You can't change your career at 35 you should have had it figured out by then.

35歳でキャリアを変えることはできない。

Oh my god you're not married at 38 what the hell are you doing with your life?

38歳にもなって結婚しないなんて......一体何をしてるんだ？

Who comes up with this stuff I have no idea but this stuff plagues so many people that I speak to.

誰がこんなことを言い出したのか私にはわからないが、私が話をする多くの人々がこのようなことで悩んでいる。

So many people open up to me and say Jay I just don't know how to change is it possible?

多くの人が私に心を開いてこう言うんだ。ジェイ、私はどう変わればいいのかわからない。

What do you think this guy was before he became who he is?

この男が今のようになる前は何だったと思う？

He used to be a PE teacher right sports teacher at a high school.

彼は以前、高校の体育教師だった。

How about her?

彼女はどうですか？

She was a telemarketer for two weeks.

彼女は2週間テレマーケターをしていた。

How about her?

彼女はどうですか？

She applied to be a funeral director.

彼女は葬儀屋を志願した。

It's incredible.

信じられないよ。

What happens in society is that we're clouded by the noise.

社会で起きていることは、私たちがノイズに曇らされているということだ。

The noise of family expectations the noise of our parents the noise of our brothers and sisters expectations I grew up in a family where you can either be a doctor a lawyer or a failure right those are my three options.

家族の期待という雑音、両親の期待という雑音、兄弟姉妹の期待という雑音......私は、医者になるか弁護士になるか、あるいは落ちこぼれになるか、この3つの選択肢しかない家庭で育った。

Anything else would just count me as a failure I would have failed so basically I failed right I'm standing up here in front of you all as a failure.

そうでなければ、私は失敗したとみなされるだけだ......だから基本的に私は失敗した。

I'm in one of the most incredible periods of my life that I could ever have asked for and so much of that is based on the fact that I decided to do something different.

私は今、人生で最も素晴らしい時期のひとつにいる。

So many of the times our expectations are driving us in a certain scenario we focus so much on life in what we want to be as opposed to who we want to be because we've always been told that life and jobs and careers are like boxes and containers there's only a finite number of options there is no formula there is no pattern.

人生や仕事、キャリアは箱のようなもので、選択肢は限られており、公式もパターンもないと言われてきたからだ。

If you know what you're passionate about if you know what you're good at and you invest in that people say follow your passions I say forget that invest in your passion if you're passionate about something go and become the best at it go into a course on it go and learn from the best go and find a way to be incredible at that trade not only will you be criticized and grow you'll be able to find new things about yourself that you never knew don't trade who you are for who you think the world needs because the world needs you to be you and I mean that

もし自分が何に情熱を注いでいるかを知っているなら、そしてそれに投資しているなら、人は情熱に従えと言う。