Name: 自分に優しくすること
Uploaded: 2020-11-11T06:41:39.000Z
Duration: 3 min 10 s
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I don't know anyone who wouldn't benefit from more self compassion.

法助動詞 A2

It makes me nervous, it feels uncomfortable but I can see how it can be potentially life-changing.

Step #1 think of a situation in your life that is difficult

Okay. #2  Call the situation in mind and see if

you can actually feel the stress and emotional discomfort in your body.

Yeah I can definitely feel it in my neck and shoulders. I know that's where I carry a

lot of my anxiety. Okay. Step #3 Say to yourself this is a moment of suffering.

This acknowledgement is a form of mindfulness, of simply noticing what's

going on for you emotionally in the present moment without judging that

experience as good or bad. You can say to yourself, this hurts or this is stress.

Use whatever statement feels most natural to you.

So... this sucks. How many more days left of this do I have? So just saying this is

stress or this sucks and but that's okay. Those are statements that feel natural to me.

Step 4  Say to yourself, suffering is a part of

life. This is a recognition of your common humanity with others, that all

people have trying experiences and these experiences give you something in common

with the rest of humanity. Other options include: other people feel

this way, I'm not alone, or we all struggle in our lives.

I think the I'm not alone statement really resonates with me. I think that a

lot of other active-duty military psychiatrists probably have somewhat of

a similar sentiment. Just that knowledge that you're not alone it really really

helps. #5 -  put your hands over your heart feel the warmth of your hands

and the gentle touch of your chest and say, May I be kind to myself

This is a way to express self-kindness. You can also consider whether there is

another specific phrase that would speak to you in that particular situation.

Examples include: May I give myself to compassion that I need. May I had learn to

accept myself as I am. May I forgive myself. May I be strong and may I be

patient. Oh may I learn to accept myself as I am. I think that really hits the

nail on the head. May I learn to accept myself as I am