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  • this is the sunday motivational video

  • every Sunday we bring you a different

  • type of video which should improve your

  • life today we're looking at 15 skills

  • that will pay off forever welcome to a

  • Lux calm the place where future

  • billionaires come to get inspired hello

  • a Luxor's this was originally supposed

  • to be one of the 25 questions in 25 days

  • videos but we simply couldn't under

  • deliver on this premise so we made an

  • entire Sunday motivational video about

  • the topic we broke down the most

  • valuable skills anyone can acquire these

  • particular skills have the largest

  • impact in someone's both personal and

  • professional life once you acquire them

  • they stick with you for your entire life

  • and will continuously improve the

  • quality of your existence most of them

  • are difficult to master but if you do

  • the rewards are endless if you are new

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  • here's a list of the 15 skills that will

  • pay off forever

  • number 1 learning how to learn this is

  • the holy grail of skills once you

  • realize that every type of skill can be

  • learned if you follow a particular set

  • of steps the world starts to look a lot

  • like a video game you can level up and

  • acquire new abilities since you know

  • what type of effort time and focus it

  • will take to learn a new skill this is

  • one of the most underrated competencies

  • one could have yet one that's likely to

  • have the largest benefit in the long run

  • when you know how to learn the only

  • thing left to do is allocate yourself

  • the time and resources to upgrade your

  • software with whatever skills would make

  • your life better number 2 ability to

  • adapt improvise and overcome obstacles

  • this isn't just a Bear Grylls

  • catchphrase it's actually what allows

  • you to keep moving forward and survive

  • the hard times you're going to face in

  • your journey only the ignorant are under

  • the impression they have their life all

  • figured out and it's going to be all

  • straight roads from now onward that

  • person is in for a massive surprise in

  • the words of Mike Tyson everyone has a

  • plan until they get punched in the mouth

  • life is not fair it's complex and your

  • dedication to keep moving on is what

  • allows you to win hard times are ahead

  • people will betray your trust things

  • will not work out in your favor

  • you'll be put down to the ground or

  • probably already have been change your

  • attitude seek alternative routes get

  • creative and overcome what life throws

  • at you if things are getting harder it

  • means you're leveling up in the game of

  • life number three meditation you are not

  • your body you are not the things you own

  • you are not what people think of you you

  • are your mind everything that makes you

  • who you are

  • resides in that cage made of bone

  • between your ears that's who you are

  • that is what makes you you every action

  • idea thought desire weakness and sorrow

  • begins here over 80% of successful

  • people have a form of daily meditation

  • practice in their lives everybody else

  • ignores this as mumbo jumbo because they

  • have no idea how to do it and how

  • valuable it actually is this is one of

  • the most premium skills anyone can have

  • in their arsenal if you are in control

  • of your mind you can tame it and train

  • it to make it stronger you're on an

  • entirely different level than everyone

  • else you see life more clearly you make

  • better decisions and your potential

  • expands while everyone else remains

  • limited that's why earlier this year we

  • flew all the way to Bali Indonesia

  • in order to put together a meditation

  • course that's built for people like us

  • the a lock serves once it's ready anyone

  • who's interested in acquiring this

  • valuable skill should be able to go from

  • understanding the basic to actually

  • using meditation in their daily lives

  • for progress number four the ability to

  • verbalize what you think and feel you'd

  • be amazed how few people can put into

  • words what they believe what they feel

  • and what they think about an issue this

  • is one of the biggest downfalls of

  • relationships one of the partners is

  • unable to tell the other person what's

  • wrong and instead they choose to bury

  • that feeling of Sora within themselves

  • until it builds up to the inevitable

  • collapse of the relationship this goes

  • beyond romantic relationships it's even

  • between friendships co-workers and

  • family members people are so often

  • scared to speak up when they feel in a

  • different way and that's how you end up

  • with living a mediocre life because the

  • path is no longer dictated by what would

  • be sustainable for the long run and

  • instead it's written by unsatisfactory

  • compromises if you are not 100% honest

  • and involved in the process it will be

  • easy to let it go in the hopes that

  • something better comes along

  • none of these parties win and you're all

  • just wasting time number five the

  • ability to sell and negotiate everything

  • you do is a sale or a negotiation

  • process if you want a girlfriend or

