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Hey, it's Marie Forleo, and welcome to a very special episode of the Marie Forleo podcast.
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So as we all know, a lot has happened in these past few weeks, and especially in these past
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few days as it relates to the coronavirus epidemic.
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So there are five things I want to talk about in today's podcast, and we're going to dig
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right in.
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First and foremost, I hope you and your family are well, I hope you guys are safe.
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So I'm actually recording this podcast in my kitchen in Los Angeles, and I'm here with
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Josh and Kuma.
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So on our team, we actually canceled our upcoming Marie TV shoot and any travel that I had my
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calendar, for obvious reasons, and personally, we're prepared to hunker down and just stay
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put inside for the next four to six weeks or honestly, as long as needed.
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I'm prepared to do whatever the heck I can to help flatten this damn curve, and I hope
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you are too.
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For the past week, I've been on the phone and doing lives and doing video chats with
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my team, with our B-School students and my loved ones, because I want to help put things
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into perspective.
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My goal as a human always is to help find solutions, but right now, what I want to help
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everyone I know do, including myself, is transform any panic into some preparedness, some problem
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solving, and some purposeful action.
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Here's what I know to be true in my heart.
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I'm 100% certain that if we pulled together as a global family, we're going to make it
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through this, and look, I wrote a number one New York Times bestseller called Everything
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is Figureoutable, and yes, I believe the coronavirus is figureoutable too.
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Here's the other thing, I've been talking about this a lot with Josh.
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I think that something in this crisis, that there is an opportunity for us to grow stronger
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and wiser and more resilient on the other side, but I've got to be honest, based on
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the facts, and I'm a person who likes to pay attention to the facts, I do feel strongly
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that the most important step that each of us can take right now is to stay home and
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stay well.
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So look, if you're listening and you're not one of the heroines or one of the heroes who's
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in the medical community or you're not one of the folks, the heroines or the heroes that
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are working in our grocery stores or in our pharmacies, or making sure that society can
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keep functioning as best as it possibly can right now, please stay home, because here's
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the truth from my point of view.
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The more of us that can stay home and stay healthy, the faster that collectively we're
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going to move through this coronavirus.
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The other day I was connecting with folks on Instagram, and a woman named Jess, a member
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of our community, she's a physician's assistant, she's on the front lines, and here's her comment.
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This is her words verbatim.
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She said, "Please do your part and give us a fighting chance.
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Stay home, wash your hands, don't come to the ER unless it's an absolute emergency.
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Help us help you, and if you have a friend or family member in medicine right now, send
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them a message to tell them you're thinking of them.
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It really helps when you've tested your third COVID-19 of the night."
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So back to me, this is not her quote anymore.
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I personally believe that this is a time for our humanity, our creativity, our connection,
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and yes, for us to retain our sense of humor.
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So look, we've got folks in our community from everywhere, folks that listen to this
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podcast, that watch Marie TV, that read our email, that follow me on Instagram, people
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from 195 countries and territories.
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We have folks from every different walk of life, and I know for so many of you, life
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was really freaking hard before this pandemic, and my heart honestly is breaking imagining
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some of the stress and the fear and anxiety that some folks are feeling right now.
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I've gotten notes and emails from single moms losing their jobs, asking me for help.
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I've gotten notes from folks who are battling illness, whether that's physical illness or
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mental or emotional illness, and understandably a lot of folks are feeling alone and afraid
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and I just want to say from my heart to yours, I see you, I am here for you, Team Forleo's
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here for you.
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Now the second thing that I want to share with you today is that my team and I just
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put up a huge resource guide to support you and it's over at marieforleo.com/blog, or
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you can just Google Marie Forleo coronavirus support.
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This blog posts, y'all, is awesome.
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So here's a couple of things that we cover in it.
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We talk about how to manage your stress, fear and anxiety, which is so crucial right now
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because you need to take care of your immune system.
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I've got some funny, inspiring and feel good moments.
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I've been paying attention to so many creative things happening on the internet, and I honestly
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believe some of it is just, first of all, it's so creative and so hilarious.
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You've got to see it.
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We talk about how to work from home and actually get things done.
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So you probably know this, but in case you don't, I've been running my company virtually
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for 20 years, so we have a lot of insight about how to help people really stay productive
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and engaged, especially if you're not used to working from home.
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We've got a whole section on how to stay active without going to the gym.
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We've a whole big section on how to educate and entertain your kids, especially when they're
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all in your house and you did not expect them to be there.
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We have so many parents on Team Forleo, and I've got to say, some of the things that they're
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sharing in the Slack channels are just hilarious and also super helpful, so we've included
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that.
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We have how to stay emotionally connected while social distancing.
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This is important.
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Just because you might be in isolation doesn't mean you need to be lonely.
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Again, this is another thing that I feel like I'm kind of wonderfully suited at this time
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to help support people, because frankly, I spend a lot of time indoors, and so many people
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that I know and love, some of my closest friends and my family, we don't live geographically
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near each other, so I'm constantly staying connected to them using technology.
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So we put some of those tips in there as well.
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Then for my US citizens, we have some updates on unemployment and mortgage services, and
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finally, this is the big one, we talk about four ways to serve your community.
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So this is not going to be relevant for everyone listening to this podcast right now.
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If you're someone who's having a really hard time, there's going to be resources in here
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for you, and if you're someone who's listening to this podcast and you have extra, meaning
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you have some extra resources, some time, some money, some energy, some creativity,
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and you want it put it to good use, we've got some ways for you to do that over on the
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blog.
