by someone else's! You will need Chargers Napkins Bread dishes Butter spreaders Knives

Forks Spoons Glasses Dessert plates Dessert utensils and oyster forks (optional). Step

1. Place a large plate, known as a charger, in the center of the place setting. This plate

serves as the underplate for courses that precede the entree, and is taken away when

the main dish arrives. Step 2. Lay a folded napkin on top of the charger. Step 3. Place

a bread dish to the upper left-hand side of the charger, at the 11 o'clock position. Lay

a small butter spreader diagonally across the top of the plate, handle on the right

at 4 o'clock and blade facing down. Step 4. Place the dinner knife to the right of the

charger. If there's a fish course, place the fish knife to the right of the dinner knife.

If you're including an appetizer or salad knife, place it to the right of the fish knife.

Make sure the blades face the plate. Step 5. Arrange the forks to the left of the charger

in the order in which they will be used, starting from the outside and working in. The only

exception is an oyster fork, which is placed on the right side of the plate, to the right

of the knives and spoon. An oyster fork can be used for any shellfish, not just oysters.

Step 6. If you are serving a fruit or soup course, place the appropriate spoon to the

right of the knives. Don't put more than three types of one utensil on the table, except

for an oyster fork, which can join three other forks. If more utensils are needed, bring

them with each subsequent dish. Step 7. Place a water glass above the dinner knife. If you're

serving champagne, a flute goes to the right of it. Place wine glasses, ending with a sherry

glass, in front of the first two glasses. Step 8. Bring dessert forks and spoons along

with the dessert plate when that course is served. Did you know Erasmus, a Dutchman who

wrote the first popular book of manners in 1530, suggested that diners wipe their fingers

on the tablecloth, rather than licking them or wiping them on their clothes.