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Girls, I know what you're going through. There's a boy that you like but how are you going

to get him to notice you amongst a sea of other... maybe hotter, maybe more outgoing

girls? I'll tell you. The key is confidence. And confidence seems like one of those things

that either you have or you don't. But you're wrong, because it can be easily, easily faked.

Here's the key. Pick a celebrity that you like and sort of emulate her. Mine is Kim

Kardashian. I know, I know. She's not exactly a nobel prize winner but she's a very confident

girl. So I sort of like channel the Kim when I see a boy that I like or when I want to

impress somebody. And it sort of gives me that wall be more confident without feeling

like I'm totally exposing my natural personality. Also, make sure your body language is reflecting

the results you want. If you're hump-shouldered and slouching and not making eye contact of

course nobody's going to notice you because that's the message that you're sending. Make

sure those shoulders are back. Stick your boobs out. You didn't spend $50 of Victoria's

Secret for nothing, did you? No? Show them off! Come on. Make sure that your posture's good.

A key to good posture? You always want to make sure your thumbs, when you're standing

up straight, are pointing forward. If your thumbs are touching your thighs that means

your shoulders are down. And you're probably looking little sloppy. Not attractive. Also,

smile. Nobody wants to talk to the girl who looks like she's going to bite your head off.

Just be confident, or, at the very least, fake it. I'm sure that Kim Kardashian does.