Allright, so I'm going a coupleofthingstosayaboutthat.
Sothe 1st 1 is, youknow, I wouldsay a numberofpeoplehavebeanattemptandnotanoverwhelmingnumber, but a numberofpeoplehavebeenattemptingtotakemetotaskforthefactthatmypatronsupporthasBean.
And I did a littlebitofcalculationslastweektotrytofigureoutwhatthetotalviewcountwas, Um, forforthecutsofmylecturesthathavebeanappearingonYouTubeandthenthepoliticalmaterialaswell.
And I thinkit's upwardof 50 million.
Andso I'm makingpsychologicalandpoliticalcontentavailableto 50 millionpeopleandsoyouknow, thatseemslike a reasonablethingtodonow.
Peoplewhodon't agreewithwhat I'm sayingmydiffer, but I thinkthatcouldbeseparatedfromtheeducationalcontentaswell.
Andsecond, thatitenablespeopletosupportmyendeavorstobringgeneraleducationto a wideraudience.
Andthatseemslike a gooddealforeveryone.
And, youknow, youmightsay, Well, it's a particularlygooddealforme, and I'm certainlynotcomplainingaboutwhat's happening.
But I wouldalsopointoutthatitdoesn't exactlybeing a straightforwardthing.
Andso, um, so I guessifanyoneelsewantstotryit, they'remorethanwelcometonow.
Havingsaidthat, um, I wouldalsosaythattherealissuehereand I thinkthisisthefactthatthisisn't selfevidentisalso a commentaryonthetoxicityofourcultureatthemomentisthatitactuallyisn't theissue.
Theissueisn't reallyhowmuchmoneyyouhave.
I thinkthatthat's a resentfulandrelativelyviciouswayofjudgingsomeoneelse.
I thinktheissueiswhatyoudowiththemoneywhenyouhaveit.
And, youknow, um, I'm not a particularlyhedonisticpersonand I'm not 25 yearsold, Youknow, I'm 55 yearsoldand I'm goingtobe a grandfatherin a coupleofmonths.
Youknow, ThankGodforthat.
Andwhat I wanttodowiththatmoneyistodothebestthings I canpossiblythinkoftodowithit.
Andoneofthethings I'm thinkingabout.
I startedthisbiblicalSiri's and a lotofthat's helpthankful, thankstoyouguysonPatrion, becausethatenabledmetogeneratethecapitalthatwasnecessarytorent a theaterbecausefor 12 lectures, thatwas a $60,000 investmentaboutthatsomethinglikethatandthenanother $8000 fortheforthecamerawork, andthathadtobebasicallydealtwithupfront.
Soitwas a reasonablefinancialrisk.
Now I'vebeancrazilyfortunateinthattheaterticketshavealsosoldout.
I wanttodo a seriesonthe 100 greatestbooksoftheWesterncanon, forexample.
I wanttomovegenuinehumanity's educationoutoftheuniversitieswhereitisn't beingtaughtanyways, asfaras I cantellonlinewherepeoplecanaccessitfreely.
I'm talkingto a widevarietyofpeoplerightnowabouttryingtodothatin a moreformalsense, sothatthepossibilityforwidespreaduniversityeducationcanbemadeuniversallyaccessible, andoneofthethingswe'retryingtocrackistheproblemofhowtoteachpeopletowrite, becausethat's a realtroublesomething.
I mean, I hopeisGigafactoriesproducebatterieslikemadsothatwecan, um, starttomakealternativeenergysourceseconomicallyviableandmaybereduceourdependenceonoilandmaybegetourselvesoutfromunderneaththethumboftheSaudiArabs.
Soanyways, thosearesomeofmyplants, andthatisn't allofthem, because I'm goingtocomeupwith a bunchmoreplans, and I'm goingtotrytoimplementthemasrapidlyas I possiblycan.
I'veputmyclinicalpracticeonhiatusforthenextthreemonthssothat I have a chancetothink, and I'verequestedthattheuniversityadvancedmysabbaticalbyoneyear.
So I shouldhaveabout a yeartothinkaboutwhat I shouldbedoingwithYouTubeandhow I canbepromotingbroadscalepubliceducationofthehighestquality.
I'm gonnadothebestthings I canpossiblythinkoftodowithitand, uh, hopefullythat'llwork.
Andsofaritseemstobegoingwell.
