And there was a little bit of tension, quite a bit of tension at first, because it was hard to find the right, you know, the right boundaries, because I wanted to be able to have this time for myself, and it was hard to say no, and it was hard for John to learn that I was really serious and that I really wanted this time for myself.
私は自分のための時間を持ちたかったので、適切な、つまり、適切な境界線を見つけるのが難しかったし、断るのも難しかった。