Yes Prove it like what's the metric?

はい、それを証明してください。

Give me the number that helps me know Right because when you met her you didn't love her now you love her.

彼女に会ったときは愛していなかったのに、今は愛している。

Tell me the day The love happened.

愛が起こった日を教えてください。

It's an impossible question But it's not that it doesn't exist It's that it's much easier to prove over time Right, if you were to go to the gym you work out and you come back and you look in the mirror You will see nothing and if you go to the gym the next day and you come back and you look in the mirror You will see Nothing, right?

不可能な質問だが、存在しないのではなく、時間が経てば証明しやすくなる。

So clearly there's no results can't be measured it must not be effective so we quit right Or if you fundamentally believe that this is the right course of action and you stick with it You commit yourself to the regime the exercise you can screw it up You can eat chocolate cake one day.

もし、根本的にこれが正しい行動だと信じて、それを続けるのであれば、その体制にコミットし、エクササイズに打ち込む。

You can skip a skip a day or two, you know It allows for that.

1日や2日サボってもいいんだ。

But if you stick with it consistently, I'm not exactly sure what day But I know you'll start getting into shape.

でも、コンスタントに続ければ、何日かははっきりしないけど、体型が整ってくるのはわかるよ。

I know it and the same with the relationship.

私はそれを知っているし、関係も同じだ。

It's not about the events It's not about intensity.

イベントの強さではない。

It's about consistency Right, you go to the dentist twice a year.

年に2回、歯医者に行きますよね。

Your teeth will fall out You have to brush your teeth every day for two minutes.

歯が抜ける 毎日2分間歯を磨かなければならない。

What is brushing your day twice a day for two minutes do nothing Unless you do it every day twice a day for two minutes Right.

1日2回、2分間のブラッシングは、毎日2回、2分間行わない限り、何の意味もない。

It's the consistency going to the gym for nine hours does not get you into shape working out every day for 20 minutes Gets you into shape But it's the daily practice of all the monotonous little boring things like brushing your teeth that matter the most Leadership is exactly the same.

9時間ジムに通ってもシェイプアップにはならない。毎日20分トレーニングすればシェイプアップできる。

There's no event There's no thing I can tell you you have to do that.

イベントもないし、そうしなければいけないと言えることもない。

Your people will trust you.

部下はあなたを信頼する。

It just doesn't work that way It's the Nick.

ニックだ。

It's an accumulation of Lots and lots of little things that anyone by themselves is innocuous and useless Literally pointless by themselves people will look at little things that are good leadership practices and say that won't work and you're absolutely Right, but if you do it consistently and you do it in combination with lots of other little things Like saying good morning to someone that looking him in the eye My friend George is a three-star general in the Marine Corps He says his test for leadership and I love this He goes his test really a good leaders if you ask somebody how their day is going you actually care about the answer And the number of times we're walking to a meeting.

リーダーシップとは、たくさんの小さなことの積み重ねであり、それだけでは何の変哲もない、文字通り無意味なものなのだ、私の友人のジョージは海兵隊の三ツ星大将だが、彼はリーダーシップのテストについてこう言っている。

We're rushing.

急いでいるんだ。

We go.

私たちは行く。

How are you?

お元気ですか？

Not good.

良くない。

I gotta get you later I got I'm late for a meeting if you ask the question you were standing there and you're listening to the answer it's those little innocuous things that you do over and over and over and over that people will say I Love my job and the same with the relationship She didn't fall in love with you because you remembered her birthday and bought her flowers and Valentine's Day She fell in love with you because when you woke up in the morning, you said good morning to her before you checked your phone She fell in love with you because when you went to the fridge to get yourself a drink You got her one without even asking she fell in love with you because when you had an amazing day at work And she came home and she had a terrible day at work.

あなたがそこに立っていて、その答えを聞いていたなら、それはあなたが何度も何度も何度も何度も何度も何度もするような、そんな小さな無害なことです、あなたが携帯電話をチェックする前に、彼女に「おはよう」と言ったから 彼女はあなたに恋をした なぜなら、あなたが自分で飲み物を取りに冷蔵庫に行ったとき、あなたは頼みもしないのに彼女に飲み物を買ってきたから 彼女はあなたに恋をした なぜなら、あなたが仕事で素晴らしい一日を過ごしたとき、彼女は家に帰ってきて、彼女は仕事でひどい一日を過ごしたから

You didn't say yeah.

そうとは言わなかった。

Yeah Yeah, but let me tell you about my day You sat and listened to her awful day and you didn't say a thing about your amazing This is why she fell in love with you I can't tell you exactly what day and it was no particular thing you did It was the accumulation of all of those little things that she woke up one days and this as if she pressed a button she goes I Love him

そうそう、でも私の一日のことを教えてあげよう。あなたは彼女のひどい一日をじっと聞いていて、あなたの素晴らしさについて何も言わなかった。