So, umyeah, I mean, I'veBeantakenabackquite a bitbythe I mean, it's notsurprisingthat, youknowthepeoplewhohavebeentryingtotakemedown, let's say, aresquawkingandbitchingbecause I happentobegenerating a fairlyreasonableincomefromthis.
Although I don't thinkaboutitasanincomehasalreadysaid, I thinkaboutitas a as a toolkitforpursuingmoreinterestingthings.
I thinktheproofisintheoutcomeandlikethebiblicalSiri's, andthat's a directconsequenceofthePatriotssupportthatseemstobegoinglikemad.
I thinkyouknowabout 500,000 peoplehavewatchedthevideosofarwithanotherwhoknowstensofthousandsofpeoplelisteningtothepodcasts, andthat's just a bloodymiraclethatthatmanypeoplewouldbeinterestedinwhat I considerthefundamentalfoundationforanytruehumanity's educationsogreatwillbuildfromthere.
Okay, so I wanttoaddressthatquestiontechnically, tobegintobeginwith, becauseoneofthethingsthatyouwanttodowhensomeoneelseyou A questionisthatyouwanttotake a lookatthequestionbecausethequestionboxesyouinin a certainway.
And I thinktheproblemwithbeliefinsubjectivelyexperiencedrealityisnotsomuchthatwhatyouexperiencedsubjectivelyisn't reallyisthatyoucangetthecategorieswrong.
Okay, BobAspreysays I'm a 58 yearoldAmericanredneckwhoneverwenttocallit a dayinhislife.
But I feellike I'm getting a worldclasseducationeveryday.
Thankyou, DrPeterson.
Youareverycool.
Well, thankyou.
I don't knowhowcool I amexactly.
But I'm I tellyou, man, andthisisthedeadtruth.
I amabsolutelythrilledthat I havetheopportunitytoprovideeducationalresourcestopeopleallovertheworld.
It's a dream, youknow, really.
I mean, it's anabsoluteprivilege.
Soand I getlettersfrompeoplelikeyouvery, veryfrequentlyfromallovertheworld.
Youknow, whenthefactthatnowwehavethetechnologytoallowpeopleinprincipletohave a worldclassuniversityeducationist, mindbogglingandhere's something I thinkisabsolutelycomical.
And I'vebeenpursuingthiswith a groupofpeoplethat I'vebeandiscussing, I'vebeenhavingintensediscussionswithsomeinSiliconValleyandsomeinMontreal, insomeinToronto.
Youknow, here's theuniversitysituation.
Inmanyways, Numberone, they'reputtingstudentsindebtin a tremendouswayintheUnitedStatesoverbecauseofoverpricededucation.
Andso I seeanopportunityemergingrightnowwheretheintellectualpropertythat's relatedtothetruehumanitiesandthatwouldbe a leastinpart, theWesternculturalcannoncouldjustbetakenoutoftheuniversity's gripandprovidedtopeopleinhighqualityformonline.
Andif I cancrackhowtoteachpeopletowrite, andthenalsotofigureouttheaccreditationproblem, which I don't thinkit's notanoverwhelminglycomplexproblem, it's complex, butnotoverwhelmingly.
Thenthere's noreasonthattheuniversitycan't move, can't moveonline, and I wouldsaythetrueUniversityexistswherepeoplearepursuingeducationbecauseof a bloodywellwanttogeteducatedbecausetheyknowthatbeingsharpened, articulateandhistoricallyinformedandphilosophicallywiseandallofthatmakestheirlivesbetter, makesthembettercitizens, makesthemoreresponsible.
And I'm goingtotrytodispensewisdomtothedegreethat I'm fortunateenoughtohaveaccesstoit.
Soanyways, Bob, like, I'm thrilledthat I couldbeofservicetoyou, andit's a realprivilege, andsoandwe'regoingtodomoreofthat.
Soallright, soanotherquestion.
Am I feelingallright?
Howismyhealth?
Well, that's a goodquestion.
Um, I'vehad I'vehad a historyofdepression.
Assomeofyoumayknow, it's a plagueinmyfamily, goesbackmanygenerationsandalsohasafflictedoneofmyChildrenquitebadly.
Butwearefiguringthisout, and I'm actuallyfeelingprettygoodrightnowforthefirsttimeinaboutsevenoreightmonths, I'm reallylookingforwardtothefutureagainand I'm gettingmyenergyback.
