oftenisn't muchtimeforthefinernuancesofpsychologyInourdaytodaylives, whenwecollidewith a problematicorannoyingperson, wetendsimplytocapturewhatannoysusin a verygeneralway.
AninabilitytoshowourtrueSelves, a sensethatwhatwereallythinkwon't appealtoanyone, fromwhichfollows a lackofcreativityandoriginalityandfinally, a defensivegrandiosityandarrogancethatmasksourownfragileego.
Andwherethereislowtrustinothers, a rangeofadjoiningdifficultiesarisesaninabilitytotrustthosewhowanttohelpusandgiveusfeedbackandinabilitytoteachothersaboutwhatwefeel, wantandthink.
A fearthatothersarealwaysprimedtoattackanddenigrateus, a sensethatbecauseothershaveletusdown, theymightdosoagain, whichinspiresconservatism, lackoftrustandrigidity.
Itwasthroughtheirenthusiasmandresilientcareforusthatwegraduallygrewabletointernalize a positiveselfimageandthenacquiredthetoolstocareforourselvesandothers.
Ittakes a greatdealofcouragetoexploreatthenecessarylevelofdetailwhatreallyhappenedtousandwhythemindstemptationistofleesuchuncomfortablematerialforeasiersubjects.
oftenisn't muchtimeforthefinernuancesofpsychologyInourdaytodaylives, whenwecollidewith a problematicorannoyingperson, wetendsimplytocapturewhatannoysusin a verygeneralway.