that if we meet an amazing girl

we should do all that we can in order to hold onto it.

This is the misunderstanding that so many men have

and I will explain what I mean by going over something

that I like to call the butterfly paradox.

A woman is like a butterfly that has landed into your hands.

You might even want to curl up your fingers a little

and you might even start feeling like you need the butterfly

you will slowly start to squeeze hand tighter and tighter

to prevent this beautiful butterfly from leaving your hand.

you will start to squeeze your hand tighter and tighter

and you will start to suffocate the butterfly.

This squeezing will manifest itself through jealousy,

insecurity, rules you want to place on one another,

like you can't do this, you can't do that.

who were you hanging out with last night,

When you do this, when you keep squeezing and squeezing,

what do you think is going to happen to the butterfly?

It will start to feel trapped, resentful, scared,

In order to maintain attraction with the girl

or maintain attraction in a relationship,

You have to understand that you do not own this butterfly.

that butterfly to stay with you in your hand.

It's only when someone has the freedom to leave

it's only a matter of time before they fly away.

So you need to come from an abundance mindset.

You can't rely on a girl or anyone for that matter,

The moment you start to rely on her for your happiness

is the moment when you start to become very needy

Instead of projecting your insecurities on one another,

or placing rules and restrictions on one another,

and if you don't have faith in your partner,

then that is something you need to talk about

and that's something that is probably a much bigger problem.

In order to come from this abundance mindset,

you need to have things going for you in your life

and these things could be something like a good career,

and you should always be trying to improve yourself

and this mindset will keep the spark in your relationship

you will suffocate and lose the butterfly.

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