Name: Saying All The Wrong Things... with Ash Hardell [CC] (Saying All The Wrong Things... with Ash Hardell [CC])
Uploaded: 2021-01-14T10:51:24.000Z
Duration: 15 min 38 s
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J: So, I'm going to teach you how to say 'hello lovely people,'

J: which is how I start my videos.  A: OK... OK.

A: I messed up! There's too much pressure! OK.

J: I am joined by the amazing Ash Hardell

J: So I'm fangirling a bit inside A: I'm fanpersoning

J: Also, you have some of the best eyebrows I've ever seen.

people not being too afraid to talk to us.

J: People are so afraid that they'll say the wrong things

A: It's an issue J: And so we're gonna try and help

J: And be like, "Here's something you could say instead, maybe?"

A: And hopefully build your confidence a little bit J: Yes.

And make it seem less scary to talk to us, 'cause I really like questions

A: Even if there're some faux pas in the questions.

A: I like curiosity, I like questions, and I

I like those way more than, like, uncomfortable avoidance

I'd rather have you ask your awkward question, than just--

I'm not silly, I can pick up on when you're like

'Ooo, you freak me out, I'm just gonna walk away!'

about deafness and disability, so I might accidentally,

J: No, and I know like this--everything I know about trans issues comes from your videos.

J: And Chase  A: Yeah, and if you mess up, I'm gonna expose you

A: We're gonna extend each other some compassion J: Yes

A: and we've like set that as an expectation before entering this conversation.

J: I would rather someone had really good intentions

and wanted to say something nice to me, but accidentally used some bad words

Than if they are using incredibly, wonderfully PC language,

A: Yes, I... Have you ever heard of...there's political correctness and then there's emotional correctness.

A: So, emotional correctness is kind of what you're just explaining.

It's just like having good intentions and like

tapping into the other person's humanity.

A: So, yeah, I also value emotional correctness over like

J: The thing that comes up for me a lot is...it happens a lot with older people.

A: OK. J: The way that I dress is very old fashioned,

A: Sure! J: which older people like, a lot.

A: OK. J: So they love to come over and talk to me about it...

It's really heartbreaking when old men come over and they're like,

J: Generally, people will come over and they'll say things along the lines of like...

"Oh, you're too beautiful to be in a wheelchair!" [drum rimshot]

A: I'm having trouble even processing how those two things go together

A: I'm actually at a loss for words for this

J: It's slightly similar to the, 'you're too beautiful to be gay...'

A: Right. J: But that's kind of more of an insult.

J: "You're too beautiful to be disabled," they think is a compliment.

A: Yeah, it's not a compliment, though... J: No.

what were they trying to communicate to you?

J: They're just trying to tell me that I'm pretty. A: OK!

J: In some way sympathise with the fact that I have a disability

'You look lovely! Having a disability must be hard, though.'

A: What's the right thing they should have said?

J: Maybe...just that I'm pretty? A: Yeah? Right? Yeah!

J: So, like, "Aww, you're so beautiful! It's a shame about those crutches, though."

J: because they help me to get somewhere! A: Right!

A: Do you ever take those moments and like...

A: Um - oh, I think that's totally up to you.

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Saying All The Wrong Things... with Ash Hardell [CC] (Saying All The Wrong Things... with Ash Hardell [CC])

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