the a when you go

deeper inside and you experience

the limitless move love and the

all encompassing experience for

what live love is you know

whatever will come through know there's no hypothetical so I

often do gathering for to talk with them you know

I have a friend who as with this thing through the

masculine pronouns in the course for I have a friend who

suffered love for family where the child was killed or something like that

overall hypothetical

questions a and when I'm pitching if you hang around me long enough for me go

into a deep enough

you start to realize that but those are even real questions

over hypothetical questions about the future

possibilities you coulda woulda shoulda thing

a for me every my life is a

living experience living demonstration

and so people do have

you know the hypothetical what would you do if you're with somebody who was

terminally ill

well with you favor them for what would you say

to this friend and so forth a

allow time and I'm in third world countries

and so forth with this seems to be in the world perception lotta

poverty and thickness and and suffering and so on and so forth

its if the really fun when I go to visit

those places to to it's more of a striking contrast

you know mean here you see happy people a

is the happy people on the island over Hawaii and

you say well there's a there's a lot of happy people with one among a bunch of

happy people

to go through to be having a good time here join the ocean in the blue sky and

everything when you go to a third world country

you know where to starvation or

those kind of things its more striking the love that's why I think

with cheeses im shallowly it was quite striking you know it left a big

impression

because what was going on in those days they crucified people and

and Roman Empire info info for the pacific stood out was very striking

and and I go and I I will be among all the people

I you know I I will be among the children I will be among

in the thirties go to a row areas and so on and so forth

the president that loveth data mining

and it does up for a healing balm

a it offers a soothing Anna

experienced to to creep you know that the people around you

both going through a lot of grief you can the story of Mary and Martha

and when their brother Lazarus had died

their stricken with grief you know in to YouTube showed up and they were crying

and

ran out women lord lord who you'd only been here a little bit sooner

this could have been prevented and you know and

the whole story turned into a raising the dead experience

in which everybody kind of gas and look up in the sky and everything because it

was such an out pattern

experience nobody expected the

the brother to come out in his thinking grow close outside

up occur like that nobody expect and when I go places people the

unexpected seems to happen but the president %uh

love I'm through Jennifer rethink oftentimes it's just

you know holding some but I'm or with some buddies in tremendous grief in life

they just want permission to cry and

and have it be okay so I've been I can't tell you how many times I just shown up

in

just help somebody while they were sobbing MP

tears tears down my shirt tooth because at that moment

that was best thing that love could do with embrace

as a Anna physical expression ok your help

you know it's going to be okay without the word was a much words

speak there um I think

at other time it's just that come through

in a way that that always

can be the most felt the most experienced way that the love can

radiate

and in many cases it's not what you think they

down but it's just is just your attitude

some effect is the spaciousness non judgement

which allows the heard from the Lofton everything the kinda

amount like and and to the surface even more

and Mb really a metaphysically I can

I can tell you that that the way this works is that

the mind that believes that separated from God who has this belief in

separation and this ego is a death wish so

when that death wishes project at the time and space

we have to lift the concepts like birth and death

it seems like in this world the birth at the beginning

and death is the men although spiritually

the people we go we start to see that that doesn't seem very realistic or

something

goes beyond for them there so

anytime you are tempted to judge the world in any way

that is looking through the lens that the death wish

including when the death wish his projected out

im going with that but the Sun with a

a and that's not really what that the

that's like trip people mourn the loss for the physical body

but there's something that the morning with going on deeper in the mind

his the idea that the 400 as button into the

ego belief system and that's where the depth

so it'd take me seemingly a number years

where I had to face this belief in their where

my my grandfather who I dearly love

went through slow process of cancer and like a walkie scalp them

I all my emotions come up when I would visit him in the hospital

I was facing my we've been death

my grandmother died and was a different experience

at that point I with I was very home

and she never believed there

the Templars final she didn't really believe

and that we we have many conversations

she died when she was 99 I was just there

by her side and I thought such P

and kammath like we were the same one them present then I could

look down at the body like a show and it was no different

for me at that point from when to alive I didn't have any grief but in

everything from our

CNS be open to speak at her funeral tho

I just let her speak through me at our own funeral she could address

all the people and they felt members if they offered prime

when to poke through mikhoonam a at her funeral that they love you so dearly im

the felker president right there at the funeral so

you know those who think that I've learned but we

we can't really get into the hypothetical except

to say that that love extensive self

in the most helpful way in the moment

and liked everything

I don't know I don't look ahead

that I never look ahead for condition they don't

I do I really don't believe in hypotheticals anymore

coulda woulda shoulda effect my mind is unified now so I'm not

and i'm looking at the 20th I'm into the I am

and whether them but would be very loving

that would be for sure very very loving

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