Name: 愛着心の発達。赤ちゃんの苦悩への一貫しない対応 (Developing Attachment: Inconsistent Response to a Baby's Distress)
Uploaded: 2021-01-14T05:00:34.000Z
Duration: 2 min 40 s
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Watch this mother's response to her child's crying.

I don't want you to do that. Stop it again!"

I thought that something terrible had happened.

give Mummy a hug, make Mummy feel better."

As you can see, once when this baby hurt himself,

and another time the mother got more upset than the baby.

I thought something terrible had happened."

By doing that, whether she meant to or not,

was that her own needs were more important than her baby's.

These babies stop going to their parents for comfort

because they don't want to upset their parents.

it's not up to a baby to meet a parent's needs.

It's up to you to meet your baby's needs.

A child who gets a loving response only some of the time

They don't know what to expect from their parent,

and are not sure how to get love and affection.

In the long term, children who are unsure

are likely to have problems getting along with other people.

See how this time the mum focuses on her baby's needs.

She responded to her child in a loving way,

and a baby whose parent responds in this loving way

Babies whose mothers respond in a loving way

learn to trust that their needs will be respected and valued,

In other words, they can go on to form good,

close relationships with their parents and with others.