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  • dating requires a lot of trial and error

  • to find the right one there like job

  • interviews the more you date the better

  • you get at it through your experiences

  • you discover who you are what your

  • values are and what you want in a

  • partner

  • rather than growing frustrated or

  • cynical after failed relationships use

  • them as learning opportunities don't

  • beat yourself up and allow yourself to

  • be vulnerable again wondering who's a

  • good match for you here are eight types

  • of lovers 1 the child have you ever

  • dated someone who acts younger than

  • their age

  • this person may be capable of developing

  • life skills such as paying bills on time

  • cooking and completing chores but they

  • might make excuses each time at first

  • you might find them exciting and fun

  • after all

  • they most likely reminded you that deep

  • down you're young at heart too but once

  • the honeymoon stage fades reality sets

  • in and you realize they aren't willing

  • to pull in their weight on everyday

  • responsibilities as this happens you

  • might begin to wonder if you can be with

  • them long term to the controller when

  • dating the controller you might not

  • detect their possessive tendencies right

  • away because they're good at seeming

  • helpful they may have good intentions

  • and do what they believe is best for you

  • but over time you may start to feel

  • invisible or like your needs aren't

  • being this individual can be highly

  • reactive treating disagreements like

  • battlefield believing they need to argue

  • in order to come off as strong-willed as

  • a result they have a tendency to respond

  • instead of listening in order to

  • understand when people date controllers

  • they eventually feel drained and come to

  • realize they're compromising their

  • identities to satisfy their partners

  • desires which isn't healthy consequently

  • they often leave them and that's ok

  • because at the end of the day we owe it

  • to ourselves to find happiness 3 the

  • codependent one have you ever dated a

  • Navy person or find yourself drawn to

  • people with high demands it feels good

  • to be needed admired and play the role

  • as a heroic protector but dating someone

  • who is codependent can also be

  • challenging

  • they might rely on you for everything

  • get jealous easily and seek constant

  • validation instead of giving in to their

  • demands remind them that they have what

  • it takes to stand on their own two feet

  • let them know that

  • it's not yours or anyone elses

  • responsibility to heal them and help

  • them embrace uncertainty fears are valid

  • because they will forever exist on the

  • human spectrum of emotions but they

  • don't have to drive our reactions for

  • the player Danny a player isn't a

  • problem if you're okay with being in an

  • open relationship but if you're looking

  • for true loyalty and commitment

  • this type of lover will only lead you

  • down towards heartbreak and

  • disappointment players are notorious for

  • being manipulative and sweet talkers but

  • pay close attention to their actions if

  • they frequently cancel plans last minute

  • with you or promise you one thing but

  • don't live up to their word don't bother

  • wasting time trying to mend this

  • relationship if they refuse to own up to

  • their mistakes 5 the workaholic ambition

  • can be a sexy trait in a lover and by

  • dating a workaholic you might come to

  • find that you become more goal-oriented

  • to dating someone who's career driven

  • can have its downsides life as we know

  • it isn't just all work and no play

  • things don't have to be in order all the

  • time and you don't always have to

  • maintain a certain image sometimes

  • having a good laugh and making memories

  • is what we need if you're dating a

  • workaholic but want to make your

  • relationship work remind them to clock

  • out and unwind with you over a movie or

  • a game night with friends 6 the

  • adventurer do you prefer someone fold

  • adventurous and free-spirited it can be

  • an eye-opening experience when you date

  • a lover who can introduce you to new

  • places you've never been before and

  • encourage you to step out of your

  • comfort zone some obstacles you may face

  • however are recklessness and haste

  • adventurous lovers tend to be impulsive

  • and while this may intrigue you

  • initially as your relationship deepens

  • you may come to find your craving

  • stability over spontaneity it's good to

  • talk to your adventurous lover and show

  • them that creating a plan in advance can

  • be beneficial 7 the therapist having a

  • partner you can go to with your problems

  • is essential to building strong

  • connection but when you start to see

  • your partner as more of a therapist and

  • a lover it becomes an issue your partner

  • is there to offer love and support but

  • they're not required to hold your

  • emotional baggage for you nor should

  • they have all the answers it's easy to

  • fall for someone with it there

  • cute Agora but never take advantage of

  • their kindness because they might learn

  • to resent you in the end and ate the

  • logician you want someone who can have

  • intellectual debates with you if so the

  • logician may very well strike your fancy

  • rate problem-solvers self-sufficient and

  • analytical these lovers may not be the

  • best at remembering anniversaries but

  • you can count on them to give you

  • refreshing perspectives logicians are

  • deep thinkers by nature so you won't

  • have to worry about settling for

  • anything shallow because once they

  • commit they're in it for the long run

  • which type of lovers have you

  • encountered and what is your ideal one

  • let us know by leaving a comment down

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  • always thanks for watching

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