Like do you mind sharing a bit like how your relationship started?

So, basically I was walking down the street.

And then most of the time lots of girls look at me.

And then Georgia was one of the girls, I was like she looks quite nice.

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What's your version of it?

My version of it which Torres always likes to blur the lines about what happened.

But basically we were both university students, friends with lots of people.

And then we were friends for like two years.

Torres was secretly in love with me for two years.

Two years.

And then finally.

Wow, that's long man.

Yeah.

I try my absolute best to make Georgia my girlfriend.

But for the longest time, I got friend zone.

Friend zone.

Friend zone which is the saddest thing ever.

We always had no, I didn't know, I didn't like him.

We always had a flirty relationship, a little flirty banter.

But he never did anything.

He never like asked me out or tried to have a drink with me or anything.

That's not really true.

Because the first time I met you, I gave Georgia a call.

And I was like, I have this special VIP ticket to see Batman, do you wanna come?

And she replied, Maybe Not.

You're trying to play hard to get?

Rubbish, he asked me like 4 pm, if I wanted to watch a movie at 7 pm.?

And I had schoolwork or something.

It's like, oh no, I didn't realize it was a date.

No, you should ask like do you like over the weekend or something?

When do you free, let's catch up.

Of course I would have said yes.

Don't give someone three hours notice.

Come on, that.

Okay, my bad, sorry.

Maybe that makes us two years

Because I wasn't planning it properly.

Two years is quite long.

It's a very long time.

Like for most people in Hong Kong, you know they're very impatient.

Yeah.

Like two months, they'll be like oh man I should move on.

I mean he moved on.

Don't worry.

I moved on just to see how like average other girls I met,

to finally realize how great you are.

So, I move on for a very important purpose.

Okay.

No.

This is very interesting.

I'm sure the audience they want to hear more about this.

Yeah, I mean both of us like dated other people in that timeline.

And I think maybe that's also why we couldn't come together.

Because it's always the wrong time.

But there was always something, it's so weird.

I kind of miss those memories like whenever we see each other,

I always get like kind of nervous around you.

And then I think I've always liked Georgia a little bit.

I was trying to get Georgia out to come for a date.

But then she rejected me obviously.

So, I thought maybe she doesn't like me.

Okay.

Sometimes, it's now it's weird to think about it.

I think I've seen your ex-boyfriends and you have seen my ex-girlfriends.

And we'll come together in the same event.

And now we think about it, it's actually quite bizarre.

For me, it's like meaningless.

Like I don't know if like for me, you are like now my person.

Like everyone else in the past, it's like it's just irrelevant.

Yeah.

It's irrelevant to me as well.

All irrelevant.

Yeah.

How do you get like together?

How you officially like get you.

Start.

Yeah, how you officially start?

I think people will probably want to know.

So, which is really crazy.

I will tell you three key words.

Both single, boat party and alcohol.

Okay.

Yeah, one of them missing still won't happen this relationship.

But I was we were.

So, you were drinking, you guys

Yeah, we were drinking maybe five drinks in.

Five drinks in.

Is that a lot for you?

Quite tipsy and then we started to talk.

Because actually in the past I was quite nervous to talk to Georgia.

So when I'm.

Alcohol makes people brave.

Alcohol is a game changer.

I don't drink.

You don't drink?

Not at all.

Never?

Like never pretty much.

Wow oh my gosh, how did you get your wife then?

I'll talk about that in another episode.

Stay tuned.

No, but I feel like either we were talking about law of attraction right?

Yes.

Sometimes, I feel like I have this.

You know how when you program your brain to think differently or positive,

sometimes alcohol I feel like it has this effect.

It just why your brain differently, okay all of a sudden I'm such a brave guy.

Yeah, yeah.

And then you just walk up to Georgia.

And be like, oh Georgia let's have a talk.

So, you ever heard of a saying like your personality creates your personal reality.

You ever heard of that?

No.

So, you know when you start sort of like change your own personality,

you need to be more bold and brave.

So, and then you just start to like talk to her right?

Yeah.

That changes everything.

Yeah.

So, most people you know when they drink alcohol,

then they would say stuff they normally wouldn't.

Yeah.

But then it happened and then we were talking and then we're like ah.

I don't know why we were actually attracted to me.

