調べたい単語やフレーズを入力してください
discerning
US /dɪˈsɜ:rnɪŋ/
・UK /dɪˈsɜ:nɪŋ/
B2 中上級
v.t./i.動詞 (他動詞/自動詞)識別している
Discerning taste, a discerning eye for color
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友達は少なくても大丈夫？人付き合いが苦手な人に共通する意外な5つの特徴
- You're not being difficult, you're being discerning.
あなたは気難しいのではなく、識別力があるのです。
パチュリの聖杯：ディプティック「テンポ」(2018) - 香水レビュー (Patchouli Holy Grail : TEMPO by Diptyque (2018) - fragrance review)
- So this was the more analytical and discerning part of the review but what's the most important is the feel of the fragrance, the mood that it evokes.
だから、これはレビューの中でより分析的で目の肥えた部分だったが、最も重要なのは香りの感触、その香りが呼び起こすムードだ。
- So this was the more analytical and discerning part of the review,
つまり、リッチで深みがあるが、この飽和した活気がないのだ。
最悪の航空会社体験 - キー＆ピール (The Worst Airline Experiences - Key & Peele)
- For the discerning passenger.
目の肥えた乗客のために。
- Mm, for the discerning passenger.
目の肥えた乗客のために。
シンガポールの公営住宅と愛の関係とは？ (What’s Love Got to Do With Singapore’s Public Housing?)
- Newer developments are embracing trendy designs and eco-friendly technology, further boosting their appeal among more discerning younger buyers.
プールなどのコミュニティ施設も充実している。
- Newer developments are embracing trendy designs and eco-friendly technology, further boosting their appeal among more discerning younger buyers.
新しい開発物件は、トレンディなデザインや環境に優しい技術を取り入れており、目の肥えた若い購買層からの支持をさらに高めている。
傷ついた人々はなぜさらなる罰を求めるのか (How Wounded People Seek Out further Punishment)
- It's just that for us, home was a place of grief and persecution. It's easy enough to see why children put up with poor treatment. They're born radically powerless. They can't run away. They are utterly at the mercy of others. They can't even think especially straight. What they must do, above all else, is adapt. Which in practice means learning to put up with poor treatment. They have to develop an advanced skill at not noticing quite how awful things are, an expertise at being unfazed by cruelty and neglect. Children in deprived circumstances tend to be geniuses at looking away, disassociating and making light of things. Of course, it might not be perfect that their father screams at them constantly, but there are some interesting shows on television and there's a really fascinating bit of the garden to explore in the morning. You can climb up the big tree and imagine it's a little house. And of course, ideally their mother wouldn't be so mocking and disloyal. But that's just the way things are, neither more or less sad than the fact it's often raining and there's a lot of homework to do. In any case, the bad treatment almost certainly has to do with something that they, the child, have done wrong. Badly treated children tend to take a compulsively generous view of those who injure them. Obviously, they aren't nasty on purpose. That would make no sense. Clearly, their ostensible brutality has sound explanations. It must be because they, the child, is in the wrong. That's why they're being neglected. That's why they've been declared fools. That's why they're being bullied. It's a great deal easier to believe that the parent is tough, yet fundamentally right, rather than gratuitously callous and unjustifiably hostile. In other words, what a bad childhood trains us to do, above all else, is to indulge meanness. The muscle that normally functions to repel attacks has had to be starved and has atrophied. In order to survive, we had to lose the ability to work out what was good and bad for us, lest we discover that we spent 18 years in the company of fiends. What this means for our futures is that we will be extremely poor at discerning when the partners we let into our lives cross the border into selfishness and malevolence. We'll continue under a narcoleptic command not to notice that we're being robbed and deceived. We'll be as blind to the blows now as we were then. For a long time, it simply won't occur to us to wonder why we've ended up paying for everything for the partner, or why they're unreliable in their promises, or constantly prioritise their friends over us, or are angrily defensive whenever we raise a complaint. We will simply, as we had to early on, fall into line and invent elaborate explanations for their behaviour. They're good, but they're tired. They're durable, but under pressure at work. They're fierce, but compensating for their childhood traumas, for which we have a lot of sympathy. Anything other than the more straightforward conclusion, we've fallen in with unconcerned egoists. We shouldn't compound our disloyalty towards ourselves by feeling, on top of everything else, ashamed for our tolerance. It isn't weakness, it's a survival strategy from childhood that served a very sensible purpose then but is liable to be ruining our lives now. To wake ourselves up, we need to consider our choices as if someone else had made them. We might wonder what we would advise a friend to do if they were in our situation. And through such a lens, we might start to perceive that the treatment we're facing isn't, as we've long thought, a sign of our partner's depth or complexity, but in the end, something much more humble, evidence that we need to get away. But this will be only a momentary liberation until we can understand the more fundamental issue, that the muscle most people use to eject poison has withered because of a distinctive history. We need to reverse the direction of our psychological fate. Our early suffering should not condemn us to yet more pain. It is what gives us an especially powerful claim on original sources of kindness, tenderness and calm.
