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There is definitely a difference between a lazy day which everybody should be able to
enjoy and a lazy lifestyle. You know when we are talking laziness it's having the ability
to do something and not doing it. And the concern with laziness is that oftentimes the
things that people are lazy about they can't afford to be lazy about. Our society breeds
laziness because we really push ourselves to be accessible and available and on and
we were in this very competitive mindset and so I think that a lot of us are confused about
the difference between just being plain out exhausted with everything that we need to
do and just wanting to check out and actually being lazy. So what I've found when working
with clients who are lazy is that there is usually some kind of fear that motivates somebody
from taking action. And so when we get to the fear of what's causing that laziness oftentimes
we're able to overcome it. Let's say someone has a health condition and they can go to
the doctor but they don't go to the doctor; they have health insurance and they have a
transportation and they have a license or they have a loved one who is willing to drive
them. And instead of making the appointment and following through with the appointment
they choose to sit at home and watch reality television all day. Now on the surface we
can look at that and say well that's really lazy behavior and it's true. But underneath
it what I've found is that there is a fear that going to the doctor could result in a
diagnosis or going to the doctor could result in a lifestyle change that they are not ready
for. So I look at laziness as more of an avoidance than anything else. I find it to be very unproductive
and anytime I am working with a client who is lazy which is rare because a lazy client
is typically not motivated to reach out to a coach to get help, we look for the underlying
cause.