Name: なぜ仏教は恋愛をサポートしないのか？ (Why doesnt Buddhism support romantic love?)
Uploaded: 2021-01-14T05:35:47.000Z
Duration: 8 min 38 s
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If one of the basis of the Buddhist religion,

Why isn't this also equally true of romantic love

and their demonstration of love for each other.

She asks if Buddhism supports love for Mother Nature,

why doesn't it also support  romantic love between two people

and demonstrations of affection between two people.

The Buddha is a picture of love, true love.

Love for Mother Earth, should be true love.

And if it is true love it can bring a lot of happiness

But if it is not true love,  it will make you suffer,

If you cannot offer happiness, that is not true love.

if you are not able to help the other person to be happy,

So you should train yourself in order to be able

The second element of true love  is compassion.

Compassion is the kind of energy  that can help remove suffering;

that can help transform suffering in you and in the other person.

and take care of the suffering in you and the other person

That is why "Karuna", the second element of true love,

should be cultivated by you and the other person.

Romantic and not romantic, that is not important.

What is important is whether it is true love,

you make the other person cry all the time,

There is no individual suffering and happiness anymore.

there is the element of inclusiveness, non-discrimination.

So this is the fourth element of true love.

And if romantic love has all these four elements,

The Buddha did not say, never any negative things about true love

You will cultivate a lot of  loving-kindness and compassion.

And very soon your love will be all-embracing.

The other person is no longer the only object of your love.

That is the meaning of the fourth element

If it is true love, it will continue to grow,

and include more and more. Not only humans...

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なぜ仏教は恋愛をサポートしないのか？ (Why doesnt Buddhism support romantic love?)

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