"How to make your ex miss you,"

what immediately comes to mind?

Jealousy.

Manipulation.

Secret spells to bring him back into your life.

By the way, I'll tell you a little story

at the end of this video about secret spells.

You'll wanna hear it.

But I'm here to tell you that you don't have to resort to

any of that in order to make your ex miss you.

Now, if you're going through a breakup

or you're suffering from heartbreak,

then definitely watch this entire video.

Keep watching.

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Hey there, Adam Lodolce from sexyconfidence.com,

where I help the 21st Century Woman create a love life

that she absolutely freaking loves.

And this is the first video out of a series of videos

as part of my special launch for a brand new resource

that I've created that's called

Heal Your Heart and Win Him Back.

And you can find that at winninghimback.com.

We'll put a URL right here.

Go ahead and check that out.

Now if you are ready to heal your heart and win him back,

or you decide that you wanna find someone better,

then that URL, winninghimback.com,

is definitely the place to go.

Now let's get back to making your ex miss you.

For starters, you want to have a no-contact period

for at least three weeks.

When a relationship ends, the last thing you wanna do is

give him all of your emotional energy,

especially all your emotional energy that

he clearly doesn't want right now.

He ended it for a reason, which means that he needs

a little bit of time to kind of think things through

and really process his emotions.

And at the same time, give yourself a enough time to

heal from the breakup before you do anything.

He cannot miss you if you're texting him every 10 minutes.

He can't miss you if you're drunk calling him

every Saturday at 1:00 a.m.

So give him that time and that space,

and take that three weeks to really heal your heart

and kind of patch up that wound that exists

in your heart right now.

Trust me, once you get through that time period

and you start to go through this healing process,

it's amazing what is possible as far as

making your ex miss you and want you back.

Next, plan some sort of trip or vacation.

Now I remember a few years ago I went through

a pretty rough breakup of about a two-year relationship.

And I remember, once I got out of that relationship,

the first thing that I wanted to do

was just get out of Dodge.

I wanted to just get out of town,

and luckily my brother was living in Washington, D.C.,

so I immediately just booked a flight to see him

and visit him for the weekend.

And the thing is, once I finally got out of Boston,

got into Washington, D.C., it kind of opened my eyes again

to the world and the reality that,

look, life goes on beyond just the breakup.

And by taking that time and kind of getting yourself

out of your own head and out of your own world

and bring yourself to a new world,

it really does give you that kind of new sense of self

and that new sense of adventure and excitement

that really is going to be a part of your single life.

And at the same time, make sure you take a few pictures

of that vacation, and certainly you can post that

on your social media.

Your ex will definitely notice that.

Next, unfollow your ex on all social media.

Here's the thing, if you are creeping on Facebook

and you see him, what is going to happen?

You are not going to resist being able to reach out,

like it, being able to comment, send him messages.

So the best thing you wanna do is just avoid.

Now I don't think that you necessarily have to unfriend him

or unfollow him, depending on what social media

we're talking about, Snapchat, Facebook,

Instagram, whatever it is.

But you wanna make sure that you're not

seeing him in your feed

because the more that you see your ex,

the more it's gonna make you do things

that you might regret later.

And when you go to winninghimback.com,

I have an amazing resource called

The Post Breakup Guide to Dealing With

Social Media and Your Ex.

And this is part of my full program that's really

designed to deal with heartbreak in a very healthy way

and either win him back or go ahead

and find someone even better.

And finally, take time to heal your heart.

Literally, your heart, when you're going through a breakup,

is like an open wound.

And you wanna make sure that you repair that

and really work on that and work on yourself

before you go ahead and take any action,

whether that action is trying to win him back or it's

move on and find someone better.

And really at the end of the day I want you to

be able to heal your heart first and focus on that,

and then you can take the steps and decide

whether or not you want him back.

So again, last time I just will say,

head on over to winninghimback.com.

I have amazing resources there that'll help you

through that breakup and really be able to

get through this in a very healthy way.

Now as promised in the beginning of this video,

I wanna tell you kind of a ridiculous story

about spells and spell-casters.

Now every single day we get hundreds of comments

either on my blog at sexyconfidence.com

or on this YouTube channel,

and sometimes we get these comments from so-called

spell-casters who give you an email address and they say,

"If you email me, I will get your ex back."

Now every single day, me and my team,

we're deleting these emails 'cause it's total spam

and it's total bull(bleep).

But one day, I was kinda bored, and I was just

cruising on the web, and I was like,

"You know what?

"I'm gonna email one of these spell-casters,"

'cause I was (bleep) curious.

I wanted to see how much does one of these spell-casters,

how much do they charge for such a scam?

'Cause people must be actually emailing this guy,

or else why would he be commenting on my blog?

So I go ahead and email him, and I was like,

"How much do these services cost?"

That was my first mistake.

Then that night I went to bed and completely forgot,

only to wake up in the middle of the night

with my phone just ringing off the hook.

It just kept going off.

And the thing is, normally, my phone is on do not disturb,

so people can't just reach me.

But apparently, this spell-caster somehow hunted down

my WhatsApp email or phone number.

I don't even know how this was possible.

And this random guy in Nigeria was leaving me

voicemails, leaving me messages, asking me

if I was ready to cast a spell to get my ex back.

Needless to say, I was so freaked out and weirded out

by this entire experience that I made myself a cup of coffee

and I was up from that point forward.

So long story short, please, ladies,

never email a spell-caster to get your ex back

or make him miss you or anything like that.

Trust me, it's total BS, you don't wanna

do anything like that and you don't wanna

get freaked out like me.

And just follow these tips and make sure, of course,

if you are ready to go through that healing process

and get your ex back or be able to find someone better,

then definitely check out

the resource at winninghimback.com.

Again, we'll put a URL right here or we'll

leave the link in the description.

Thank you so much for watching.

If you enjoyed this video, please give it a like

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And finally, make sure you leave a comment right there below

if you've used any of these strategies in order to

really either get your ex back or to make him miss you.

Thank you so much for watching and I will see you

in the next video in the series coming up.

Speak to you soon, buh-bye.