Andwhen I haveenergy, I have a lotofenergy.
Andsoandbecause I putmyclinicalpracticeonhiatusandbecause I'veappliedfor a sabbaticaland I'm goingtohavesometimeandbecauseofthismassiveconstructionprojectthat I'vebeenengagedininmyhousebecause I put a basically a NativeAmericanlonghouseonthatceilingofmyhouse, believeitornot, maybeoneday I'llwalkyouthroughthat.
Ifyou'd beinterested, I'm gonnahave a lotoftimeand I'm finishing a book.
It's dueonJune 5th.
It's called 12 RulesforLife, anantidoteforchaos, andthat's justaboutdone, anditwillbeoutJanuary 9th, I think 2018.
I'velostabout £50 because I'vestoppedeatingcarbohydratesalmostcompletely, andsothat's bloodyunbelievable.
I'm backdowntotheweight I waswhen I was 30 and I thinkthat I'm goingtogetontopofmyhealthproblemsandmydaughter, who's hadextraordinarilyserioushealthproblems, includingtohip, like a hipreplacementwhenshewas 16 andananklereplacementwhenshewasalso 16.
Shewalkedaroundontwobrokenlegsfor a wholeyearandexcruciatingagonylikeshe's figured a lotofthisoutandshe's offerantiorherimmunesuppressantmedicationandallsortsofotherthings.
Soit's a painstakingprocess, and I'vebeeneatingnothing, literallynothingbutbeefchickenandsellitfor a wholemonthtryingtofigureoutwheremydietarysensitivitiesare.
Butsoanyways, that's a longanswertoyourquestion.
But I'm feelingprettydamngood.
Andif I couldget a fewmoreadministrativemattersthatarechasingmearound, but I think I couldgetontopofthemandthen, man, I'm gonnabebackoutit, andthat's gonnaberealfun.
Andobviouslythat's notgoodforthewomeneither, cause I don't knowwherethey'regonnafindtheirmen, SoAllright, whatareyourthoughtsontheBookofRevelationintheBible?
Itfreakedmeoutwhen I was a kid.
Yeah, well, I shouldsayso, man.
Ifyou'reanadultandyoureadit, itshouldfreakyouout.
Whataremythoughtsonit?
I thinkit's I thinkit's the, uh, countofah, hallucinogenictrip.
Probablyprobably.
Whatwouldyoucallcausedbypsilocybinmushrooms?
MaybeMaybeEmanatedmaskarea, whichwerewasidentifiedby a guynamedLastSawabout 25 30 yearsago, maybeevenmoreasthesomaoftheancientHindus.
So, yeah, I thinkit's a hallucination.
I thinkitsaccountofanextremelyprofoundhallucinogenictripthatthat's what I think.
I mean, whatitmeansthat's a wholedifferentissue.
And I'm goingtotrytoaddressthatwhenandif I gettotheBookofrevelationsinmybiblicalSiri's.
Butthat's gonnabeprobably a coupleofyearsinthefutureattherate I'm going, becauseit's takenmethreeweekstogetthroughGenesisone.
Soallright, VioletIrwinsays, I lookgreatwhileViolet, youravatarlooksgreat, too.
And, well, thankyou.
Partofthereason I lookgreat, I think, tothedegreethat I doisthat I have a verygoodcamerathatmysonhelpmepurchase, andsoitmakesmelook a helloflotbetterthan I actuallydo.
Look, so, anyways, I appreciatethesentiment.
Allright, Do I seeanydownsideto a childbeingraisedbyitsfatherinthe 1st 3 yearswhilethemotherisworkingfulltimearetheirpsychologicalconsequencesforthechildtobeexpected?
I thinkthatdependsverymuchontheindividualsituationinthefamily.
Um, I'm notconvincedthattheartofinfantcareissomethingthat a tremendousnumberofmalesarehighlyspecializedfor.
I thinkyouhavetohave a femininetemperament, andthatwouldmeantodoittodoinfantcareproperly.
And I alsothinkthatinordertobornthewaythatyouhavetobornwhenyou're a motherwho's takingcareofaninfant, let's sayunderninemonths, I thinksomeofthebiochemicaltransformationsthataccompanypregnancy, childbirthandlactationprobablysetuptheproperbiochemicalunderlyingbiochemicalandpsychologicalmilieuthatmakesthekindofbondingthatthatincreasestheprobabilityofhighlevelcarepossibleinthosefewmonths.
