Sometimes, peoplecallme "BreakupBrad," mostlikelybecause I'm theonlypersononearthwhoiswillingtospendover a decadehelpingpeoplegettheirexbackorgetthrough a toughbreakup.
Now, thankfullyforyouguys, I actuallydolovedoingthat, and I'm happytogeekoutonbreakuppsychology, and I'm alsohappytomakevideoslikethisone, where I'm gonnagiveyoubeautifulviewerssomeadviceaboutsendingyourexgiftsorlovenotes.
Buthonestly, folks, actuallythisvideocouldhavebeenthatshort, and I could'veendeditthere, becausethat's prettymuchwhat I thinkabouttheideaofgivingyourex a giftorsendingthemanykindofgushy, spill-your-gutsloveletter.
Really, youneedtoappearlikeyou'rethriving, andthatyou'rehappywithoutyourex, andthatyoureallyjustdon't give a shitaboutthemanymore. Thatisreallytheonlyeffectivewaytochangetheirmindaboutbreakingupwithyouandtorewiretheirfeelingsforyouandthepossibilityof a futuretogether.
Now I doactuallyrealizethat, unlikegifts, theideaofspillingyourheartouttoyourex, thatcanhavesomeappeal… youprobablyjustwanna... youputitalloutthere, saywhatyoufeelandbedonewithit.
Now I havemadevideosonthismessageinthepast, butbasicallyitsjust a messageyoucansendtoyourexinverycertainsituationswhereyou'vemademistakesinthepast, begging, pleading, apologizingoverandover— andthismessagewillhelpyouundothatdamageandsortofresetthestageinyourex's mindtomoreofan “emotionalneutral” state.
And I can't getintodetailshere, thisissupposedtobe a shortvideo, butyoureallydoneedtoproperlysetthestageandmakesureyouusetheCleanSlatetemplate 100 percentcorrectly, orelseitmayactuallybackfireandmakethingsevenworse.