wishing you continue your journey with

us into 2020 we excite to go look

forward to your continued love and

support so let's begin respect is one of

the things in life where it must be

earned through our actions

we're also taught that in order to gain

respect we must first give respect

however at times in our lives we may

find ourselves doing things that may

affect the level of respect people have

for us here are eight common habits that

could probably make people lose respect

for you but fret not for after watching

this video you'll know the things to

avoid and how to handle certain

situations 1 allowing others to

interrupt you easily ever had people

butt into your conversation frustrating

right if you find yourself constantly

being interrupted and you let them get

away with it people may lose their

respect for you it can give off the

impression that you're unable to stand

up for yourself even if you're being

courteous you should know where to draw

the line some people may take advantage

of it thinking it's okay to disrespect

the speaker it is normal to be

interrupted in a conversation but you

should try not to flinch and carry on

with your sentence then get back to the

interrupter to interrupt when others are

still talking on the flip side do you

wait until the other person pauses

before you open your mouth or do you

have it really interrupt others when

they're still speaking in some

situations interrupting the nonstop

chatter is the only way you can get a

word in edgewise however it's generally

in bad form if you interrupt when it's

not necessary 3 pushing opinions on to

others like sales no one likes to be

pressured into buying anything it's

alright to just be introduced to a

product however pushing sales to family

or friends can often feel suffocating

and people tend to do it because it's

convenient the same goes for your

opinions and beliefs if you try to make

everyone align their beliefs with yours

they might see you as overbearing it

will likely cause others to distance

themselves from you it's hard for people

to respect those who don't respect their

right to think for themselves for not

following through were you rattling off

your new year's resolutions to all

present at dinner do you often make your

plans public even before you set them

into motion you might want to be careful

as not following through these plans can

often affect the respect people have for

you telling others about your plan sort

of holds you accountable for carrying

out those said plans if you sleep on

them for too long despite frequent

mentions people may peg you as they all

talk without actual action type as time

passes people may disregard whatever you

tell them as they feel there will only

be inaction thus their respect for you

will gradually be lost as well 5 being

inconsiderate being inconsiderate can

give off the impression that you are

selfish and unthoughtful using the point

above as an example allowing others to

interrupt you easily can make people

there's respect for you on the flip side

disregarding the interrupter in the

conversation can also be bad as you may

come off as being inconsiderate

thus you can include the interrupter by

returning to what they were saying after

you finished your conversation 6 being

dishonest and lacking integrity

nobody can tolerate liars when you know

someone has this bad habit you

automatically consider every word they

utter a lie whether it's repeatedly

being unable to fulfill your promises or

telling lies the end result is the same

you begin to lose respect this is

because it gives people the impression

that you're not trustworthy or

dependable and you have questionable

principles being dishonest and

displaying a lack of integrity will only

make people lose respect for you 7

bragging too much how do you do I just

graduated from Harvard Law it sure feels

crunchy when people begin to advertise

themselves to us without being asked

right it's normal for people to take

pride in their achievements and to share

their joy with their friends and family

however overdoing it can often lead to

people losing respect for an individual

talking about your achievements at the

very beginning when you're meeting

someone for the first time can make them

uneasy unless they have specifically

asked an eight you treat people based on

personal gain

everyone has the right to think about

self benefits right

however if that's the only way you view

your relationships not only will you

lose respect but you'll lose friends as

well it's understandable to behave

differently depending on who were with

as we're closer and more distant in

certain social circles but if your

behavior with people is based only on

what you can attain from them you'll

probably not gain any respect from

anyone we're often taught to treat

others the way we want to be treated the

same goes for respect as well treating

people based on personal gain will only

make people lose respect for you many

relationships in life are built on

mutual respect and Trust respect must be

earned through our actions in order for

others to respect us we must first

respect them and ourselves as well it's

a good note that we must not lose our

self-respect because at different times

in our lives we may meet people who are

not worthy of our respect as well do you

think respect is integral for

maintaining good relationships can you

relate to any of these scenarios please

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