Thatdoesn't meanthatmencan't doit.
But I wouldalsosayinmyexperiencethatit's kindofhardonmen, youknow?
Um, it's a complicatedissue, butlikeoneofthethings I experienceand I reallylikekits, youknow, like I lovekidsandtheygenerallyrespondreallywelltome.
Babies, they're a differentmatterbecause I'm I don't reallyfeelfullyqualifiedtogive a babywhatitneeds.
And I guessyouknow, that's partbecauseyouknow, breastfeeding, atleastsofarasisfirmlyinthedomainofwomen.
Um, so I thinkthattherearecircumstancesunderwhichthat's a goodthingtodo, andactually, I had a businesspartnerhave a business.
Partnershelpedmedeveloptheselfauthoring, sweet, verysmartguynamedDanielHiggins, whowason M.
I T engineerandalsohas a PhDinpsychologyfromHarvard, andhespent a lotofhistimetakingcareofhiskidswhentheywerelittle.
HiswifewasgoingtomedicalschoolandHe's a prettymasculineguy, and, uh, itwashardonhim, manlikeitjustaboutkilledhim.
And I mean, theydidn't have a lotofmoneyandshewasgoingthroughmedicalschoolandtheyhadtwoandthenthreelittlekids.
Andso, youknow, that's a verybusytimeoflife.
But, um, hediditandhedid a greatjobandhehaswonderfulkids, andhepaid a hellof a lotofattentiontothem.
Buthewasnoteasy.
Itwasnoteasyforandyouknow, mywifewhen I watchedherwithourlittlekidswhentheywereinfantsinparticular, likeshehadanaffinityand a proclivityforthatsortofthing.
Andmywifeisactually a prettytoughcookie, and I wouldn't sayoverwhelminglyfemininebytemperament.
Ratherthanbeingagreeableandhighneuroticism, whichis a moretypicalsetoffemininetraits.
Shewassodamngoodwithinfants.
Itwasjustunbelievable, youknow, and I dothinkthatthebiochemicaltransformationsthataccompanypregnancyandsoforthdofacilitatethat I musthaveseenthatwithmysister, whoisquite a masculinewomanandveryadventurousman.
She, uhshesmuggledMercedestrucksacrosstheSaharaDesertinthe 19 eightiesfromFrance, downthroughthewholeSaharainto *** and, uh, babysatorphangorillasintheCongoandransafaristhroughAfricalikeshe's She's a veryadventurousperson, andshetook a lotaftermyfather, who's quite a toughguy.
That's completelyonesided, becauseforeveryrightthereis a correspondingresponsibility, andfreedomcanbechaosjustasmuchasitcanbe, youknow, blissfullackofresponsibilityandtheabilitytomakehedonicchoices.
Oneafteranother, and I'vebeenspeakingtoyoungmeninparticular.
They'retheoneswhokeepcomingtomytalks, bytheway, a boattruthinactionandresponsibilityandlikethey'reeatingthatup, it's there.
I canseetheireyeslightup, whichissocool.
I havebeentalkingtothepeoplewhoranfortheconservativeleadershipinCanadaaboutthefactthatwhen I gotalktomaleaudiences, especiallyyoungmen, thatthey'reunbelievablyenthralledbyanydiscussionofgenuineresponsibilityandtruth.
Andsotheconservativeshavesomethingtoofferyoungman, and I wouldsaythat's roughlyakintoaninitiation.
Youknow, theideaisthatatsomepointyouhavetotellyoungmen, Look, growthehellup, takeonsomeresponsibility, straightenyourselfout, acthonestly, makeyourselfintoanadmirableandpowerfulcharacter, notbecauseyou'redomesticated, like a bloodypuppyor a sheep, butbecausethat's thewaytogenuineauthorityandinfluenceandandthecapacitytodogreatgoodintheworld.
Andthat's likeanexcitingcalltoadventure.
And I thinkthatthat's a modern, sophisticatedintellectualequivalenttosomethinglikeaninitiationritual.
Andso I hopetobelikepromotingthatmessagemoreandmore.
