- And welcome back to our channel.

This video is a little bit of story time for you.

We got this book from a viewer

and it's called the Meaning of Life.

Oh, no, it's called-- - No, the Book of Questions.

- The Book of Questions.

She also sent a book called the Meaning of Life.

- It's actually The Meaning of Liff.

That's the thing. - Ah, The Meaning of Liff.

- 'Cause when we first opened these as a vlog,

our last John and Lia vlog of vlogmas,

we opened these and as soon as I saw it,

The Meaning of Life and The Book of Questions

I thought it was a religious book

and I was like oh no, it's a viewer trying

to convert us to their religion.

- Yeah.

- But, it's not, they're just books.

So this one has, what is it, the words?

- This is a book all about words that

can't be explained in the English language,

is that right? - Yeah.

So like this one hu-nah or hue-nah

is the result of coming to the wrong decision.

But this book, The Book of Questions,

has loads of questions in, that aren't designed like trivia,

they're designed to get to know yourself better.

So they're like prompts - Oh my gosh.--

- About life, money, sex,

all these other things-- - All the things.

- To try and know what your beliefs are on things.

So we thought it was a really cool idea

to incorporate into our video.

So Loraine if you're watching thank you for these books.

- Thank you Loraine.

- It's gonna help with our channel.

- Starting now.

- Okay so, question number one.

- Oh, we're starting at the beginning?

- Yeah. - I thought we would just,

see that's already, we already differ on that, don't we?

I'd be like this. - Ah, no.

No, 'cause then you know,

no it has to be from the beginning.

- Are you kidding?

- Yeah.

- Okay, so we have to start at the beginning,

that's so boring.

- It's mainly for our channel,

as in, because then we'll know where we've got up to.

- Oh okay, fine, okay, well done, nice and organized.

(both laughing)

I'm like one, two, three, that one.

- Well, we can but then-- - No, no, no, no we'll lose--

- Okay, we'll lose track. - Track, you're right.

- You're right we'll lose track.

- Okay, so the first question is

for a person that you loved deeply

would you be willing to move to a distant country

knowing that there would be little chance

of seeing your friends or family again?

- Oh.

Well if I love-- - So would you

basically move to a foreign country

for the love of your life knowing that you

probably wouldn't see your friends and family ever again?

- Ever again?

- Yeah, that's what it says.

- We need to iron out some creases right now.

(Joel laughing)

If we're gonna play this game we can't do the,

oh, but I'll go home at Christmas.

You can't do that-- - No, no.

- Oh, but I would fly home.

- No we have to say this--

- Literally. - Question literally.

So the question is saying there's little chance

of you seeing your friends and family again.

- No I wouldn't do it,

would you? - No, no I wouldn't, no.

'Cause I don't think you're ever that in love,

that quickly, that you would sacrifice

family and friends for.

- Yeah, I don't think I'd do that.

I want to be close to, because if I'm gonna

start a family with someone,

what's the use in being (laughs)...

This sounds serious.

What's the use in being in a different country?

Who's gonna babysit.

- Yeah, exactly

- [Both] Who's gonna look after the kids?

- It's true - That's so mean.

- No, I know what you mean.

You want a community vibe. - It helps to be near...

I like community vibes.

I like loads of people.

So if there is gonna be just me and the person

and the family we create in a foreign country

no where near anyone, that's just gonna

send me into-- (child screaming)

I'm sorry. - Excuse me.

- But we're trying to talk to the legends.

- Not in Chelsea. - Ridiculous.

Not in Chelsea.

- Anyway.

- Link to Airbnb credit in the description,

promise the screaming children won't be here.

(Joel laughing)

If you were to book this Airbnb.

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(both laughing)

Back to the video.

- To link on from this, do you believe,

it's not a question in the book,

do you believe-- - Alright.

- In love at first?

No, not love at first sight.

Do you believe that there's only one person

that you can fall in love with that you're meant to be with?

Like the one,

do you believe in the one? - No.

I don't believe in the one.

- No, me neither, so then I'm just like,

just find someone else

'cause you'll fall in love with someone else.

