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  • Translator: Tanya Cushman Reviewer: Peter van de Ven

  • Thank you for that.

  • Now then, I came on dancing because it will give me courage

  • and also because my favorite thing in the world is dancing in the sky.

  • Now, my title, as you know, is going to be "It's Never Too Late."

  • Now, my name is Dilys.

  • I'm 84 years of age - 85 next month.

  • (Applause)

  • And I am here to tell you it's never too late.

  • Life could still be fun and challenging and can have a purpose.

  • Now then, at the age of 81,

  • I became the Guinness Book of Records oldest woman skydiver in the world.

  • (Applause)

  • I've done 1,136 skydives.

  • And this is that moment -

  • what I remember so well, which I still do -

  • when it's terrifying in a wonderful, beautiful way,

  • and you're waiting for the engine to stall.

  • You're looking at the lights;

  • you're looking at the red, and then it changes to green.

  • They pull the door up,

  • you look out,

  • you say "high-five" to everyone, and you go.

  • And that is beautiful.

  • And I'm now feeling that same sense of beauty

  • because I'm talking to you, and you're listening to me,

  • and we are in it together.

  • So, I like to skydive.

  • That skydive.

  • (Applause)

  • It's the ultimate sense of freedom.

  • It's wonderful.

  • It is my passion, and I'm still doing it.

  • I mean, two years ago, I broke my ankle in three places doing a skydive -

  • doing a skydive for television, actually.

  • So I was out of action for a year, or more than that,

  • doing quite extensive physiotherapy.

  • But just before Christmas,

  • having done 1,135,

  • I did my 1,136th skydive.

  • So, I'm back in the air, waiting now for this to be finished,

  • and next week I'll be going up there.

  • Now, skydiving - this is what I love to do.

  • It is dancing in the air.

  • It's my speciality.

  • It's really doing barrel rolls.

  • It's doing back flips; it's doing forward flips.

  • It's doing stand ups; it's doing sit downs.

  • And, you know, it's like driving a very, very fast car - it's very radical.

  • When, in the old days - because I've been doing this since I was 54 -

  • you would train -

  • (Laughter)

  • I'm a late starter.

  • In the old days, when I was actually doing competitions -

  • I was doing competitions in freestyle -

  • I would practice in the swimming pool,

  • which is not very good, because it's sluggish and slow.

  • Now they go to the air shuttle -

  • which I've also been in, but now I'm too old to be actually competing -

  • and so it's very, very fast.

  • You only have to do a little turn with your hands, and you're spinning.

  • But it is a joy.

  • It is absolutely wonderful, and I love my life.

  • Love my life.

  • But it wasn't always like that.

  • At 54 years old, I was like a chicken with my head cut off.

  • I had a stressful job, a responsible job.

  • I was a single parent.

  • I was 54, thinking life is going to end pretty soon.

  • Not yet, but I did think then.

  • I didn't have a lover.

  • I was alone, and I was working hard.

  • And I was full of fear and stress.

  • And fear and stress are the killers.

  • And in the 21st century, that is a real danger for us

  • because if you become fearful and stressed,

  • you start to disconnect -

  • disconnect with yourself, disconnect with others

  • and disconnect with life;

  • you feel as if you're sleepwalking.

  • When that happens, it probably happens to all of us at some time,

  • that's a danger sign.

  • Do something about it.

  • It will lead to breakdown;

  • it will lead to physical illness; it will lead to unhappiness.

  • And I was aware that I was in the state of disconnect.

  • And I thought, "I've got to do something about it.

  • I've got to find a passion.

  • I've got to find a reason which is beyond work,

  • beyond responsibility."

  • And I started to look stones over; I started to turn stones over.

  • And you know, even the act of looking and searching

  • and recognizing that I needed to do something about it

  • was the beginning of healing for me.

  • So, I knew I had to find a passion.

  • Long story, but I did read Goethe, who said at one point -

  • and this is a paraphrase, he'd say it much more beautifully -

  • but really filling your life with beauty.

  • And he said for five minutes a day, look at something beautiful,

  • listen to something beautiful,

  • think of something beautiful.

  • And I thought, "I'm so stressed, I can't go to a music class,

  • I can't do meditation."

  • But, perhaps, for five minutes a day, I can manage to do this.

  • So either in the morning before I got up or in a chair at the end of the day,

  • I began to do that:

  • I would breathe deeply -

  • and that was part of it,

  • breathing deeply which leads to relaxation.

  • I began to think about a beautiful sunset,

  • and I was in an ugly house with an ugly view,

  • and I thought about a lovely pink sunset going off into the fleecy clouds.

  • I thought about a beautiful baby's head.

  • You know how babies have these lovely heads that you want to hold?

  • I thought about that.

  • And then I would sing -

  • and thank goodness I lived on my own because I've got no voice -

  • but I would sing, "My love is like a red, red rose."

  • I did that for six months,

  • and one day, I thought, "I'm happy!"

  • And you know what? I was skydiving.

  • (Laughter)

  • Now, no one could have been more terrified of skydiving than me, originally.

  • And the way it happened was this,

  • that my students - because I lectured in a college and I taught dance -

  • my students had a charity for disabled children,

  • taking them to the Special Olympics, taking them on different trips,

  • and we had done a carboot sale, a run and a concert -

  • we were running out of money.

  • And I said, "What you need to do is a skydive."

  • Now, no one could have been more scared than me,

  • but if they were going to do it, I was going to do it.

  • And there actually was another thread to this.

  • I was 54 years old,

  • and my beautiful, lovely, gentle, talented mother

  • had committed suicide when she was 54.

  • So 54 was always going to be a difficult year for me.

  • And you know, in a way, what I was doing then -

  • although I was doing it for charity, doing it for another group -

  • I was actually challenging myself to face death,

  • and it was a grieving, and it was another healing.

  • So it really helped me get into enjoying life in a wonderful way.

  • And I had a fantastic time.

  • I had tents in America,

  • which I used to buy at Walmart and then throw away on the last day.

  • And I'd eat peanut sandwiches and nuts, and that's about all I had.

  • Later on, I managed to get an old trailer, and I lived in that - a wonderful time.

  • Here we are, in the air, with different people -

  • it was such a wonderful, wonderful, wonderful time.

  • But ...

  • I see I faced my fear and found my purpose.

  • And made a difference, because that was only the beginning.

  • I'd found a passion.

  • But if you have a passion, you begin to overflow with energy,

  • you begin to overflow with love,

  • you have a different view.

  • When you're stressed and unhappy, you become negative about other people.

  • You become judgmental; things begin to go wrong.

  • Now, because I was so happy and I'd found my passion,

  • I was overflowing with energy and love.

  • So it happened that I eventually started another charity.

  • And at that time, I was 65 years of age, I'd retired -

  • but I'll tell you about that time in a minute -

  • because I'm enjoying life and I'm skydiving.

  • Now then, I had lots of adventures and misadventures.

  • I mean, I jumped out of airplanes,

  • but I don't know how many times I fell out of an airplane.

  • I would land - once in a marsh.

  • Once I landed in a rape field that was so tall that I lost my way.

  • I landed in the road with traffic coming along,

  • I dislocated the sign that led to the dropzone -

  • they weren't very pleased about that.

  • I once stopped all the traffic in an airdrome

  • by sailing graciously and happily across all the runways.

  • (Laughter)