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So please go have a look at this resource, share it with your community if you find it
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valuable, and then if you've got other ideas for things to add to the list, let me know
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in the comments.
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Again, you can find our coronavirus support guide by Googling Marie Forleo coronavirus
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support.
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Okay, we're doing good here.
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Now the third thing I want to share with you today is due to all this, we're actually going
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to be podcasting a lot more in the coming weeks, and I'm so excited to experiment with
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some podcasting ideas that I've had for quite some time, and honestly, now's the time to
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do it.
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So if you're not already subscribed to our podcast, do it now so you can come along for
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the journey, because it is going to be fun.
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Fourth thing I want to share with you today.
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I am going to be going live on Instagram a lot more.
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Again, I feel like I'm in this unique position to support people in staying really clear
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minded, in staying focused on what they can do, not what they can't, in staying creative,
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especially around your careers and your businesses, and staying healthy and strong, mentally,
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emotionally and physically.
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So if you don't already follow me on Instagram, come join me, because we have a freaking good
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time.
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I'm @MarieForleo, and make sure you turn on notifications.
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I think one of the most annoying things for me is when I go live and I get that message
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from Instagram, don't you hate this, when it's like, "We're going to notify some of
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your followers," and it's like, "Are you kidding me?
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Why are you notifying some of my followers, not all of my followers?", because these people
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obviously raised their hand because they want to hear what I have to say.
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So if you turn on notifications, you will hopefully get the little update that I'm going
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live, and I don't have a schedule at this moment when I'm going to go live.
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It's going to be pretty impromptu based on navigating all of these new changes with my
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team and taking care of B-Schoolers and all that good stuff, but I will try and be as
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present there as I possibly can.
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Fifth and finally, I just want to remind you, most important thing you can do right now
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is honestly, please take care of yourself.
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I want you to stay strong and healthy, mentally, emotionally and physically.
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As we all know, and again, this is a reminder, but it's based in science, stress lowers the
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immune response, which is the exact opposite of what we need right now.
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Here's what I believe, tough times make for strong people, and I promise you, I promise
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you we will make it through this if we're smart and if we just pull together.
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You know, I've been doing a lot of lives with my B-School students, and one of the things
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I said to them earlier this week, even before the shiitake really hit the fan, is I told
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them about a little game that I play with myself around self identity.
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Now, if you don't know about this, you should know.
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Your self identity or how you see yourself is one of the most powerful and potent forces
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that shapes your behavior in life.
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So I told my B-Schoolers this, and it was really fun and I saw one woman at least who
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saw that particular live that I did go and post about it on Instagram.
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Basically, this is what I told them.
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I said, look, for any of y'all who are feeling overwhelmed right now, this is what you have
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to start saying.
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Adopt this mantra.
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Just say, "I don't do overwhelm.
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I don't do stress."
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So think about it this way.
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Let's say you had a bunch of friends, and you love your friends, and they came over
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and they're like, "Hey look, we ain't got any toilet paper.
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Let's go rob our neighbor down the street, the old grandma over there.
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I'm sure she's got stores of it."
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You'd be like, "What the frick are you talking about?
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I don't rob people.
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I don't steal from people.
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That's not what I do.
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That's not who I am.
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That's not how I behave."
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So I want to invite you to just consider adopting this new identity right now that says this,
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"I don't do overwhelm.
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I don't do stress."
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Yes, in a momentary instance, maybe there will be a lot coming your way and you might
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feel overwhelmed for a minute, 30 seconds, maybe five minutes, but tell yourself this,
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"I don't do overwhelm.
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I will not exist in that emotional or mental state.
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It is not a place I will allow myself to indulge in."
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Period.
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End of story.
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Same thing with stress.
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"I'm not going to do stress.
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I'm just not going to do it.
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I'm going to opt out of both of those emotional states."
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Why?
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They're not useful.
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All they do is create havoc.
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They lower your immune response, they make you crazy, and they don't necessarily help
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you get anything purposeful done.
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So again, I invite you to adopt those mantras.
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"I don't do overwhelm," and, "I don't do stress," and see how that works for you, because it
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works really, really well for me.
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With that, I will say this was really fun.
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I'm actually excited to talk more with you in this format, because I think it's going
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to be a good time, and no matter what, again, please just take care yourself.
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I want you to err on the side of safety.
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If you possibly can, again, if you are not a member of the medical community, if you
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are not stocking groceries or doing any of the essential core essential things that we
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need in society right now, please stay the frick home.
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I'm not kidding, I'm literally the stay at home and hunker down police in my team and
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with my family and my friends, because I love them and I love you.
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So make sure you come say hi to me over on the 'Gram, because that's where I spend the
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most time on the social medias, or you can come leave a comment at marieforleo.com.
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Let me know if there's any questions or topics you want me to talk about in these upcoming
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weeks on the podcast, and again, I think we're going to have a good time with this.
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A good time with this meaning amid the zombie apocalypse coronavirus, we're going to have
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a good time on the podcast, so don't come from me with like, "Oh, this is going to be
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a good time, Marie!"
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That's not what I'm saying.
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Context, people.
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But above all, I will leave you the way I always leave you on my show, which is with
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this.
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Stay on your game and keep going for your dreams.
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Yes, even during this time, because the world really does need that very special gift that
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only you have.
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Thank you so much for listening, and I'll catch you next time on the Marie Forleo podcast.