  • boyfriend you need to sell them on the

  • idea of you being the right person for

  • them you want a job then you need to be

  • able to sell your skill set over that of

  • other potential hires even to yourself

  • you have to sell the idea that you can

  • be and do better than you're doing today

  • selling is not a synonym for lying

  • selling is a rational process in which

  • you break down why your solution will

  • add value to the other party selling is

  • pursuing others to join you towards

  • career

  • a better outcome for you both this feeds

  • right into the ability to verbalize what

  • we mentioned earlier life is a constant

  • negotiation with others with yourself

  • and even with time itself remember what

  • we taught you about trading with the

  • future that is a negotiation with time

  • it's a negotiation between effort and

  • satisfaction under the umbrella of time

  • by doing the things that people won't

  • right now you are negotiating a future

  • where you can enjoy a life that is

  • unavailable to many others selling can

  • be taught and it'll prove to be highly

  • useful to have it in your utility belt

  • if you want to go deeper with this we

  • recommend you pick up Daniel Pink's book

  • to sell is human in it you'll find out

  • what it takes to make children act in a

  • way you desire how to understand what

  • the other person is thinking and come up

  • with a solution that satisfies both

  • parties we know the audio book is rather

  • expensive at 25 dollars so here's what

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  • partnership with audible if you want to

  • start getting what you want in life then

  • it's time to start selling number six

  • knowing how to shut up listen and learn

  • from the person you're talking to isn't

  • that right a lack sirs how many people

  • do you recall that never know when to

  • shut up if you're the one talking you

  • are not growing because you're the one

  • putting out what you already know the

  • only way for you to improve is to

  • actively listen and we mean really

  • listening to someone else because it's

  • different from just hearing them it

  • involves paying attention creating a

  • mental blueprint of the information

  • which you can access if you need to

  • always assume the person you're talking

  • to knows something that you don't don't

  • get blindsided by arrogance it's more

  • important to grow then give the

  • impression that you already know

  • everything that right there is what

  • differentiates the

  • from the pretenders number seven the

  • ability to self-motivate there will

  • always be days when you don't feel like

  • getting out of bed there will definitely

  • be days when you don't feel like getting

  • out of bed a lot of them there will be

  • days when you don't want to get back to

  • the grind there's going to be days when

  • you feel like you're not making any

  • progress those are the days that make

  • the difference between those who are

  • going to make it and those who will find

  • excuses for their failures how you make

  • it happen how you convince your body and

  • mind to move in accordance with what you

  • know is better then whatever alternative

  • might be on the table resides in

  • yourself and it's called willpower the

  • level of self motivation someone can

  • deploy is directly correlated to the

  • following his or her level of confidence

  • the positive outlook on the outcome the

  • quality of the goal and the environment

  • they created for themselves number eight

  • discipline building up from that

  • previous point and we end up with

  • discipline if you've been following this

  • channel for a while you know that

  • success is the sum of small actions

  • repeated over extended periods of time

  • no matter how small of a step you make

  • every day give it enough time and you'll

  • reach your destination people are not

  • consistent they don't run the course

  • they don't play the long game and get

  • distracted by shiny objects the

  • temptation is big to jump on a new fad

  • and start over but even if you start

  • making some progress there another shiny

  • object will pass by and you'll want to

  • follow that instead that's what keeps

  • people from making real progress we

  • believe everyone's life can be

  • dramatically improved for the better if

  • they get better at discipline that's why

  • a while back we made one of the most

  • valuable videos on this channel it could

  • have easily been put behind a paywall

  • because of the value in it yet we choose

  • to give it to you our community for

  • three the video is called 15 steps to

  • master self-discipline and you can watch

  • it by clicking in the top right corner

  • the 50 day challenge will change the way

  • you live

  • number 9 time management success in life

  • is determined by the ability to make use

  • of the resources you have on hand and

  • time is one of those resources we all

  • wake up with the same 24 hours in a day

  • but when we close our eyes at night some

  • people have made more progress than

  • others

  • simply put some people use their time

  • efficiently while others choose to waste

  • it the first person will live a great

  • life while the other one will get angry