Because I went to on exchange on island.

And I got back and like she was like I can't even recognize your face.

Like my neck was here.

Because I was eating so badly for the longest time.

I think I was at the worst shape possible.

I was like.

He was a lot chubby back then.

Yeah.

I think I was at my least confident,

Really?

point.

You know when I looked at his videos,

I thought he's like probably the same height as me.

Yeah.

I don't know why.

But then like the first time I met him, he was so tall

Yeah.

He's like six feet or something.

Speaking of law of attraction how much it was a little attraction.

But it's like just to entertain some ideas because to be honest,

when I first moved to mainland china I didn't date any Asian guys.

Yeah.

And then when I came back to Hong Kong.

Actually when I go back to South Africa.

I'm not sure if it's like controversial, maybe it's controversial.

But I'd go back to South Africa and people would say to me.

Oh, are you dating Chinese guys?

As if it was like something like so scandalous.

And I'm like, no I don't date Chinese guys.

Because I just didn't even, it was just like didn't even entertain that idea.

Yeah.

And then when I came to Hong Kong I would like I dated like 1 or 2 mix guys.

Mix guy.

And then finally, Torres was my full Chinese boy that I dated.

And like now, I honestly I find Asian people so good looking, so attractive.

Yes.

But it's like before that I don't know why.

It's like my brain was just not open in that way.

Is that because you want your brain to think,

like I really want to date an Asian guy.

Asian guys are really attractive which is very true.

And then.

it's all about perspective, yes.

Right?

Yeah.

it's so good.

Yeah, just like allowing yourself to entertain that.

I think also what you see in the media.

You always see like if anything you see an Asian girl with a white guy.

But even now if I see a white girl and an Asian guy walking on the street,

I'm like wow that's so weird, why are they doing that?

Like you know even though that's us, it's weird.

Yeah.

I know a few couples like white girls and Asian guy.

Yeah.

Probably actually yeah they got married.

Yeah, they accept like cultural differences.

Yeah.

But it is more common that is white girl.

No, it's a white guy and Asian girl.

Yeah, that happens a lot more often.

Yeah.

Yes.

How is that because those people they.

So, your English is always been that good?

Or you actually train when you're with her?

No, I think I improved my English the most when I was in university.

When I was in (university), I really wanted.

Because my secondary education it didn't teach me to have an international mind.

I basically don't know what's happening outside the world.

And the inability to speak English really limits my like my vision.

Okay.

Or my ability to know things that are happening around me.

So, because his English is pretty good.

Really really good.

Yeah, pretty good.

And then I thought you know he'd been studying like overseas or something.

And then he said, no I've never went overseas.

So, I'm pretty surprised.

But you also always change your answer with that.

Torres always has so many answers

Really?

There's so many answers.

We filmed a video 2 years ago.

And Torres said, oh yes thanks to Georgia so much for teaching me.

No no no no no, Georgia actually really like helped me improve so much.

Yeah, because you talk every day.

Yeah, we talk every day in English.

So, she really helped me improve so much.

But I think my English when it actually got good or fluent,

was because I really want to learn so I took every opportunity.

Yeah, I think also you love foreign culture.

Like Torres always immersed himself in like different cultures.

He wants to always learn about what are you doing in Kazakhstan or Italy or whatever.

Okay.

So, I remember when I was in secondary school.

Because my secondary school is actually not so famous.

compared to like those DBS, La Salle, Queen's College

So, we never get invited to those international schools.

Like Christmas ball or anything.

So, I can never meet anyone who's like international.

So I would like make the greatest effort to find my connection.

Please let me come, I want to meet more people from all over the world.

Like I try to add like, it's really embarrassing.

But I add like friends on Facebook just like international school people.

I message him, can we hang out?

It's so embarrassing.

Just because I really want to,

Be like them.

see a different side than my local school, trying to improve my English.

So, I guess quite like what you told me about law of attraction?

Yes.

How I really wire my brain, I want to be like that.

Okay.

What am I going to do to achieve that?

Who should I surround myself with, so I can I have different perspective?

I think the people you're with is very important.

Like you know the the circle, friends.

Okay, I think something the audience really want to know.

How this YouTube business all started?

I've always been a very, I like to talk, I like to be funny.

Like we're talking, we chit chatting.