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  • Muhammad Ali was one of the most outspoken self promoters in sports history. He said that

  • he was the greatest all the time. You would think that that confidence would be construed

  • as arrogance, yet Ali was one of the most beloved sports icons we've ever known. Today

  • we're going to look at what made him such a remarkable man and how he was supremely

  • confident without coming off as too arrogant and how we can make the kind of impact he

  • did on the people around us.

  • The first thing you have to note about Muhammad Ali is that he could trash talk like no other.

  • Ali predicted he'd crush every fighter he ever fought and he usually did, but you never

  • heard him say, "I respect his talent. I've been training hard and, I think, I'm gonna

  • come out on top." It was always about how the guy he was fighting was a total bum and

  • was about to get whooped. Obviously, this runs the risk of coming off as extremely arrogant,

  • but Ali pulled this bravado off while remaining very likable. And it was primarily because

  • his confidence was real, but his arrogance was performed.

  • And you knew he was kind of joking when he made ridiculous and funny statements like this.

  • The rhyming, the exaggerated bragging, the humor, these are things that let the audience

  • know it's all just a performance. We know Ali didn't really think he was going to go

  • to jail or that he was faster than lightning. And because we can see that he's partially

  • kidding, we can forgive the boasting.

  • So the lesson here is that if you're going to brag, it is actually less obnoxious when

  • you take it to the extreme. If you can take it so far to the extreme that people laugh,

  • then bragging can even become something that people like about you, and I've seen Kevin

  • Hart make this same type of joke often.

  • You see there? Just an example, but that kind of exaggerated boasting can actually make

  • people like you more, and that's how it was with Ali. But let's be clear, talk without

  • walk means nothing. A huge portion of Ali's charisma comes from the fact that he was super

  • humanly talented. He backed up what he said. Look at how good he was.

  • Ali was so good that sometimes he looked like he had actual super powers.

  • So if you're going to brag, make sure that you're doing it over the top, to the point

  • of humor. But if you want to convey honest confidence that inspires people, make sure

  • you can back it up. As much confidence as Ali had, and as much as he showed, he was

  • just as good in the ring, but that wasn't everything that Ali had.

  • He was also a dominant force in every interaction. Watch here how he completely ignores the reporter,

  • telling him that he isn't pretty, and delivers one of his most iconic lines.

  • This kind of interaction might look insignificant, but it happens all the time and it is very

  • important. It is a clash of frames. We've talked about this before in different videos

  • on Tyrion if you want to check that out. But, right here, Ali's frame says that he should

  • be doing the talking. The reporter's frame says that Ali should listen because he's asking

  • questions. Those two frames collide and Ali, as always, comes out on top.

  • The winner of any frame collision is going to be the person who believes their frame

  • more, but watch here to see the subtleties of how that is communicated. I want you to pay attention

  • to three things.

  • First, how Ali doesn't look at the reporter, but the reporter looks at him. Second, how

  • Ali doesn't respond to what the reporter says, but the reporter responds to him. And, third,

  • how the reporter tries to physically pull Ali towards him, but Ali doesn't budge.

  • That took about 8 seconds, which is as long as it takes for him to be a winner in the

  • frame game. These short little frame collisions happen all the time throughout your day in

  • tons of different ways. And what's remarkable is that from what I can tell, Muhammad Ali

  • always stayed firmly rooted in his own frame. When we see that kind of conviction, we can't

  • help but be drawn to it.

  • Here's just another little example that you might relate to. When two people go to give

  • different styles of handshakes, watch how Ali maintains his frame.

  • Ali isn't trying to be a jerk. In fact, he was very playful throughout this interview, but

  • he has grown accustomed to setting the tone of the interaction. Pay attention in your

  • own life, in subtle little ways, who do you make adjustments for and who do you stick

  • to your guns with? That's a pretty clear indication of who the leader is in any sort of relationship.

  • Now, there is no problem with taking a follower role sometimes, but in certain situations

  • like sales pitches, interviews, even dates, you are usually going to benefit from being

  • the leader, so those frame games become very important.

  • Ali was so confident, had such a strong frame, that he seemingly had no fear of being honest.

  • That might not seem like a big deal, but most people are extremely afraid of what others

  • would think of them if they were totally real. Have you ever been in a conversation, pretended

  • to know something you didn't, so you wouldn't look stupid? Look at how Ali handled that

  • exact type of situation.

  • Admitting what you don't know,

  • especially when you want to come across as intelligent, takes serious guts.

  • It shows leadership and courage. Similarly, had you ever bit your tongue when you disagreed

  • with someone who was telling you how wrong you were? Look how Ali handled that kind of situation.

  • It's not just his skill at boxing, but this, that made Muhammad Ali an icon. Agree or disagree

  • with him, you knew exactly what he stood for. You knew exactly how he felt because he told

  • you to your face. That kind of unreserved honesty draws people like a magnet because

  • it shows that unlike almost everyone else, Ali wasn't afraid of the consequences of the truth.

  • Here, he's speaking about his refusal to fight in Vietnam. If you don't know the background,

  • the short of the story is that Ali refused to fight in Vietnam when he was drafted based

  • on his religious beliefs as a Muslim. Now, keep in mind, he's a Black Muslim man in the 1960's

  • in America. This is a huge, huge thing.

  • Now you might not agree with Ali's religious beliefs or his refusal to fight in the Vietnam

  • war, but when you see someone standing up to authority and social convention because

  • at the time, Vietnam was still pretty well supported. You can't help but respect that

  • person's conviction.

  • Most people blow whichever way social norms take them, and when we find someone rooted

  • firmly in their own beliefs, who is willing to suffer the consequences of stating and

  • standing up for what he believed in, part of us loves them for their bravery.

  • So if you take only one thing from this video, make it this. Think of something you believe

  • in that you might be hiding from the people around you and stop hiding it. You don't have

  • to push your beliefs on others, but stand up for what you believe, even when it's inconvenient

  • for you. It might feel like that would alienate you from everyone, but it's actually one of

  • the best things you can do to build self-esteem and radiate charisma.

  • If you're curious what some of the other things that can help you radiate charisma, there

  • are actually four things in total in a first impression. And, unfortunately, most people

  • do this completely wrong. They make the mistake in the order and butcher their first impression.

  • So, if you're curious what those things are and how to avoid that mistake, we've set up

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  • If you have any video suggestions, please go ahead write them in the Comments. Muhammad

  • Ali was a very common suggestion and I couldn't be happier that I finally took the time to

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  • I hope that you guys enjoyed this video and I'm looking forward to seeing you in the next one.

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