when talking to women is that they don't know what to say next or that they just go blank

their mind goes blank and they just don't know what to say next and if that you as was

well then you know this will be helpful. What's the reason why the mind goes blank

or why guys don't know what to say next with the number one reason for that after having

talked with and coached many guys over the years. The number one reason for them not

knowing what to say next and also for their mind going blank is that they haven't listened

to what she said because they've been worrying about what to say next. You see if they have

listened or if they were able to listen well they would get lots of information from what

the girl has just said specially if the girl actually wants us to carry on talking and

having the conversation developed she will give guys cues. Cues are bits of information

that men can pick up on or can ignore as very often guys do because they're not really hearing

what she's saying because they're nervous or they are worried about what to say next.

So it's a self-fulfilling prophecy, if you're worried about what to say next you're likely

to not be picking up the cues that the girl leaves therefore, you won't have anything

to relate to anything that to pick up on and therefore, what you will say next will either

be unrelated or you might just dry up and not know what to say. Because there is enough

working in your own vacuum there instead of listening, hearing what she's saying, and

picking up what you find interesting about what she saying or what she finds interesting

about what she's saying and noticing that and asking her another question about it.

So as an example, if you have a conversation that says Bob says, "Hey have you've been

here before?" and the girl says, "No, it's my first time, actually I moved here recently."

And then if Bob doesn't know what he's doing then he will say, "Yeah I've been here many

times and it's really a good band that's why I come here." So it doesn't connect with what

she's just given him as cues. She gave him cues and she said it's her first time and

she said she only moved here recently. Now that is not real information that she has

given which indicates that she wants him to keep talking to her otherwise, she could just

have just said, "No." Alright so there we go, so if Bob is clever

he had picked up on stuffed that she said because he's listening and then equal their

conversation. I would advise you to do the same listen carefully,

don't think ahead about what you've got to say that you just have to trust that she will

say something that you will be able to connect with, comment on, and ask her another question

about. It's really important not to think ahead and

plan your next sentence that way lies, blank, starry-eyes, faces of men and women absolutely

go mad when they see this happening and it happens a lot.

So I hope that is useful so make sure in the moment that you keep listening and only when

you've listened you will let whatever you've heard and informed what you are going to respond

to. That's how a conversation is actually two-way street.

Alright now, this is a very basic thing that I'm explaining which I'm sure you know but

it's a very important thing. If you want to find out more about everything to do with

conversation skills and everything to do with how to make sure that woman feel connected

and attracted to you when you talk to them go to http://www.PimpYourLingo.com and that

is where I share a lot of cool information and a lot more advanced than this and of course

we'll also go with the basics.