Name: 憎しみがついに私に... (The Hate Finally Got To Me..)
Uploaded: 2021-01-14T07:49:10.000Z
Duration: 10 min 29 s
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I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Okay. How about something lighter? You're not that great. Sorry for sounding a bit smug.

I promise I mean well. Don't worry. I'm not that great either. Okay, so let's just say it together.

Everything, you're not even saying it out loud!

You're not even saying it out loud. Listen, I don't actually care about helping you here

Listen. I don't actually care about helping you here

It's just that this is something that I've learned from being a high profile

Personality online over the couple years and that is it's better to just acknowledge that you're not that great

And I don't mean it in a self destructive kind of way. I'm just talking about ego

It's something that I used to struggle with or at least. I think it's a constant struggle when you are this handsome

For someone that's gone through somewhat of an ego trip

I think it's so easy to spot when other people are going through it

And it's such an ugly behavior that I can't even

Sympathise with the person going through it and a lot of times. I criticize through videos when these sort of things happen

We don't need to get into any names okay, when I first received my first bit of

I'm gonna use the term hate very loosely in this video because that's how I think people do in general and that's kind of a

Problem in itself when I received my first bit of "hate"

It was about six seven years ago, and I had just been making videos

And it was just me and my audience and no one had really sort of interfered with that

And we just had our own special group and bubble, and it was it was a beautiful time honestly

Looking back, but then I did get criticized for being squeaky screaky humor

Inappropriate humor in general and very childish, and I I just was not equipped to handle it

I never faced any sort of criticism especially in the way

They as ruthless as the Internet can be as well you might be criticized by one person

But then a whole army of the internet cult sort of joins in my sort of first reaction to it was

There's something wrong with you, and why by the way why are you even criticizing me?

If you don't like my content, then don't watch it, and that's a classic ego

Response I think because you're sort of saying that oh, I'm above criticism just because you don't like me

It's your problem and not mine and it makes sense and that's sort of the sentiment. That's been carried out

You should just brush off hate comments and never pay attention to them in retrospect and looking back. I'm really glad.

I'm really glad I I was able to pick out at least.

What I thought I could improve on and I think if I didn't do that.

I probably wouldn't even keep making videos at this point because I would either number one.

Let all the hate actually build up and get to me or number two I would have justed stay the same.

I would have done the same super squeaky content as I've always done and no one would care to watch that for

Feel pretty sure that that wouldn't be the case and I also think that it made me want to improve

I think opening up in a way it made me improve on things that I never thought I would improve on it made me

Learn things that I never thought I would learn. Thanks to hate comments, so I sort of wanted to make this video to

Open up that idea into people's mind that maybe

I'm not ignoring the fact that some are just straight up garbage comments that you should 100% ignore. I'm just saying that

If you are honest with yourself, and you are honest with your ideas

Then you have the at least the ability to tell that apart because if you're honest with yourself

Complete as well as you can at least then if someone calls you out on something or some type of behavior

Then you can look at yourself more critically instead of immediately going into defense mode, or there's nothing wrong with me mode

For an example. I don't mean to keep dragging on the Logan Paul thing

But I think it's a it's an interesting one because his first response

just that it was very different from his video that he made and I think you can tell just like I did a

Few years ago he went through the same mind thing mindset of

Wanting to defend yourself versus maybe I'm not that great well

We saw how long that lasted, but still if you really think about it hate comments can be?

Won't get from even your closest friends most likely at least and I think a lot of times when you see celebrities are online.

Personalities, surrounded by big groups. That's when they usually have a big ego problem because there's no one there to call them out on their.

Behaviour, I think a lot of times hate comments can be a really useful tool

It just comes in a very very ugly shape. I'm not ignoring that. Obviously it's important to have confidence and self-esteem.

I'm not saying you shouldn't have that, but I think.

Deciphering or listening to hate comments.

have honestly given me that because I can honestly and confidently tell them apart

I can tell apart if someone's being an idiot or if there's actually something valuable in there, and this is sort of the point

Is that a lot of times you might get a really bad comment that might make you feel really really uncomfortable

And they might contain X Y & Z but then maybe let's say Z is really valuable

Constructive criticism, I don't like being criticized. I can just brush this off completely because x & y was makes this a hate comment

Does this make any sense at all you're sort of using their own weapon against them anyway?

Maybe I'm trying to do a more positive spin on this then there is, but this is just from my experience

I'm sure not everyone is like this taking criticism is very uncomfortable

But I think it's important to at least open yourself up just for a second of that feeling of being uncomfortable

And sort of just play with that thought instead of just completely throwing it away, because I think that can lead to really

I'll get into in a second and don't get me wrong. It's hard

It's really hard to take hate comments, and I think I I sort of categorize them in in four different

Shapes number one is to straight-up dumb hate comments that are just trying to make you feel bad

And there's nothing else in there just ignore those number two. It's the ones that are ignorant and hateful

They base some sort of judgment on you, and they don't know something that you know just ignore that as well there

There's nothing valuable there obviously as well number three

I noticed some comments disguise themselve as constructive criticism

But really it's just a vicious attempt to seem like they're not trying to cause you harm

But they are in fact trying to do that just go ahead and ignore those as well and number four which is

Hate comments trying to drag you down, but actually contain valuable criticism

That's the one that I think it is least worth to consider and even then you have to be very critical of it