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this is the sunday motivational video
every Sunday we bring you a different
type of video which should improve your
life today we're looking at 15 skills
that will pay off forever welcome to a
Lux calm the place where future
billionaires come to get inspired hello
a Luxor's this was originally supposed
to be one of the 25 questions in 25 days
videos but we simply couldn't under
deliver on this premise so we made an
entire Sunday motivational video about
the topic we broke down the most
valuable skills anyone can acquire these
particular skills have the largest
impact in someone's both personal and
professional life once you acquire them
they stick with you for your entire life
and will continuously improve the
quality of your existence most of them
are difficult to master but if you do
the rewards are endless if you are new
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here's a list of the 15 skills that will
pay off forever
number 1 learning how to learn this is
the holy grail of skills once you
realize that every type of skill can be
learned if you follow a particular set
of steps the world starts to look a lot
like a video game you can level up and
acquire new abilities since you know
what type of effort time and focus it
will take to learn a new skill this is
one of the most underrated competencies
one could have yet one that's likely to
have the largest benefit in the long run
when you know how to learn the only
thing left to do is allocate yourself
the time and resources to upgrade your
software with whatever skills would make
your life better number 2 ability to
adapt improvise and overcome obstacles
this isn't just a Bear Grylls
catchphrase it's actually what allows
you to keep moving forward and survive
the hard times you're going to face in
your journey only the ignorant are under
the impression they have their life all
figured out and it's going to be all
straight roads from now onward that
person is in for a massive surprise in
the words of Mike Tyson everyone has a
plan until they get punched in the mouth
life is not fair it's complex and your
dedication to keep moving on is what
allows you to win hard times are ahead
people will betray your trust things
will not work out in your favor
you'll be put down to the ground or
probably already have been change your
attitude seek alternative routes get
creative and overcome what life throws
at you if things are getting harder it
means you're leveling up in the game of
life number three meditation you are not
your body you are not the things you own
you are not what people think of you you
are your mind everything that makes you
who you are
resides in that cage made of bone
between your ears that's who you are
that is what makes you you every action
idea thought desire weakness and sorrow
begins here over 80% of successful
people have a form of daily meditation
practice in their lives everybody else
ignores this as mumbo jumbo because they
have no idea how to do it and how
valuable it actually is this is one of
the most premium skills anyone can have
in their arsenal if you are in control
of your mind you can tame it and train
it to make it stronger you're on an
entirely different level than everyone
else you see life more clearly you make
better decisions and your potential
expands while everyone else remains
limited that's why earlier this year we
flew all the way to Bali Indonesia
in order to put together a meditation
course that's built for people like us
the a lock serves once it's ready anyone
who's interested in acquiring this
valuable skill should be able to go from
understanding the basic to actually
using meditation in their daily lives
for progress number four the ability to
verbalize what you think and feel you'd
be amazed how few people can put into
words what they believe what they feel
and what they think about an issue this
is one of the biggest downfalls of
relationships one of the partners is
unable to tell the other person what's
wrong and instead they choose to bury
that feeling of Sora within themselves
until it builds up to the inevitable
collapse of the relationship this goes
beyond romantic relationships it's even
between friendships co-workers and
family members people are so often
scared to speak up when they feel in a
different way and that's how you end up
with living a mediocre life because the
path is no longer dictated by what would
be sustainable for the long run and
instead it's written by unsatisfactory
compromises if you are not 100% honest
and involved in the process it will be
easy to let it go in the hopes that
something better comes along
none of these parties win and you're all
just wasting time number five the
ability to sell and negotiate everything
you do is a sale or a negotiation
process if you want a girlfriend or
boyfriend you need to sell them on the
idea of you being the right person for
them you want a job then you need to be
able to sell your skill set over that of
other potential hires even to yourself
you have to sell the idea that you can
be and do better than you're doing today
selling is not a synonym for lying
selling is a rational process in which
you break down why your solution will
add value to the other party selling is
pursuing others to join you towards
career
a better outcome for you both this feeds
right into the ability to verbalize what
we mentioned earlier life is a constant
negotiation with others with yourself
and even with time itself remember what
we taught you about trading with the
future that is a negotiation with time
it's a negotiation between effort and
satisfaction under the umbrella of time
by doing the things that people won't
right now you are negotiating a future
where you can enjoy a life that is
unavailable to many others selling can
be taught and it'll prove to be highly
useful to have it in your utility belt
if you want to go deeper with this we
recommend you pick up Daniel Pink's book
to sell is human in it you'll find out
what it takes to make children act in a
way you desire how to understand what
the other person is thinking and come up
with a solution that satisfies both
parties we know the audio book is rather
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start getting what you want in life then
it's time to start selling number six
knowing how to shut up listen and learn
from the person you're talking to isn't
that right a lack sirs how many people
do you recall that never know when to
shut up if you're the one talking you
are not growing because you're the one