Name: あなたの関係を改善する最も簡単な方法｜ゴットマン研究所 (The Easiest Way to Improve Your Relationship | The Gottman Institute)
Uploaded: 2021-01-14T11:04:54.000Z
Duration: 2 min 10 s
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Imagine you hear your partner let out an exasperated sigh.

In that fleeting moment, you have a choice: keep going about your day

These small, daily crossroads may seem insignificant,

but the choices you make while interacting with your partner

could, over time, make or break your relationship.

The sigh is what relationship researchers

We can choose to TURN TOWARDS our partners in these moments

studying thousands of couples to answer the question:

What separates the relationship Masters from the relationship Disasters?

in how each type of couple responds to bids for connection.

In these moments, Masters turn towards each other 86% of the time.

Disasters turn towards each other only 33% of the time.

it's usually not because of big issues like conflict or infidelity.

it's a result of the resentment and distance that build up over time

when partners continually turn away from bids for connection.

So take a page from the relationship Masters' playbook.

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あなたの関係を改善する最も簡単な方法｜ゴットマン研究所 (The Easiest Way to Improve Your Relationship | The Gottman Institute)

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