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I'm going to tell you how to get around the fact that you, in reality, are only capable
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of exercising so much willpower at any one time. We have to learn to live with our limits,
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and research shows, from social psychology, it's very, very, extremely clear research,
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it shows that we cannot take on more than three projects of any sizable importance at
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any one time, and if we attempt to do three really monstrous things, we're going to tax
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our actual ability to do so when it comes to our willpower. We have a finite amount
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of willpower, and so you have to learn to use it like any other energy source capably,
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and you know, with a kind of sensible approach to what you can really get done. Now, I know
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that's hard for you if you're ambitious, and if you're creative, and if you have a lot
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of ideas and a lot of projects you have to follow, and you want to follow them, but guess
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what. That's one of the reasons you're crashing into barriers instead of actually tapping
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your untapped potential. You're greedy, in a way, about how much you want to do at any
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one time. If you're greedy, raise your hand. Mine's up. I'm greedy. It's really hard for
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me to slow down and stop and say, here's one thing I really need to focus on, but I'm very
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well aware of running into my own limits of willpower. Then, the bad thing that can happen
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is you can attack yourself. Not only do you not capably finish what you're doing and you
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abandon something and now you start something new because it looks fun, and the fun parts
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going, and you're not in that grinding, scut work part where you've got to stay with that.
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It's because you get interested in the fun part again. I understand that, but you can
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learn to work around this. You can hack this problem of limited willpower by sequencing
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what you do and only scheduling one major thing to pursue and doing it well. So don't
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have three major projects. That's the limit, but why tax the limit? Do one thing really,
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really well, and put it to bed and make sure it becomes silently a part of your life before
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you try to tackle another thing at the same time. I hope you really get how important
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this can be. Try it out. You're going to find out that you can learn to handle one thing
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really well instead of going off, trying to do a number of things at the same time. Now,
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the research shows you can do three things at the same time. Be very careful about what
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those three things are, and make sure you give space between them in a day. I'd say
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do one, and do it well. That's the best way I can give you. It's the best way to hack
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it. Since you're a high achiever, you may know about this. High achievers often hit
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a wall. They're going along. They're having one success after another, and then suddenly,
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something happens, and they grind to a halt. And it's confusing because they're not sure
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what it is they've done wrong, if it's anything. They just know that they're not moving any
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more, the way they're used to working, the way they have moved in the past. If you've
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run into like what seems like a ceiling over you, and you're kind of in a fog, and you're
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mystified as to what's getting in your way, you can even, kind of, slide into a swirl
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of doubts and wonder if you've ever really achieved anything significant at all and whether
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any of your amazing achievements that you've done were anything but kind of fronting or
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a little bit of a fraud. That is really negative and pernicious, and it doesn't have to be
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that way. I want you to go get a free report from me. Go to DrKenChristian.com/BREAKTHROUGH
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and receive from me this free report with action steps that are going to tell you exactly
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what to do now to get you going.