to find the right one there like job

interviews the more you date the better

you get at it through your experiences

you discover who you are what your

values are and what you want in a

partner

rather than growing frustrated or

cynical after failed relationships use

them as learning opportunities don't

beat yourself up and allow yourself to

be vulnerable again wondering who's a

good match for you here are eight types

of lovers 1 the child have you ever

dated someone who acts younger than

their age

this person may be capable of developing

life skills such as paying bills on time

cooking and completing chores but they

might make excuses each time at first

you might find them exciting and fun

after all

they most likely reminded you that deep

down you're young at heart too but once

the honeymoon stage fades reality sets

in and you realize they aren't willing

to pull in their weight on everyday

responsibilities as this happens you

might begin to wonder if you can be with

them long term to the controller when

dating the controller you might not

detect their possessive tendencies right

away because they're good at seeming

helpful they may have good intentions

and do what they believe is best for you

but over time you may start to feel

invisible or like your needs aren't

being this individual can be highly

reactive treating disagreements like

battlefield believing they need to argue

in order to come off as strong-willed as

a result they have a tendency to respond

instead of listening in order to

understand when people date controllers

they eventually feel drained and come to

realize they're compromising their

identities to satisfy their partners

desires which isn't healthy consequently

they often leave them and that's ok

because at the end of the day we owe it

to ourselves to find happiness 3 the

codependent one have you ever dated a

Navy person or find yourself drawn to

people with high demands it feels good

to be needed admired and play the role

as a heroic protector but dating someone

who is codependent can also be

challenging

they might rely on you for everything

get jealous easily and seek constant

validation instead of giving in to their

demands remind them that they have what

it takes to stand on their own two feet

let them know that

it's not yours or anyone elses

responsibility to heal them and help

them embrace uncertainty fears are valid

because they will forever exist on the

human spectrum of emotions but they

don't have to drive our reactions for

the player Danny a player isn't a

problem if you're okay with being in an

open relationship but if you're looking

for true loyalty and commitment

this type of lover will only lead you

down towards heartbreak and

disappointment players are notorious for

being manipulative and sweet talkers but

pay close attention to their actions if

they frequently cancel plans last minute

with you or promise you one thing but

don't live up to their word don't bother

wasting time trying to mend this

relationship if they refuse to own up to

their mistakes 5 the workaholic ambition

can be a sexy trait in a lover and by

dating a workaholic you might come to

find that you become more goal-oriented

to dating someone who's career driven

can have its downsides life as we know

it isn't just all work and no play

things don't have to be in order all the

time and you don't always have to

maintain a certain image sometimes

having a good laugh and making memories

is what we need if you're dating a

workaholic but want to make your

relationship work remind them to clock

out and unwind with you over a movie or

a game night with friends 6 the

adventurer do you prefer someone fold

adventurous and free-spirited it can be

an eye-opening experience when you date

a lover who can introduce you to new

places you've never been before and

encourage you to step out of your

comfort zone some obstacles you may face

however are recklessness and haste

adventurous lovers tend to be impulsive

and while this may intrigue you

initially as your relationship deepens

you may come to find your craving

stability over spontaneity it's good to

talk to your adventurous lover and show

them that creating a plan in advance can

be beneficial 7 the therapist having a

partner you can go to with your problems

is essential to building strong

connection but when you start to see

your partner as more of a therapist and

a lover it becomes an issue your partner

is there to offer love and support but

they're not required to hold your

emotional baggage for you nor should

they have all the answers it's easy to

fall for someone with it there

cute Agora but never take advantage of

their kindness because they might learn

to resent you in the end and ate the

logician you want someone who can have

intellectual debates with you if so the

logician may very well strike your fancy

rate problem-solvers self-sufficient and

analytical these lovers may not be the

best at remembering anniversaries but

you can count on them to give you

refreshing perspectives logicians are

deep thinkers by nature so you won't

have to worry about settling for

anything shallow because once they

commit they're in it for the long run

which type of lovers have you

encountered and what is your ideal one

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