Allthesekidsfeeltremendouspressuretomaintaintheirimageintheirparticulargroupinpartbecausethere's justsomesecurityinbelongingto a group, evenifthatgroupgetspickedonbyanothergroup.
Thepastcoupleweeks, we'vebeentalkingaboutchildhoodas a crucialperiodofgrowth, learning, andchange, anditdefinitelyis, butanyonewho's everseen a JohnHughesmovieknowsthatthere's waymoretogrowingupthanjustthat.
And I gotsomenewsforyou -fromadolescenceintoadulthoodandintooldage, thedramaofyourpersonalpsychologicaldevelopmentneverceases.
Never! Sogetusedtoit.
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Today, mostpsychologistsviewourpsychologicaldevelopmentas a lifelongprocessfrominfant, toadolescent, toadult, tocard-carryingseniorcitizen, peoplekeeprightonchanging.
JustasPiagetgaveus a helpfulframeworkforthinkingaboutearlydevelopment, otherscholarshavegivenusideasabouthowwedevelopthroughtherestofourlives, particularlyErikErikson.
Likemanyothers, Eriksonbelievedourpersonalitiesdevelopin a predeterminedorder, whichheoutlinedinaneight-stagemodel.
Hopefully a personcomesoutofthisstagewith a reintegratedsenseofself, butthisstagecanbeparticularlyconfusingas I'm sureanybodywatchingthisvideocanattestto.
Eriksonbelievedthatyoungadulthood, whichinhisview, startedin a person's 20s andendedaslateastheearly 40s, wasmarkedbyanotherstruggle, onebetweenintimacyandisolation.
Bythisstageinlife, mostofushavebegunexploringintimaterelationships, whetherthat's with a steadysweetheart, orjustanactiveOkCupidprofile.
A goodrelationshipherecanleadtofeelingsofsafetyandcaringandcommitment, while a lackofintimacycanleadtolonelinessandisolationanddepression.
Recently, a numberofpsychologistshavebeguntorefertothefirstfewyearsofthisstageasemergingadulthood, andsomesuggestthatitwarrantsitsownclassificationdistinctfromadolescenceorfulladulthood.
Andatleastinmodernwesternculture, manypeopleinthisstagedofeellikethey'restuckin a sortofin-betweentime.
Inourlateadulthood, from 65 andup, weoftenstrugglewithintegrityvs. despair.
Maybeyou'vehungoutwith a grandparentorsomeotherseniorandheardthemcontemplatingtheirlivesandaccomplishmentsandreminiscingabouthowcheap a milkshakeusedtobe.
Well, iftheiroverallvibeispositive,they'veprobablydeveloped a senseofintegrityandcompleteness, meaningthey'reprettysatisfiedwith a lifewelllived.
It's hardtogeneralizethesestagesofadulthoodbecausewedon't reallyhityearlymilestoneslikewedidwhenwewerekids, andadultlifestylescanvary a wholelot. I mean, in a lotofways, 70-year-oldMickJagger's stillliving a youngerlifestylethan a lotof 20-somethings I know.
Noneofthisistosaythat a jacked 50-year-oldcouldn't beat a lazy 20-year-oldon a 100-meterdash, because, ofcourse, howwellyoutakecareofyourbodycountsfor a lot.
Althoughsomepeoplemightfeelthattheirwitsget a bitfuzzywithage, researchsuggeststhatwhileonekindofintelligencedecreasesafteradolescence, anotherkindkeepsincreasingthroughoutyourlifetime.