Soit's notsomuchhowmanyfriendsyouhaveasit's notasimportanttohave a lotoffriendsasitmightbetohavepeoplethatyoucantrust, thatyoucankindoftakewithyouinlifefor a longerterm.
Now, when I answerthesequestions, I'm thinkingbacktoreallifesituations.
今、この質問に答えるとき、私は実生活の状況を思い返している。
Andinsomecases I haveseenparentsinterferingandtryingtomakethosedecisionsfortheirchildrenwheretheywererighttodosobecausethechildwasinbadcompanyandtheyweretoonaiveortoo, I mean, I guesstheywerejusttoonaivetoseethatthatsituationwasnotrightforthem.
Andthewaythatyoulearnfromthemistohave a negativeexperienceandthenfindyourwayoutofit.
そして、そこから学ぶ方法は、ネガティブな経験をして、そこから抜け出す方法を見つけることだ。
So I wouldsaythat I canseecertainsituations, whetherit's badrelationships, badfriendshipswhenyou'reyounger, notrelationshipswhenyou'reyounger, friendshipswhenyou'reyounger.
Everythingiskindofeditedandmonitoredtopresent a certainkindofimage.
すべてがある種のイメージを提示するために編集され、監視されている。
Soifyoumeetsomebodyonlineandyouknownothingaboutthem, theycanreallypresentanyversionofrealityor a completelycurated, sometimesdishonestformoftheirrealitytoyou.
Also, I thinkifyou'vebeenfriendsfromthetimethatyouwere a childwithsomebody, you'velivedthroughsomanylifeeventstogetherthatthatkindofbondishardtobuildwithsomeonethatyoumeetinyourmid-30s becauseyou'vejustlostsomuchtimethatyou'relearningsomething.