you to think about for a moment if you

can dream it you can do it he made his

dreams come true and I know you can do

the same i believe you can but I said

nothing about it being easy let's take

Walt Disney for example

legend has it that he was turned down

302 times before finally getting the

financing for his dream of creating

Disney World

I don't know about you but one rejection

is painful enough I couldn't imagine

going through that 302 times but he had

a dream he believed he could do it and

he did it

your friend Michael Unks here i have a

question for you

whites are you waiting for make your

dreams come true

you may not believe me but I know you

have a gift

I don't know exactly what it is but the

best way to bring it out is to chase

after a dream that you care about this

video is about achieving your dream

using these five steps first step is

where your journey begins number-one

realize that making your dream come true

is your responsibility and yours alone

let's illustrate responsibility by

talking about the bystander effect the

bystander effect is determined

psychology that explains why people do

not help victim when other people are

around responsibility spread amongst the

group and they're not compelled to act

let's say you're the person on the

ground and getting on your feet

represents making your dream come true

it's not that people don't care about

you it's that there's seven billion

people on this planet and they all

believe someone else will take care of

you

so if you're waiting for circumstances

or someone to make your dream come true

for you it's just not going to happen

take responsibility and get up on your

feet

there are two parts of responsibility

and the second one you may not be

thinking about and we can explain it by

the bystander effect but before we do I

want you to think about this quote from

martin luther king jr. everybody can be

great because anybody can serve in my

opinion that's what the dream is all

about making it happen so you can serve

other people make a positive difference

in this world

I've started to believe that people are

in your path for a reason if they need

your help you are there to give it you

have those gifts but it's up to you

you are responsible for helping these

people in your path

the world needs you you have a gift you

have something to offer that no one else

can if you can't do it for yourself take

responsibility and do it for other

people taking responsibility for making

your dreams come true is an excellent

start but we need more steps the second

one is dream big

you only have one life to live why not

go after something you really wanted and

something that excites you

I have one example to illustrate my

point the first point is that you don't

have to be the most talented to make

your dream come true

I was having a conversation with a high

school senior recently asked him what he

wanted to do he said I want to major in

engineering what I really want to do is

to go for creative writing and be a

writer but it's unpredictable i won't

have a job when I get out so i'll be an

engineer instead

plus I'm not even really that good

here's where I told him there are

millions of people that have this option

right now but they're choosing the safe

option so very few are going after this

creative writing if you go do this and

you stick with it for the rest of your

life you can actually develop and become

a great writer be in New York Times

bestseller someday if you want to go be

an engineer that's fine there's nothing

wrong with it but I think what will

happen is that you'll do it but they'll

be a part of you deep inside that always

regret not going after your dream

all of a sudden he got a big smile on

his face and he told me you know what

I'm gonna go for it

thank you my friend I'm telling you the

same thing

dream big I've had this conversation

with a lot of people and I know what

their complaints are I don't want to be

disappointed but if you settle for

something that you don't want deep down

in your heart you'll always be

disappointed

and another thing being you're not good

enough well the thing is there's people

better than you i'm not going to argue

that but they're like you they're afraid

they're going to choose the safer option

if you are brave and go after what you

want and stick with it you make it

happen and dreams that are big fuel you

motivate you inspire you to take action

to wake up early in the morning and stay

up late at night you will have the

desire and you will put the work in and

you actually develop into the person

that you want to be that makes this

dream come true dream big step three you

already know what you haven't heard this

way so hear me out number three is

believed think about this quote from

Theodore Roosevelt

believe you can and you're halfway there

this is so true it's one of my favorite

quotes in illustrating how I interpret

this quote is one of my favorite things

i do because it lights people up and

we'll do the same for you

I believe when you truly believe your

dream come true

you're on a bridge and your smack-dab in

the middle you have two choices to make

you can proceed for with courage and

make your dream come true or you can

backtrack you can make excuses you can

sell yourself and why you're not good

enough and retreat

the thing is they both take the same

amount of energy maybe the dream is more

mentally and physically draining but

backtracking retreating is draining on

your soul and that will crush you

it's so much easier and so much more

exciting just to proceed forward and go

towards your dream if you believe you

can you're halfway there just put the

other half in and join me at the finish

line number four is a must and there's

no way I would have a positive attitude

and there's no way i would go after my

dream if I didn't do this number four is

support

no one makes their wild dream come true

without a little help and that's why

it's crucial to surround yourself with

the right people

jim rohn has said you're the average of

the five people you spend the most time

with think about the five people closest

to you are they helping you or hindering

you from making your dream come true

that's incredible at these five are

encouraging you and supporting you and

doing whatever they can to make your

dream come true but that's not always

the case

sometimes it's those closest to you that

are sabotaging you drain your energy

destroying your drive and ultimately

impacting your success

what can you do well Jim Rohn has a

solution for that

if you don't like where you are move

your not a tree

life is tough enough start searching for

those who encourage you to support you

and want what's best for you people who

have your bag who helped you up when you

fall down and see your potential

remember to choose your peer group

carefully because it's the difference

between you being a piece of coal or

dymond if you apply these four steps you

go very far in life but you have to

remember number five Number five keep

going when you're applying these other

four steps it's not a matter of if but

when you'll be successful but sometimes

making your dreams a reality takes

longer than you'd like you're tempted to

quit but remember this miracles occur at

the point where you want to quit so

badly but don't

but honestly I think you underestimate

yourself

I think you achieve your dream much

faster than you imagined that's a

problem you might get to the finish line

and say this is it what's next

the answer to that question is simple

keep going

those are the five things you need to

make your dream a reality and by

applying them my dreams i'll be telling

your success story someday achieving

your dream won't be easy but remember we

started this video if you can dream it

you can do it for ever doubting yourself

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