I wasspeakingto a memberofoneoftheleadersoftheindigenouscommunitiesinCanadatodayaboutmaybegettingthehighschoolversionofthefutureauthoringprogram, thatfutureauthoringprogram.
I'vetalkedaboutthat a bitbeforeonPatron.
Youknow, it's a programatself, arethrowingdotcomthatenablespeopletogeneratedvisionfortheirlivesandalsoThioandtodetailoutthatvisionandmake a planofit.
I thinkmostofyoupageronsubscribershavegotlinkstothatalreadyandusernamesandpasswordsandhasn't reallyremarkablypositiveeffectonyoungmenwhoaredisenfranchised, whotendtobeethnicminoritiesandsoinitiatingthemintotheideathattheyneedtotakecontroloftheirowndestinyandthatthat's theproperpathwaytoauthorityandstatureandandnotselfesteem.
Butselfrespect, whichis a completelydifferentthing, I think, is a reasonablemodernequivalenttoinitiationritual.
Okay, solet's takeanotherlivequestionhere, Brennan B says.
Butbecauseoftheeventsofthelastsevenmonthsofbeingsooverwhelming, I wouldsaythatthere's a certainamountofchaosthathasinvadedmyimmediateenvironment.
But I haveplanstogetthisplacesortedoutin a seriouswayoverthenextfewmonths, fromtopfrombottomofthehosttothetop.
Sohalfway, Brandon.
That's a gooddeal.
Andthere's reallypsychologicalconsequencestothat, youknow, becausetheifyou'reinterestedinthiseveryonehere's a reallysophisticatedbookyoucouldread.
Youcouldtake a lookatCarlYoon's lastbook, whichwascalledMysterionConjunctionISSsothatit's Latinandno, thefirstpartofthatbookisreallykindoflikeof a dictionaryofsymbolism.
Hewroteit, I thinkinhiseighties, and I thinkhewastryingtogetdownasmuchashecouldhavewhatheknewasfastashecould.
Sothefirstpartis a dictionaryofsymbolism, andit's verydifficulttoreadunlessyouread a lotofhisotherwriting.
Butthesecondpartofthebook, which I thinkisanabsoluteworkofgenius, Yo, makes a coupleofpropositionsabouthigherordermoraldevelopment.
So I'm gonnarunthroughthemreallyquicklyanddescribedtheirsymbolism.
So, hesaid, thefirstthingthatyouwanttodoifyou'regoingtogetyouracttogetherandthisislikeanextensionoftheofthePGAidiotnotionofstagesofmoraldevelopment, hesaid, Youknow, youhaveanintellectandyouhave a setofemotionsandmotivations, andyoucanconceptualizetheintellectsymbolicallyasmasculineandtheemotionsandmotivationssymbolicallyisfeminine.
Andsothefirstconjunction, whichisthebringingtogetherofthemasculineandfemininetomake a completebeing, wouldbetheunionoftheintellect, withtheemotionsandmotivations, sothatyou'renotfightingyourdeepermotivationswithyourthought.
Sothenyoubringthosetogetherin a creativeunion, andsothatmeansthatyoustarttoactoutwhatyouthinkandfeelsothatthere's noparadoxicalrelationshipororenactedlie.
Theycallthat a performanceofcontradictionbetweenwhatyouthinkandfeelandwhatyoudo.
Andwhen I grewupinnorthernAlbertaandtherewerenoJewsupthere, italso, um, comingouttoEasternCanada.
Especially.
Muchareall.
TherewerelotsofJewishpeoplethere, and I madefriendswithlotsofthemandtheninToronto.
And I thinkpartofthereasonthatsomanyofmyfriendshavebeenJewishisbecausetheJewshave, youknow, I'm obviouslyspeakingin a verygeneralsense, istheyhave a richintellectuallifeandtremendousrespectforforintellectualpursuits.
Andsowehave a naturalaffinity, andsoyouknow, morepowertothem.
Asfaras I'm concerned, there's a fairer.
There's a fairbitofevidence, especiallywithregardstotheAshkenaziJewsthatthey, they'rethey'reaverageaccuserabout 15 pointshigherthanthegeneralpopulation, whichaccountsinpartfortheradicaloverrepresentationamongNobelPrizewinners, forexample, andalsoinpositionsoff.
Soand I thinkyouknow, I haveoftenthoughtthisabouttheJewstoisthatifyou'regonnabe a minority, youshouldleasthavethedecencytofail.
