I tendnottosayyoulookniceoryoulookgorgeoustodayorsomethinglikethat, becausetheunderlyingcommentthereisontheotherdaysthatpersondoesn't looknicelike, soif I wanttocomplimentsomeone's appearance, I trytopick a specificthinglike, Oh, I'veneverseenyouwearthatsweaterbeforeitlooksniceonyou.
Somethinglikethat.
Like, yesterdaymyfriendhad a newdressonandlike, isthat a newdress?
Andbecause I thoughtshelookednice, but I didn't I didn't wanttomakeitsoundlike I don't thinkshelooksniceeveryday.
So I said, Isthat a newdress?
Andshegoes, Yeah, I said, I thinkthatcolorisreally, reallyniceonyou.
Itlooksreallygood.
Andshewassohappyaboutthat.
Soyes, there.
Therearethesecompliments.
Like, youlooknice.
Youlookgreat.
Youlookgorgeousandsoon, but I personallykindofpreferredtow.
Levelthemup a littlebitandjustsay, pick a specificthinglike, didyouget a newhaircut?
DidyoudyeyourhairoryouDidyougetsomething?
Didsomethinghappen?
Like, look, whateveritistryingtopickupon a specificthing, becausethenthatshowsyou'repayingattentiontotheotherperson.
Ifyousaythistosomebodyafteryouhavemetthemalready, you'regoingtoseehimeither A likeyou'vecompletelyforgotmeetingthemorbelikeyouare a verystrangepersonforsayingit's nicetomeetyouagain.