- The front door opened and a bright yellow light

stabbed the darkness.

- I love you.

- I love you too, hun.

(upbeat instrumental music)

- [Man] Check this out.

(fart noise)

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- [Girl] Okay.

- My name is Stella Hockla.

- I'm Jason Hockla, and we're married.

- We've been dating for like a year and a half.

- Together for eight years.

- Nine.

- Nine.

- We've been married for 39 years,

40 years in April.

- Yep.

We normally go to bed like between seven 30 and eight.

- [Man] We usually go to sleep around like midnight.

- [Man] Get in bed at nine and then we all probably turn

off the lights at 11, so.

- [Woman] No, we turn off the lights by like nine 30, 10.

- [Man] We like tap into our cell phones.

- Why does she have two hearts on there?

- It's like a Snapchat thing

where you put stuff on your face.

- So I am seven months pregnant.

I've also, I have a broken ankle.

Sleep is okay.

- [Man] I'd say we sleep really well.

- [Woman] Yeah.

- [Man] I sleep with a CPAP machine.

I have sleep apnea.

It just helps me breathe.

- It's kind of weird because he looks like an alien.

It's like what the hell.

- I'd say we sleep pretty good.

We get a good eight hours.

- I think it depends on the temperature in the room

as to how well we sleep,

or if there's dogs, dogs shed in the bed or on the floor.

- [Man] Yeah, we got a lot of animals, so.

- [Man] A ton of animals.

- We have four dogs, us, the baby, and a cat.

- It's kind of like Tetris.

You've got to kind of move with the dogs,

and we do wake up sore sometimes

because you're crammed in between like a dog,

a cat, and it's kind of hard on the back sometimes.

Bailey, our dog, snores really loud.

(snoring)

- Probably.

- Eight.

- Eight.

- Four to five hours of sleep.

- I'm going to say the same.

- I sleep like six to seven hours and I'm good.

She sleeps 10 to 12 and she's not good.

I can sleep 10 to 12.

I don't know if I really necessarily do anymore with her.

I think part of me never gets to that super deep level

of sleep because I'm always like partly thinking about her,

and I'm sure that's probably the case for most moms.

- She literally wakes up every two to three hours,

which is why I check my phone to see.

I don't know why I like to know.

I guess I'm hoping for that long stretch,

that four to five hour stretch

that babies are supposed to get to at some point.

(coughing)

- [Man] I'm usually turned away from her on my side.

Every so often I'll turn towards her

and put my arm over her or something like that.

- [Man] Yes.

- [Woman] Yeah, we cuddle.

- [Man] We cuddle a lot.

- [Man] We've been together for so long,

I don't need to cuddle.

I know where he is.

- She's so cuddly.

It's going to be so hard to kick her out of bed.

And we're only going to get this for a little while,

so we're trying to enjoy it as much as we can now

until she gets of age and tells us to get lost.

(alarm ringing)

- [Woman] I'm kind of a morning person,

so I'll wake up anywhere between like four a.m. to seven.

- [Man] Normally, three, three o'clock, three 30.

- [Woman] Three, yeah, between three and three 30.

It's just a habit.

I mean if you've done it for so long.

We don't even need an alarm clock.

- [Man] Nope.

- [Man] I feel like I get up earlier than you.

- Lately you have been, yeah.

Well I'm disabled and pregnant, so give me a minute.

- I wake up way earlier than him,

and I get a little bit impatient,

so I'll usually just like annoy him

until he wakes up in the morning,

which he's usually not happy about, but.

- No, because that's usually my only time

that I get to sleep in and I never get a chance to,

so I'm basically on her schedule and mine

at the same time, so.

- [Man] We usually get up around six 30,

seven in the morning.

This is what our life has been since January 20th, 2017.

I wake up and make sure I've still got my rights.

- Right.

- So like, we're not on social media.

We're literally reading articles

about what the fuck happened while we were sleeping.

- Wow.

- That seems kind of weird

to not sleep in the same bed.

- [Man] I mean he's my husband, so I got no choice,

like it's not the 50s where we have separate beds.

- I guess we do it because that's what you're supposed

to do, but I guess my favorite thing

is waking up next to her.

Like whenever I get up in the morning and she's not in bed,

which is rare,

I like, I miss seeing her first thing.

Like it's just a good start to my day.

- [Man] For me, it's a lot for comfort and security.

I do feel safer just being with my family.

- [Woman] It's like a comfort zone.

You're comfortable with each other, you know.

You just sleep.

- My human pillow.

- Yeah.

- [Woman] I think like your bed and your bedroom

is the place that you relax and unwind

at the end of the day,

it's like your comfort place.

- [Man] Nothing feels better than when you're exhausted

and you lay into your own bed.

It's comfortable and your pillow's there,

your wife's there.

- It's a sacred space that so much happens.

Like we eat dinner on the floor,

we make love in the bedroom,

or you get dressed in the bedroom,

or you read a book,

or I gave birth to our daughter on our bed.

Yeah, it's like a sanctuary.

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