Seethosearethetimeswhenyougottoaskyourself "Whoam I gonnabe?"
そういった時に、「私はどういう人になるの?」と自分に尋ねます。
And I wanttobeclearthisisn't justsomevagueplatitudeaboutbuildingcharacter.
はっきり言っておくと、これは、人格を磨くための、漠然とした決まり文句ではありません。
Inrecentyearswe'veactuallybeenseeing a growingbodyofresearchthatshowsthatskillslikeresilienceandconscientiousnesscanbejustasimportanttoyoursuccessasyourtestscoresorevenyourIQ.
Assomeonewhohashiredandmanagedhundredsofyoungpeopleoverthecourseofmycareerwhetheritwasduringmytimeas a lawyer, asanadministratorat a university, a nonprofitmanager, evennowasfirstlady, I haveneveronceaskedsomeone I wasinterviewingtoexplain a testscoreor a gradein a class--never.