womenwhoaremuchmoreconfidentandmuchmoreinnotinneedofbeingwithsomebodyandfeelmuchmoreconfident. Theycanembracethatsolitudeofgoingouttoeatandnotfeelinglikethey'reoh, "I don't think I candothis."
Right, youdon't gottawaittillsomebodyasksyououton a dateorsomething.
I rememberwhen I wasinJapanlastyear, theyhavetheselikesolorestaurantswhere I meanyousitdown, youdon't havetotalkto a serverIt's justsortofin a cubicle.
去年日本に行ったとき、一人用のレストランがあって、席に座るとサーバーと話さなくていいんだ。
That's themostextremeversionofit.
それが最も極端なバージョンだ。
Butwhatarerestaurantsdoinghere?
しかし、レストランはここで何をしているのだろう?
Well, I think a goodrestaurantembracesthereasonwhythepersonisthere.
soifyoucanlookatitas a seatthatyoucanfillwith a singlepersonthatbenefitsyoufinanciallyandevengoasfarassayingmaybewe'regonnadopromotionsforpeopleeatingatthebar,
maybewe'regonnahavepromotionsforpeopleeatbythemselvesat a communaltable.
Soit's really a chancetokindofsay I reallylovethisbecause I canmaximizemyvolumebygettingthoseseatsfilled.