- In your country. - Yeah.

- In your neighborhood. - Yeah.

- Find someone closer. - Find someone.

- But do you guys-- - Make it happen.

- Believe in the one?

Let us know in the comments below,

I'd like to know whether we're common

in thinking that you can fall in love

multiple times in your life.

- Yeah, I think so.

- I think you can. - I don't think there's

the one and then that's it.

- No.

- And then if you lose them it's game over.

- No.

- I think it's a bit different if you're widowed.

And you've had the love of your life,

and then that person dies,

and you don't want to find anyone else,

and you're not interested in that.

- Oh yeah, that's different.

- 'Cause that's literally like you've built

your life with them. - Yeah.

- I think that I kind of believe in the one

after you've spent all of that time with them.

Do you know what I mean? - Okay.

But do you believe that there is one person

that you are set out to be with

that someone, somewhere, whatever God you believe in,

or whatever, even if you don't,

do you believe that they have gone,

this is the person for you

and you're gonna meet. - No, I don't think so.

No, I think that person becomes that person.

- Yeah.

- But I don't think that God, or whoever,

was like you're, Joel was meant to be with Lia.

- Yeah. - I don't believe in that.

- Well because I think if that did happen

all the people that we know that are in love

so like for me, like my parents, I know,

I'm like what are the chances

that they were both born in the same country

and they're both-- - What are the chances?

- You know, lived like an hour away from each other.

If it was truly the one then surely everyone

would have their one, would be in another country.

- Yeah, that's so true.

There's a really good episode of Black Mirror

where, the dating one-- - Yeah, the dating.

- Where they find out their expiring day.

- Yeah! - That's so good.

- That was really good - Don't know which one,

don't know what it's called

but I'll find it. - I can't remember.

- And I can maybe leave it in the comments.

- Yeah, it's really-- - It's really good.

- Black mirror is a great TV series.

- So alright what's the next question Joel?

- Right, you go into the next.

- Okay, number two is

do you believe in ghosts or evil spirits?

Would you be willing to spend a night alone

in a remote house that is supposedly haunted?

- So I have a story about this.

- Okay.

- I do believe in ghosts and evil spirits.

- Same.

- I believe they're more evil spirits rather than ghosts.

- Same.

- And, so anyway, I got an acting job,

my first acting job after we were at Rada,

was for the National Geographic channel,

it was like a, you know like the, reenacting things?

- Yeah, yeah, I remember it. - So basically it was

a story about these American boys

that went hiking in Alaska and they got attacked

by a grizzly bear and it was about their survival.

And so they were recounting their story,

and we were acting it out.

So anyway, I was very excited,

went to Wales, the Brecon Beacons,

that apparently looks like Alaska.

- Apparently. - Apparently.

- On a budget. - On a budget.

- [Both] On a budget.

- I'm on a budge.

- That's gotta stick.

Stay.

Guys, we can't eat here we're on a budge.

- We're on a budge.

Sorry I'm on a budge. - Budge.

- Anyway so we went there and we turned up

at this massive castle, the taxi arrived.

And it turns out it's the most haunted hotel in Wales.

And we arrived there and in the reception

it had about the most haunted bedroom,

I think it was bedroom 18 or something

and it was the most haunted bedroom in the hotel.

The people from Most Haunted,

which is a TV program here in the UK,

I don't know if you have it elsewhere.

Refused to stay in that bedroom.

They tried staying there for the night

and they left halfway through

because it was so haunted and so terrifying

they couldn't stay there.

So anyway, we then get allocated our rooms

and of course what number room am I in?

- 18. - 18.

The most haunted hotel in the country

'cause it's most haunted. - Did you know this after?

- No this was during.

- Right, you knew that whilst you got there,

you were like oh, 18, that's the haunted room.

- Yeah.

- And then you got-- - And so I arrived--

- Given your number, 18. - Yeah, 18.

And the other people in the castle were like 17, 16,

they were down the hall and I was like of course

I'm in the most haunted room on my first acting job,

away from my family for the first time ever.

I'm already nervous about this acting job,

let alone sleeping-- - Oh my gosh.