And I thinkthatpartoftheroombecauseyouknow, thenwell, you'rearoundandyou'reannoyingbecauseyou're a minorityandyouknow, becausepeoplearefundamentallyethnocentric, andallhumanbeingsarelikethat.
Butif a minorityfails, thenwhyyoucansay, Well, atleasttheyfailed, andyouknowthatmaybeallowsyounottohatethemquiteasmuch.
ButtheJewshavethisannoyingproclivitywheretheygoas a minoritytobecomeextremelysuccessful.
And, ofcourse, nobodycanstandthat.
Andsothat's a hugepartofwhataccountsforantiSemitism, whichareregardedandabsolutelynoabysmal.
Soand, uh, let's see, whatelsecan I rememberabouther?
Thatwasbutyeah, I mean, I toldmydadwhen I wasingradefive, I wassittingwithheronthisbig, umarmchairinourlivingroom, andshewassittingbesidemeonthearmchair, which I wasprettydamnthrilledaboutonDhe.
Soshe's veryhardproperty, Let's say, amongtheelementaryschoolboysandso I wasprettyhappyeversitbyme.
Andsoanyway, sheleftand I toldmydadthat I wasgonnamarryher, and I rememberthatandhetoldthatstoryonourwedding, whichwasquitecute.
Andthen I'lltellyouonemorestory, which I reallythinkit's funny.
Thisissofunny.
Sowewewerefriendswhenwewerekids.
Andthen, youknow, girlsmaturefasterthanboys, andshe's a yearolderthanmebecause I skipped a gradeinschool.
Wewereinthesamegradeinschool, andso, youknow, whenshehadabout 13 orso, itkindofwentourseparateways a littlebit.
Althoughwestillremainfriendsandshehad a paperrouteand I tookherpaperrouteoverwhenshehit 13 orsoand I, like, quadrupledthedamnthing I think, which I thinkisprettyfunny.
But I alsodeliveredpapertoherhouse, and, um, onedayshewastherewiththenumberanotherofherfriendsandwhowas a kindof a cutechick, too.
And I likedherquite a bit, andtheyweresittingaroundtalkingabout, liketalkingabouthowtheywerefeminists, roughlyspeaking, andtheyweretalkingwhen I walkedinaboutthefactthatneitherofthemweregoingtotaketheirhusband's lastdaywhentheygotmarried.
Andthenwestartedtalkingaboutwhatthenamewouldbe, and I said, Hey, I'vegot a storyforyou.
Um, rememberwhenyouwere 13 and I wasdeliveringpaperstoyourhouseand, uh, because I suggestedthatshetakemylastnameandshewasn't sosureaboutthat?
And I said, Well, yourememberthatlittlestory, thatlittleepisodethatwehadwhenyouwere 13 and I cameovertoyourhouseandyoutoldmethatyouweren't gonnatakeyourhusband's nameandthatyou'regonnahavetomarrysomewimpsaidOkay, well, youknow, here I am.
I mean, youcan't eliminatethenecessityofbeingattractedtooneanother.
That's important.
Andthat's mysterious, youknow?
So, forexample, here's a funnythingifyouoneofthethingsweknowthatattractspeopletooneanotherisbilateralsymmetry.
Andsoifyoutakemenandyourankthembythesymmetryoftheirfaces, andthenyougivetheasymmetricalmen T shirtstowearclean T shirtsfor a dayandthesymmetricalmenclean T shirtstowearfor a day, andthenyougivethe T shirtstowomenandyouhavetheratethetheodor.
Youknow, ifyouhave a partnerthatyoucantrust, youcangosay, Hey, youknow, I made a bigfinancialmistake, man, andit's reallytorturingme, and I feellike a completeidiotandit's reallydangerous, andthepersonthereisgonnahelpyoufigureoutwhattodoaboutit.
Andthey'regoingtoknowthatwhentheymake a stupidmistakeandtheirbloodywellgoingtothat, theycancomeandtalktoyouandthatyouguysaregonnaworkyourwaythroughit.
That's a bigdeal, andthere's a coupleofthings.
Ourculturegetsreallywrong, andoneis a devaluesmarriage.
That's really a verybadidea, becausemarriageismarriageislike 1/3 ofyourlifeandmaybemore.