ただ、私たちにとって家は悲しみと迫害の場所だった。なぜ子供たちが劣悪な扱いを受けても我慢するのか、それを理解するのは簡単だ。彼らは生まれながらにして根本的に無力なのだ。逃げることもできない。他人のなすがままなのだ。特にまともに考えることもできない。彼らがなすべきことは、何よりも適応することだ。それは実際には、劣悪な扱いを我慢することを学ぶということだ。どんなにひどい状況であってもそれに気づかない高度な技術、残酷な仕打ちやネグレクトにも動じない専門技術を身につけなければならない。恵まれない環境にいる子どもた
- What this means for our futures is that we will be extremely poor at discerning when the partners we let into our lives cross the border into selfishness and malevolence.
真の愛の刻印... (The Mark of True Love...)
- We humans have an immense appetite for complicated things, neuroscience, astrophysics and molecular biology of course, but also barely decipherable books, abstract works of art and avant-garde pieces of theatre without plot or character, all of which perhaps evoke the primordial puzzles of the universe and our own always ineffable existence within it. But our veneration for complexity can reach a most painful, time-consuming and futile zenith in one area in particular – relationships. It's here that we find otherwise discerning and hard-headed people exhibiting extreme patience, often lasting over a succession of tormented years, for what we can call complicated situations. The complexities may arise from some of the following dynamics. A beloved partner who wants to commit and surely will one day but not quite yet on account of this or that factor or not entirely because of certain psychological fears or not conclusively or at least not without certain important caveats. They may need space, freedom or what they call a chance to explore though quite what was still not wholly clear, though we have asked them on many occasions. Then a partner with whom there are a lot of misunderstandings, around whom words often lose their standard meanings, around whom we may have to spend hours untangling what was truly meant and around whom gestures or deeds that we previously thought uncontentious suddenly become the occasion for major surprising aggravations. Or a partner who in principle is there for us and in theory loves us very very much but in actuality – like last week and the week before that – is constantly remarkably busy, unable to respond to our texts, out with their compelling friends or concentrated on their always extremely demanding job. Or a partner with whom we sit up late at night on many occasions with a pad and paper to hand attempting to determine where the issues are coming from, what is at play and how things might be handled before, baffled and upset, we finally have to retreat to bed a little after 1am feeling fragile and tearful.
神経科学、宇宙物理学、分子生物学はもちろんのこと、かろうじて解読可能な書物、抽象的な芸術作品、筋書きも登場人物もない前衛的な演劇作品など、私たち人間は複雑なものに対して計り知れない欲求を持っている。しかし、複雑さへの崇拝は、特に人間関係というある分野において、最も苦痛を伴い、時間を要し、無益な頂点に達することがある。複雑と呼べるような状況に対して、しばしば苦悩に満ちた年月の連続となるような極端な忍耐を示すのは、そうでなくても目が肥えていて頭の固い人たちである。その複雑さは、以下のような力学から生じることが
这就是她让全场破防的原因【泰勒丝纽约大学毕业演讲】中大字幕优质的英语学习材料テイラー・スウィフトのニューヨーク大学でのスピーチ (这就是她让全场破防的原因【泰勒丝纽约大学毕业演讲】中英大字幕 优质的英语学习材料 Taylor Swift's NYU Speech)
- Be discerning.
目を肥やせ。
静かで、内気で、内向的な職場の燃え尽き症候群（と、それに気づく方法） (Burnout as a Quiet, Shy, Introvert at Work (& How to Recognize It))
- So the solution here is you need to be discerning.
つまり、ここでの解決策は、見極めが必要だということだ。
- Being discerning of where I put my time and effort and where I ensure high quality work is done has led to me feeling more at ease, calm and relaxed within myself so that I could have the energy to do other things.
自分の時間と労力をどこに費やすか、質の高い仕事をするためにどこに費やすかを見極めることで、私は自分自身をより安心させ、落ち着かせ、リラックスさせることができた。
10分以内にできないことを証明する (I'll prove you can't in under 10 minutes)
- Speaking of information, did you know that if I put an object into your hand while blindfolded that your left hand would actually be better at discerning it?
情報といえば、目隠しをした状態で手に物を握らせると、左手の方がその物を識別しやすいということをご存知だろうか？
感情を溜め込んでいるサイン (Signs You're Bottling Up Your Emotions)
- Healing allows you to trust again without fear, while also being discerning, set healthy boundaries, and embrace vulnerability without questioning your value. 4.
癒しによって、あなたは恐れを抱くことなく再び信頼することができるようになり、同時に見分けがつくようになり、健全な境界線を設定し、自分の価値を疑うことなく脆弱性を受け入れることができるようになる。4.