Name: TEDx】誰とでも恋をするために｜マンディ・レン・キャトロン｜TEDxChapmanU (【TEDx】To Fall in Love with Anyone | Mandy Len Catron | TEDxChapmanU)
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in the New York Times Modern Love column in January of this year.

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And the article is about a psychological study

designed to create romantic love in the laboratory,

and my own experience trying the study myself

two strangers take turns asking each other 36 increasingly personal questions

and then they stare into each other's eyes

So here are a couple of sample questions.

Number 12: If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability,

Number 28: When did you last cry in front of another person?

As you can see, they really do get more personal as they go along.

Tell your partner what you like about them;

saying things you might not say to someone you just met.

So when I first came across this study a few years earlier,

and that was the rumor that two of the participants

and they'd invited the entire lab to the ceremony.

about this process of just manufacturing romantic love,

And when I got the chance to try this study myself,

with someone I knew but not particularly well,

And I thought it made a good story, so I sent it to the Modern Love column

so I'm guessing that some of you are probably wondering,

And the reason I think you might be wondering this

is because I have been asked this question

again and again and again for the past seven months.

And this question is really what I want to talk about today.

I had been working on a book about love stories

so I had gotten used to writing about my own experiences

But a blog post might get a couple hundred views at the most,

and those were usually just my Facebook friends,

and I figured my article in the New York Times

and by Saturday, this had happened to the traffic on my blog.

And by Sunday, both the Today Show and Good Morning America had called.

Within a month, the article would receive over 8 million views,

underprepared for this sort of attention.

It's one thing to work up the confidence to write honestly

that your love life has made international news --

and to realize that people across the world

are genuinely invested in the status of your new relationship.

And when people called or emailed, which they did every day for weeks,

they always asked the same question first:

and several messages popped up immediately.

I even gave a talk, and one woman shouted up to the stage,

I understand that this is part of the deal.

If you write about your relationship in an international newspaper,

you should expect people to feel comfortable asking about it.

But I just wasn't prepared for the scope of the response.

The 36 questions seem to have taken on a life of their own.

In fact, the New York Times published a follow-up article

which featured readers' experiences of trying the study themselves,

So my first impulse in the face of all of this attention

was to become very protective of my own relationship.

I said no to every request for the two of us

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