1. Don't be afraid of being sensitive and vulnerable.

I know our society makes it seem like that's a huge weakness and you

have to be this macho puff daddy

but, you're also a human being.

Plus, anyone who makes fun of you for being those things

is just insecure about their own masculinity.

2. Don't be a "nice guy." Be a good guy.

I feel like a lot of the people who claim to be "nice guys"

aren't that nice.

Cause if you're really nice, do you you have to constantly say,

"Well I'm a nice guy! But I'm a nice guy! I deserve this!"

Just strive to be a good guy. Because nice guys finish last.

And the good guys go first.

3. If you want something more than friendship, and she doesn't,

don't be friends.

A lot of guys talk about "the friendzone" but guess what,

"The friendzone" is when two people are friends.

That's all it is.

Don't be one of those guys who pretends that you're someone's friend just

because you want to wait around for the off-chance that you can fuck her.

Because not only is that super fucking disrespectful to you,

but it's also like..

you deserve someone who wouldn't

be afraid to ask you out.

Or someone who's like, "Oh, I'm all about you, boo.

Let's do this."

Respect yourself, bro.

4. Don't be afraid to feel.

I have 2 guy friends who are best friends. They're super fucking besties.

And I think it's the cutest thing ever

when they hug each other, and like

one will kiss the other on the forehead,

or they'll like, kiss each other on the cheeks,

or they'll just genuinely tell each other that they love each other,

and it's kinda sad that we don't have that more often,

and that men are like, kind of..

If you like, love your bro so hard,

you want to give them a fucking kiss on the forehead,

give them a fucking kiss on the forehead.

Now, if your best guy friend doesn't

want these things from you, maybe you should not,

but I mean, you should at least TRY to kiss them on the forehead.

He might like it.

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(normally) Miss Earth comes out October 16th, 2014.

I hope you like it. Really excited.

Stay awesome, Gotham.

Subtitles by Skylar Coland via Amara